...just because 5 failed people from different place join together it doesn't mean that 5 million couples have the same miserable stories...I'd rather join the 5 million than listen to the 5... just another excuse perhaps ???
just because 50 failed people from different place join together it doesn't mean that 5 million couples have the same miserable stories...I'd rather join the 5 million than listen to the 5...
sorry, I am not bitter and I am not men hater... it doesn't mean that I had sad experiences in the past by saking such comments...I never had junkie-bf or bad temper bf ... I just didn't ignore red flags and more realistic...
yes !!! I don't give any access to scammers and I can not fall in love at the first sight to strangers...unless I am just a plain naïve vulnerable little girl who is hungry for love...
if you mean about ability to have empathy and faster to catch the signs, it is extremely needed and genderless... I don't like the slow one who need a ruler to make up his mind... men with 0% sensitivity could be either autism or robotic or selfish or just toooo slow...its a disaster LOL...
You are very bold but not adventurous type... Adventurous types are usually very cool and they could recognize red flags earlier (but naïve ppl would call them paranoia) and they would never regret ever !!!
visited him and ignored red flags ??? wow !!! it is just too bold...
whether its true or not, I hope u get better luck next time, ok ???
if she is at your daughter age, you will compete with other younger guys that are mostly 5 years older than her... unless she is seeking convenience things... I supposed...LOL
do recheck more often instead of blame "your bad luck"...
I ignored 2 Thailand tickets and 1 Maldives ticket. The rest I passed said that they want to visit me here because they are on vacation. I just simply don't like changing partners & I don't have any curiosity to try diversity tastes. but it is just me. My junk could/can be someone else's treasures.
each to their own, me think......and there are some very cool ones that are the best performers too...(not only theoriers but performers) but I only believe from what factually happened, not from theoriers or gossipers...
Attractiveness is very subjective matter... I probably would never give second look to my friend's bf...but they enjoy their relationship...many guys have fat wives or vice versa, but they never exaggerate about each other flaws... and I don't understand about online criteria...
in my case, succeed = happily together 'till death do us part... I only had 1 LDR and it failed (only around 1,5 year)
sorry, I don't count holiday tickets (changing partners regularly included) and I have ignored 4-5 invitations...and back to start local dating again since last year...
and I would never argue with the ones who always think that they are better than superstars but cannot prove their words... sounds like dwarfs who try to shoot the moon in the sky.
in my eyes, only the ones with Tom Cruise look or Grace Kelly look that are the perfect 10.
It happened to some friends of mine too... Although I never had this experience, I know how complicated FWB things in the long run... One or either party could have possibility to get trapped into something deeper...
we all had it... and only some can recognize why they got rejected and change their expectations... and some still at the same place and never look at themselves like a dwarf who is trying to reach a rainbow in the sky...
and some showed their fear by attacking first, just like a member of gossip club who gave paranoia label because he can not pass mail filter of other single females he expects to correspond with...
I found it is so strange when I see a man with female mouth...just sayin'... women talk a bit too much is a common...but I found some of my female friends that are also shy and not many talking and their husbands like that ! But men who like talking too much and do gossiping seem full of estrogen... and terribly strange if he likes overanalyzing in every mm details...
I dumped many hungry wolves.... Their aggressiveness reveals their hidden real purpose... sometimes I would like to donate them to some very needy desperate women
If he is a kind of hurry hungry wolf, I would not give him the 2nd date... I assume that I meet a stranger and I don't know him before, so I think kiss on the 1st date is just toooo naïve and a big turn off for me...If we already open our cards in the very early stage, there is no more curiousity left and we will get bored easier... exceptional if I already knew him before or my acquaintance...
I prefer calm guys because they know how to manage "the rhythm"
that's why I always choose shopping centre, restaurant, cinema, parks or beach where many people gather over there... I would not go to his house earlier nor I invite him before I know him very well...
I am not that smart but I think it is our human nature that always motivate us to improve ourselves become better and better... and only the selfish ones, the autism ones and the slow ones who wait until others get hurt and start to critizise them... IMO...
Can you explain why do/did some guys fight and even destroy each other because of the same girl ??? And why some single adventurous guys also have some affairs with taken women ???
RE: Is marriage at risk?
...just because 5 failed people from different place join together it doesn't mean that 5 million couples have the same miserable stories...I'd rather join the 5 million than listen to the 5... just another excuse perhaps ???