Hi Dan...What you have to do is decide whether the both of you want to pursue this LD relationship. 80 miles to me is not what I might consider a very long distance. That distance, in my opinion is workable, as opposed to say...one or more states away. In that instance, you have to be prepared to spend money for travel, lodging, food, etc. IF you cannot, or will not do this, it would be best not to pursue the relationship in my opinion. IF you do have financial means for this things, then by all means pursue such. Sooner or later for the relationship to work, one of you must be willing to relocate. I can tell you from experience, distance is a killer. Good Luck!
RE: Who Wants Too
WooHoo!!! You crack me up sometimes.