I havent turned on a TV set in well over 10 years but have gotten to enjoy sitting in front of one now...WHY?...because I love snuggling up to my partner. Its not a compromse just an attitude change on my part.
I personally think its the worst thing CS made available. Years ago when first introduced there were some members who saw it as a popularity contest and actively went canvassing for ratings. ..
But sometimes people with good intentions forget to ask the other person what and where they would like to head which ultimately means we live their life and not our own ....
RE: lovers to friends
diplomatic yes....but reality is 9 times out of ten they dont really want to be friends either.....
saying it just allows THEM to feel less guilty...