Confidence, endurance, loyalty and fanaticism. Taking on the biggest risk in life without moderation or restraint. Unconditional love means give all, dare all.
The cultural borders of Europe do not match the lines on the map. If you stand in Milan and walk south you arrive in Africa before crossing water and the same is true if you walk south from Barcelona. If you walk south or east from Vienna here too you will find that Europe ends way before the lines as written.
Yes, and what's great is that Jesus and indeed god die. Chrisitianity on the moment where god stops believing in himself and this was the way out for humanity. From god in everything, to lots of gods, to one supreme god to finally the radical absence of god(god's death in history). There is no big other to make you feel anxious in Christianity, what there is is the holy spirit; the egalitarian community on earth - we are all we have and there is no god coming to save us. Christianity was destined to become atheism imo, it's fundamentally based on that moment of doubt and the divergence of god from the earth.
That's why women fancy you more when you have a girlfriend even when they don't officially know it. They can sense that one or more women want you by your lack of schemes and your indifference to the outcome of events.
Of course it's the balance. Complaining that people marry too young is a good way of saying you're not desperate - which is good - but this has to be tempered by the man who knows what he wants. You don't want to look guarded, self-absorbed and indecisive like a woman and pre-occupation with yourself does do this.
And some people need to travel around the world before they realise they're a homo. People don't need to find themselves, they need to get over themselves, stop running away from themselves.
Romantically I believe the best plan is to have no plan. Anything could happen. Spontaneity and openness to experience rely on forgetting about yourself, if you travel through life on a mission to find yourself you'll only ever see what you came to see. A tourist of life, not the traveller.
When I was 19 I got my haircut every bloody week and would wear nothing that didn't flatter me perfectly. I was disgustingly vain, it was the happiest time of my life.
Dating Chinese woman is easier than shooting fish in a barrel, the fish near enough shoot themselves.. if you're white. For the Chinese, however, China is a sausage fest and although of course there's one world for white expats and a very different world for the Chinese I'm surprised you wouldn't know.
I only wish things were still that simple and innocent. Lulling people in to a false of security by pretending there's something wrong with you is the evil plan.
And that's why they spend years at medical school and suffer through being a junior doctor instead of studying finance and making billions with nothing but numbers and often an advanced form of aspergers.
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RE: Unconditional love!
Confidence, endurance, loyalty and fanaticism. Taking on the biggest risk in life without moderation or restraint. Unconditional love means give all, dare all.