Your forgetting that in multicultural society we live in, how many cultures are from all over the world,all mixed or individual thing so you can't put all eggs in the same basket or into generation box.
The worst punishment for lier is not that he /she has conciousness of any guilt to consider demage done and regret deceitfulness and harm done to others but that lier believes in no one when watching self in mirror of deceptions. Hate and anger only makes you prisoner,I always believe, sat them free and find your own light ...
In general I agree with basic foundation your built your belief's system but we're all individually different, there's no rules in anything and the age of person doesn't guarantee maturity of wisdom and I think most of us never achieve real maturity, starting from self. Mature man or women, may have wisdom in one aria of life but be selfishly ignorant - clueless in a relationship of how to 'give and take' and experience is also relative,often confused for maturity =wisdom. Some mature age people may go true adolescence to senility and bypass maturity. Lol You be surprised, there's some mature man who dares to question their younger lady companion about her yearly gross income and her other financial situations but if she questions him about the same thing, I batt he would take all against her that she is after his $ etc. Some individuals are hypocrites' with double standard ( one way street !), those people are like blind man who sabotage self growth and unless individual wants to change for it's own good, no one can help them. Some people refuse to see that the biggest things in life are not material and prefer to see that the grass on the other side of the fence is always greener, never satisfied with what they have ...
In my humble view, the measure of someone maturity is in taking extra care how you speak and act feelings with others, within the bounds of dignity, to be empathetic, to love one another, help one another, and when the opportunity presents itself, we need to show mercy, exercise faith, and give generously, as all of us are called to take risks at one point in time to make changes in our life and realize that not any of us is the centre of the universe, no better or worst, as we all will be turn to dust...and are equal.
I am lucky to meet some great people...humble and loving and I like to see even in greedy and materialistic people other high qualities ...We're all on this earth for a reason; sun and rain touches all of us ...regardless what we think of others, we better stay humble and kind -even when kindness is not given to us.
. There's some man who are heavy category of manipulators, mind game players, control freaks, liers, self centre Narcissist, emotionally unavailable, selfish, materialistics with hidden agenda,users and abusers of given trust ...and so I have no doubt in my mind, there's some women like that too ! I will not take any sense of responsibility to feel ashamed for some women missbehaviour or their mental illnesses, no different to a man of the same type and don't worry in feeling ashamed for some man selfish Dominators .... Happy is the one who accepts objective reality; (what's good for us or not good for our well being !) and keep moving forward....It is fare better to focus on people who are happy to give self 100% to the right person and do the right things....instead of wasting time in letting someone to play with your mind and heart. It's our own choice that makes difference!
I am my own Hero. There was and still are some great individuals who touches my life with wisdom and heartfelt thoightful kindness; no man is island for himself but some of us do it most on its own and supporting others in need.
Oh I didn't know that 'tinder date' means one night stand. Oh no, why would anyone want to stand whole one night, instead of life time resting and guy paying ?
RE: Big difference in age - for and against
Your very wise young lady.