Lionheart, I think throughout the entire dating cycle of ones life, everyone will at one point in time experience what you have, ie be in a relationship and be dumped, or be attracted to someone and find out that they dont feel the same, or develop feelings for a person beyond what the other is feeling. At the same time you will find that if you go back in time you have also inflicted these scenarios on others ie someone had been attracted to you and you did not feel the same and so on. I believe one has to accept it all as part of the dating cycle. It can be hard basically becuase we make the mistake of believing that rejection is a reflection of our worth and therefore it attacks our self esteem to start with. This is a big mistake not attracting another.....or not being attracted to another has nothing to do with your inner worth and more to do with accepting that for whatever reason; physical, emotional, mental, distance and so on the two of you did not get on. THe best thing to do in life for ones owns sake, for ones own spiritual and emotional developement is to let the person go and wish them the best. Look at it this way would you ever wish to have a person around who does not wish to be there. At the same time have faith that a person who is right for you will come along have a nice day.....
HAPPY EASTER EVERYONE HOPE THE EASTER BUNNY GOT YOU LOTS OF EASTER EGGS AND FIGOLI.........COMING OF SPRING, NEW HOPE AND PASTURES NEW FOR EVERYONE...............
Hye summer not everyone posted anti UK stuff on this thread quite a few said the opposite and if you refer to my earlier posting on the thread you will see one such example...and as for the others well some people have bad experiences and generalise from those that is all its a mistaken approach ..just set it aside if i were you.....
Guys I think you are being a bit unfair ..I mean humour is very much part of the British psyche, its how they relate one to the other and often as well how they deal with many situations in life. I have to be honest I rather like it ..even when turned against yours truly ..which it has been....and of course British humour is at the centre of some great works in the theatre.....TV ...books.. and also has influenced American humour. I think one just has to accept that every nations has its attributes and characteristics and they take time to understand and appreciate. I personally think life would be alot more boring without British humour ..so lets celebrate it instead
Elections are over in Malta .........and I think we should now talk about something else after all let us not foget that the PN won with a relative majority in other words more than 50% of the population did not vote for them in addition our electoral law ensure that minority interests are not rep we are the only parliament in europe to only have candidates from 2 parties rep......so let us not forget the deficincies of a system that has been reelected as well!!!! so who is for taling about hhmm lets see how to avoid first dates and go on straight to the second LOL
You are quite right Marivanna ....... however I would go even further and add that Some people have little knowledge of their own actions and lack perception of their own char.......
Hi Marivanna probably true but statistics if one believes them also shows that women are far more likely to initiate divorces or separations.....so what does that mean? keener to get married but more easily disappointed by the result!!!!!!!!!!!
Hmmm let me see what would I put in gee where would one start......pettiness...meanness......dishonesty......bickering................problem is would rm 101 be like Pandaora's box and at any moment it could be opened again and all the evils of the world released?????????? or do you have some formula for getting this stuff in there and ensuring it stays there please educate us plebs here in that case
well lionheart I may be completely wrong but unfortunately this has been my experience there are of course many people who are guenine...honest...sweet and kind,.......but I have also noticed that there are some individuals who have acted in really bad ways who can also behave so sweetly and kindly ..... I have been deceived numerous times and then you get individuals who are very blunt honest tactless and dont come over very well who underneath are very good people....it was not meant to be a generalisation but it does happen and unfortuantely it makes you far more wary which is not always a good thing i admit
Hmm good question I am not sure..but I would say that evil trives on hidden formulas..the proverbial wolf in sheeps clothing........it works best when not even recognised and in that case ...........honesty cannot be its tool it would expose it and then make it easier to fight...greatest evil is probably hidden bu those who express the sweetest sentiments........!!!!!!!!!!! what do you gys think!!??
Jacko everyone dreams its the way for the subconscience to let go .........usually this occurs in the REM stage of our sleep ie the rapid eyemovement stage which is usually the second phase of our sleep which is the deep sleep stage......many people wake up after this second stage ...or sleep very shallowly therefore they remember their dreams...you are most likely a very deep sleeper and sleep very well ......hence you do not remember your dreams you must have a very clear conscience LOL
MAN FLU......... HELP All men who get this should immediately be put in the isolation ward where they can wimper moan and complain unheard thus not disturbing the womenfolk
Well I think Angie is right if you are in a relationship then it doesnt matter where you are ..cos anywhere is fun.....evern the worst scenario behind the kitchen sink LOL .. going out once...... twice a week.......however provides for entertainment andi f you are single is imperative ......though if you are like me you stay home anyway and then complain when nothing happens ....anyway lates face it long gone are the days when with work and all ......its possible to stay up till 3.00 and then crawl out of bed at 6.30 ...looking fresh faced and up to the job ...................
Wow smoky you are up early! and as for the question where are all the good women...of course there are nice decent women around I suppose they surface when they meet nice decent men!!!
Wow you dont take people prodding fun at you very well!!!!!!!!!!! ......no sense of humour ........you can dish it out I see but ou cant take it!!!!!!!hhmmm I think the shoe is on the other foot!!!!!!! the only problem is you do drink cisk beer so what are ypu going to do now?????
hhhmm can you imagine any airline agreeing to fly him twice in the space of hours...can you imagine the headlines next morning .........plane hit by lightening...the conduit seems to have been this beer guzzling man in the back row.......his beer cans acted on the lightening ensuring that it rickotted off several points on the plane.........all that remains of the gentleman is his hand luggage protected by the high nos of plastic dolls that lined the carrier
Hey is Smoky really going to be in Malta on the 15th.......if that is the case .......I will really make an effort to come ......or i it just a joke!!!!!! the weather is really terrible i cant believe it after all the fantastic days we have had i think we should bring out a petition to ban Lagoona from the island on the basis that he is jinxed and switzerland ..the land of snow and sleet deserve him more!!!!!!
Hey Hootsman I loved that film pay it forward ....even though it ends so sadly ..the moral needs ot be incorporated in all our lives maybe we could change things then - an act of kidness and you expect nothing in return but the ask the other person to pay it forward .....shall we start here
RE: Rejection
Lionheart, I think throughout the entire dating cycle of ones life, everyone will at one point in time experience what you have, ie be in a relationship and be dumped, or be attracted to someone and find out that they dont feel the same, or develop feelings for a person beyond what the other is feeling. At the same time you will find that if you go back in time you have also inflicted these scenarios on others ie someone had been attracted to you and you did not feel the same and so on. I believe one has to accept it all as part of the dating cycle. It can be hard basically becuase we make the mistake of believing that rejection is a reflection of our worth and therefore it attacks our self esteem to start with. This is a big mistake not attracting another.....or not being attracted to another has nothing to do with your inner worth and more to do with accepting that for whatever reason; physical, emotional, mental, distance and so on the two of you did not get on. THe best thing to do in life for ones owns sake, for ones own spiritual and emotional developement is to let the person go and wish them the best. Look at it this way would you ever wish to have a person around who does not wish to be there. At the same time have faith that a person who is right for you will come along have a nice day.....