Thanks everyone that posted..and CRUISER I thought you were here for the emos (hope your loving our extended summer..just amazing) For those that dont know me..a quick run down...
Been a member for about 7 years with a few breaks in between Was in a LDR for 5 years with an American member on this site and spent quite some time over there..it ended about 1 1/2 years ago but we remain friends. Met quite a few members from here in my travels and each and everyone was totally awesome and just like they were in the forums.Met Kidatheart and he showed me the west cost of Canada...he is one hell of a friend.Came back into CS to try and catch up with some friends..sadly most are gone....but have seen some new members who are fun so decided to hang out a bit. For the main part I just like having a laugh but can ruffle feathers at times because Im pretty open and mean what I say and say what I mean. Im in a relationship and not looking but making new friends is always a bonus.If you want to know more about me just read some of the threads I created...oh and the WOMBAT one is worth a read if you want a laugh also the EGOS FOR SALE one.........
Right or wrong we often say things that are a reaction to something in the present or in the past. Maybe try to explain why you said or did what you did.
People also tend to react more to something that hits home..like something we may not like in ourselves..the truth often hurts ..
Thanks Jeeepers.......imagine what life was like before electronic communication...people waiting weeks on end for a letter..we really have become spoilt and Im enjoying every bit of it
Amazing all this cheap stuff online posted free...but buy something in a local store (even if price is over a couple thousand dollars ) and they charge an arm and a leg for a delivery 5 kilometers down the road ...
Even in this day and age many cultures wont accept people dating or marrying outside their own culture... I have met a lot of Indians and they tend to marry within that culture..often through arranged marriages (yep it still happens). Maybe that is the case in the woman you mention
Just came back from that area a few weeks back ..you are lucky to live in such a gorgeous area ...
I love sitting on our deck watching all the bird life...pelicans,ducks,ibis,spoonbills.....total bliss with a cup of coffee or a galss of wine at night :)
My son was raised like that too...mind there were times he resented a few things I taught him to do....for example...If we went visiting friends and he played with their toys I taught him to pick them up and put them away before we left. Unfortunately not all parents did that so too often he would be left cleaning up the mess after other children played with his toys. I have noticed though he has his son doing the same thing now.
Lovely did you know him before he separated or meet him after???
Looks to me like he didnt really spend any time soul searching..or dealing with his baggage. Please also remember in any marriage/relationship there are always 3 stories...his..hers...and the truth, maybe she got rid of him (just a thought if he keeps running back) You are in a rebound relationship and they are always frought with a lot of ups and downs.
I wish you well and hope you make a decision thats right for you
Ooby have to agree.... Im all for giving people a second chance but really I think the person would need a better excuse than work to cancel a first date
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What sort of CS member are you?
Andy its good to be cautious..but dont let it stop you from making friends..just take it slow