I'm quite happy here but would prefer northern Spain near the french border where the grass is actually greener ...too dry here! And also to be near the family who are in the south of France.
A Widower, a Divorcee, or someone who has never married and has no children?
From my own personal experience, the Widowers I have met had not really recovered from the loss of their spouse and still living in the past and are usually desperate to find another woman as soon as possible.
The Divorcees I´ve met were ok, as long as they had only been married once, had learned from their mistakes had no anger/resentment issues towards their ex and had lived on their own for some time and moved on.
The ones who have been married 2 or 3 times, with lots of anger issues and still repeating the same pattern are the ones I didn´t get involved with.
As for the men who had never been married and had no kids... another story!
Now, if you´re using a phone, sometimes it happens to me as well when I haven´t enough data or when the internet is very slow it takes ages to download.
I suppose we just drifted apart and we just knew that it was only a temporary relationship - which was great for both of us - and there were lessons to be learned.
As for the horses, something good came out of it after all as I have been helping in a horse rescue centre ever since and the contact with those wonderful animals has helped me a great deal with my recovery.
WIDOWER, DIVORCEE or NEVER BEEN MARRIED?
It would indeed!