Yes Desmond this is sad but the truth is even today, races'm does still exist. I know I am bringing a very delicate point to the survice. Not too many would dare to touch this subject with a ten foot pool. But we should be able to talk about this freely.
Of course Desmond unless you find what your have been looking for and be compatable with, yes forget it if he/she is not that one. Yes in that case it is better to be alone.
Oh to be your age again. Yes I know hun, lonelyness can hit you at any age. Do you do any sports?, join if you do, seek where your interest lay, and go with it. Just don't sit at home alone.
Today Shelly I would no longer care either. I am stronger today when it would be about staring etc. You also know there is still race'sm even today. I worked, while living in L.A. with many blacks. They would discuss about their race with me very openly. I have always wondered about this, why with me? Because I was European?
Yes today I agree with you whole heartly Desmond. When/if I would have fallen in love this many years ago, I would not have been strong enough to cope witn all the negativetly from others. People staring, pointing fingers, how hurtful for the man I would love. So I did not let it get it any further at that time.
Not that long ago I dated a native man a few times, broke it off only because he was only 56, to much differents in age.
Well ship different strokes for different folks. I love to share what ever it is. Even the good book says; It is not good for man to live alone. Yes I miss having someone around to do things with together. No one to talk too now, no one to warm my cold feet. Yes I miss the married life very much, as it was good while it lasted. 21 years and 20 days. I wish to get what I lost, back someday.
Some one told Oprah Winfrey that they were colour blind. I loved Oprah's answer; Oh your colour blind? I can see cleary that your white.
Many years ago while living in California a black man wanted to date me. We dated a little I told him that I would not be able to stand it when people would be staring and pointing fingers. It would hurt me too much, if I cared about him. At that time is was indeed a rare sighting to see a black man and a white woman or visa versa. (Where in the 70th. here) My sister having married a Indo,(half Dutch, half Indonesier), was furious at me. You asked him for dinner etc. The thing was he understood me very well. Today I would feel different but it is another time now, or is it? There will always be people frowning about a mixed couple I know. How do you feel about it?
Don't know if you saw the thread where Shelly was my wedding planner. A scammer was soooo impressed with my profile and picture, that he proposed in that first email. (I like a guy who knows what he wants and is smart enough to recognize it when he does) He told he owned a mine. Now knowing he had money; we spared no cost for the wedding and went all out. So if you need advise about "jumping the broom: see Shelly.
I lived in Ottawa about 3 1/2 years. In the town of Greely, worked at Carlton University selling the debit card system to the students.
Ah Steve your a sweetheart. That must have been a very tough time for your mom but great she found love again. Oh I get lonely but I do know what I want. I won't settle for less either. I will never be That lonely that anyone with a pols will do.
Lonely you have not been reading some of my post. I wrote; I draw the line in the sand at ten years younger. Wrote that today I believe in the thread about "networking" Only one response from a 42 year old.
Could I have both? He also said; It is not good for man to be alone. It is easier to love when your loved yourself. For when your loved, you want/need to pass it on.
Never was my cup of tea. Spend twenty years alone between my two husbands. You can be together, yet be alone. One reading the other doing a puzzle or whatever.
When I say “I am a Christian I’m not shouting “I’m clean living,” I am whispering, I was lost, and now I am found and forgiven. When I say “I am a Christian I don’t speak with pride, I am confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide. When I say I am a Christian I am not trying to be strong. I’m professing that I am weak and need His strength to carry on. When I say I am a Christian I am not bragging of success. I am admitting I have failed need the Lord to clean my mess. When I say I am a Christian I am not claiming to be perfect, my flaws are far too visible but God believes I am worth it. When I say I am a Christian I am not holier than thou I’m just a simple sinner who received God’s good grace somehow.
I am not a believer because of fear of going to hell. I have experienced first hand how He made a huge change in my life, from the beginning. Some thing that I by myself had not been able to do. Just could not find the strength to do until then. Something that cost me several years of my life. Nine years to be exact! It was amazing, as the powers that were binding me, were instantly broken, as soon as I asked the Lord to become my Lord and Saviour, too take over my life and He did! (I will always have my own free will when ever I wish to exercise this)
It is not something good for "later" but now, everyday! The many answers to prayer, hearing His voice and knowning that if I had not listened, I would be dead in one instance and not walking in another. These are just two, so many more. Answers that were unmistakable, answers to my prayers.
So even if there really is no heaven nor hell, it is okay, He is here in my life now!
Hey Arabella have you read all of your mail yet? Still reading? I got one but he is a young one. One of these days I say; Who cares? No too much differents is not good.
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Are you colour blind when it comes to different races?......What do you think about a mixed couple?
Yes Desmond this is sad but the truth is even today, races'm does still exist.I know I am bringing a very delicate point to the survice.
Not too many would dare to touch this subject with a ten foot pool.
But we should be able to talk about this freely.