You are very welcome lady. As you so wisely observerd you were good enough to go to bed with. Apparantly were not affraid to "catch" anything. Yes you should be and will be someday not be judged by where you live. As the right man will not care but will only care about you
In Canada you would qualify for suppliment income. Have you tried? Hey this is for people who need it and never mind no sense living below your entitled too. Are you able to move where the wages are higher?
You may have been poor girl but you were not dumb. You realized from early on that it was education that would allow to get out from under. Two degrees and you call yourself low class? Hey did I pick you as daughter of mine and low class?
You better change this girl as you surely are not low class. You can and should be, very proud of yourself.
Almost daily I was confronted with this it just made me fight back harder. Funny these gils taunting me when going to school their parents had a textiel store. They had to stand behind the counter serving me. Yet they were middle and I working class. ???
Lower and middle class. I was born in a dairy story selling not only milk, but butter, eggs etc. This qualified my parent as middle class.
It has gone "down hill" from there lol. Dad sold now only dairy products door to door. He was now working class. Across the street and I am not talking a boulevard in between. Lived the middle class. What did it take to be considered middle class? Well one family's daughter was a dental assists. Some one else was a projectionist in a movie theather. I was confronted by this existences for many years and rebelled as often as I saw my chance. It was sooo riduculous absolutely crazy my dad worked darn hard for his family. Our managers were called Sir. The big boss only talked to his managers
Having found a job in Belgium playing the maid, I was living with the director of the Agfa film companies. (Do you believe me when I tell you I have not even one picture of this time? Especially when company came and I was put into a little black dress and white apron). Bet I looked cute. One day the lady of the house told me that as soon as their new home was build, I would have to eat in the kitchen. I told her that in my home only the dog ate in the kitchen. (never mind we did not even have a dog) It was never mentioned again. I rebelled against this class distinctions as much as I could. I refused to crawl for anyone. Why should I have?
Their daughter was only two years younger. She loved to go swimming with me, but when we would meet on the street, she did not know me.
No, to checking out other guys, but strangly would point out beautiful women to him. Found out later, even when I was too naive to realize it at the time, pointing them out took something away from it for him
I have always seen humour in a lot of things, I would not be here the way I am today, if humour had not carried me through a lot.
I played "tonsil tennis" from when I was 14 years old it is still my favorite indoor and outdoor sport.
Just thinking here now stooie better be careful and use something if it came to that as you don't have a clue where this guy has been last and may already have given her a "souvenir" If you get my drift.
Had that one man for the last few days. Everything that others liked about me, he would have the opposite and be very negative. My profile?, words are cheap he told me. People love your book? It needs a lot of work. (5 writers told me they loved it) etc. ect. Bye, I did not stick around long enough to hear more. These same people will lift you up high and then go for the let- down. Sorry I am not playing Jo-jo with you
"Tonsil tennis" I may like to borrow that one some day stooie. My name is Jenny, Jenny. Jenny, got it? keep it My mom used to call me Jenny big-mouth or Jenny-read. That is a totally other post.
Yes human nature what it is eh? But when it dawns on you where it is leading you better smarten up and chose another path. If my frienda are cronic complainers they don't stay my friend for long.
I never been to "hard-break hotel" growing up as I met mine, wished in hindsight I had not, at 14 married at 20 and came to Canada. 20 years in between husbands I had plenty of heartbreak. As still do occasionally. Not letting it get me down too long. Too many fish in the pond left. Emailing with 3 right now so yes I keep busy and having fun.
D No don't do that, it would make you bitter. Do ask yourself, maybe make notes, how they get to you all the time. Are you too anxious, too soon? Insist on being friends first and observe them and yourself. Be critical if need be.
Just yesterday gave some one back his freedom as he was trying to push me down.
Yes my little girl I know this too. You have too change this patern as only you can do. It is good to dream but you also have to become realistic. It takes training of your mind as some things we have done for sooo long and change is the most difficult thing to do. Even when it does not feel good it is familiar
It would have served as material for my second book. It could have been a best seller a bit more steamy lol. That is the kind that sells. Could have emblazend a bit upon the facts, some of it ha ha
You profile tells me different this is what you would love to be? Then be it! Many things that happen can not be changed. Surround yourself with friends that are possitive the others can drag you down. Yes uplifting music is a good way to go. Your young and very beautiful so keep smiling and find things to smile about.
This is what I do today too. I wonder if my former attitude came from the fact I had to take care of me in another country from the time I was 16. 20 years alone living in California between husbands. I learned there to become more assertive. You know like; no one eats the cheese of my bread at least not while I am watching lol.
In order not to cross bridges that where never there, you need to ask yourself, why you keep doing it. Hitting your head against a cement wall over and over again, hurts.
Sure I need to make certain plans as I need to take care of a home for one thing, I just no longer worry about and find things are often falling into place.
hollandgirl Forum Posts (4,464)
Hello beautiful lady have not met you before or was I napping?
Have you been confronted, had to live with, class distinctions at any time of your life?
Who needs a jerk that does not recognize a good hardworking woman?Keep on trucking fellow.
Your not deserving her.