RE: Is marriage at risk?

thumbs up

...just because 5 failed people from different place join together it doesn't mean that 5 million couples have the same miserable stories...I'd rather join the 5 million than listen to the 5...giggle just another excuse perhaps ??? giggle

RE: Is marriage at risk?

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thumbs up just because 50 failed people from different place join together it doesn't mean that 5 million couples have the same miserable stories...I'd rather join the 5 million than listen to the 5...giggle

RE: How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?

sorry, I am not bitter and I am not men hater... it doesn't mean that I had sad experiences in the past by saking such comments...I never had junkie-bf or bad temper bf ... I just didn't ignore red flags and more realistic...

RE: Honesty

yes !!! I don't give any access to scammers and I can not fall in love at the first sight to strangers...unless I am just a plain naïve vulnerable little girl who is hungry for love...

RE: How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?

only if he is worthy...Its not easy for me to fall in love and once I found red flags, I will automatically move on...we can choose what we feel...

and I think I am not demanding person when I say that I can not have relationship with junkies or bad temper guys no matter how good looking he is...

RE: sensitive guys??

if you mean about ability to have empathy and faster to catch the signs, it is extremely needed and genderless... I don't like the slow one who need a ruler to make up his mind... men with 0% sensitivity could be either autism or robotic or selfish or just toooo slow...its a disaster LOL...rolling on the floor laughing

RE: very depressed

You are very bold but not adventurous type... Adventurous types are usually very cool and they could recognize red flags earlier (but naïve ppl would call them paranoia) and they would never regret ever !!!


visited him and ignored red flags ??? wow !!! it is just too bold...




whether its true or not, I hope u get better luck next time, ok ??? wine

RE: women

if she is at your daughter age, you will compete with other younger guys that are mostly 5 years older than her... unless she is seeking convenience things... I supposed...LOL

do recheck more often instead of blame "your bad luck"...

RE: Is there a serious man here

may I ask you: How serious ???

I ignored 2 Thailand tickets and 1 Maldives ticket. The rest I passed said that they want to visit me here because they are on vacation. I just simply don't like changing partners & I don't have any curiosity to try diversity tastes. but it is just me. My junk could/can be someone else's treasures.

RE: Friends with benefits..Should single people have them?

each to their own, me think......and there are some very cool ones that are the best performers too...(not only theoriers but performers)
but I only believe from what factually happened, not from theoriers or gossipers...

RE: ATTRACT

Attractiveness is very subjective matter...
I probably would never give second look to my friend's bf...but they enjoy their relationship...many guys have fat wives or vice versa, but they never exaggerate about each other flaws... and I don't understand about online criteria...

RE: Would you have a long distance relationship?

in what extent ???

Holiday tickets or settle down ???
or just a green card ???
or just because getting bored with local people ???

RE: Is it possible for long distance relationship to succeed?

succeed has different meaning person to person...

in my case, succeed = happily together 'till death do us part...
I only had 1 LDR and it failed (only around 1,5 year)





sorry, I don't count holiday tickets (changing partners regularly included) and I have ignored 4-5 invitations...and back to start local dating again since last year...

RE: Are looks or personality more important??

and I would never argue with the ones who always think that they are better than superstars but cannot prove their words... sounds like dwarfs who try to shoot the moon in the sky.

in my eyes, only the ones with Tom Cruise look or Grace Kelly look that are the perfect 10.

RE: Are looks or personality more important??

ugly personality is the worst wager

RE: Are looks or personality more important??

fact : physical attraction without personality is just a plain crap in the long run ...

Many that are far from Tom Cruise or J-Lo, but they are happy and succeed

RE: Would you sleep with an EX for old time sake???

I would never lick my own spit.



THE END





peace

RE: Friends with benefits..Should single people have them?

It happened to some friends of mine too... Although I never had this experience, I know how complicated FWB things in the long run... One or either party could have possibility to get trapped into something deeper...

RE: fear of rejection

we all had it... and only some can recognize why they got rejected and change their expectations... and some still at the same place and never look at themselves like a dwarf who is trying to reach a rainbow in the sky...


and some showed their fear by attacking first, just like a member of gossip club who gave paranoia label because he can not pass mail filter of other single females he expects to correspond with...

RE: Talkative people??

I found it is so strange when I see a man with female mouth...just sayin'... women talk a bit too much is a common...but I found some of my female friends that are also shy and not many talking and their husbands like that ! But men who like talking too much and do gossiping seem full of estrogen... and terribly strange if he likes overanalyzing in every mm details...giggle

RE: Talkative people??

too silent = boring
too talkative = non stop talking = boring as hell

RE: After the first date if things go well should a guy kiss the girl?

thumbs up


I dumped many hungry wolves.... Their aggressiveness reveals their hidden real purpose... sometimes I would like to donate them to some very needy desperate womengiggle

RE: after haow many dates should you sleep together?

thumbs up that would be very special moment for someone special... I know some people still do this way...or after engagement...

RE: Gut Instinct

it does work for me... the quicker the faster the better...

RE: After the first date if things go well should a guy kiss the girl?

If he is a kind of hurry hungry wolf, I would not give him the 2nd date... I assume that I meet a stranger and I don't know him before, so I think kiss on the 1st date is just toooo naïve and a big turn off for me...If we already open our cards in the very early stage, there is no more curiousity left and we will get bored easier... exceptional if I already knew him before or my acquaintance...

I prefer calm guys because they know how to manage "the rhythm" peace

RE: any good men left on here

many...offline or online...thumbs up

RE: internet dating...a dangerous thing?

that's why I always choose shopping centre, restaurant, cinema, parks or beach where many people gather over there... I would not go to his house earlier nor I invite him before I know him very well...

RE: self knowledge

I am not that smart but I think it is our human nature that always motivate us to improve ourselves become better and better... and only the selfish ones, the autism ones and the slow ones who wait until others get hurt and start to critizise them... IMO...peace

RE: Good idea? Bad idea?

it happened to me long time ago... and I think I am not that hot...giggle oh yeah...and I already kept my distance with the latter guy anyway...

RE: Good idea? Bad idea?

Really ???

Can you explain why do/did some guys fight and even destroy each other because of the same girl ??? And why some single adventurous guys also have some affairs with taken women ???

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