is a good way to catch a piece of lead! Can you believe they have sites for that! That is one place I'll never go Did you cheat on your spouse? Was it worth it? Did your spouse cheat on you? I'm not trying to call you out, but sharing your story may help someone from hurting someone else. If you are not happy, or fall in love with someone else, end your marriage or relationship with your other first. Yes it will hurt, but not as bad as the other way. Remember, if she or he cheated with you, they will cheat on you.
Yeah, I could add cheating to the list. My first wife cheated on me, it did not feel good. My second wife never cheated on me, but she damn controlling and arrogant. She is always right! I knew nothing. Then when the child came along .
I feel the same as you Sassy. But, when it gets right down to it I'm not willing to put in all the work it takes in a relationship. I guess I just not ready, or the right person has not come along. Other then that I very happy with who I am and what I'm doing in my life. My hand and my mind keeps me intertained.
Back to the original thred; The majority of people in this world are fat lazy pigs. That includes women too. Have you seen some of the nwoman on these sites? I can tell you the reason the why! They are ugly-fat. When I see BBW, I move on. Some of my friends are fat. I'm not bashing fat people. If that is the way you wish to be, that is your business. But as far as having you as a mate, ain't no freaking way. I just can't get past the ugly fat. You may be a wonderful person on the inside. However, when I'm making love to you I have to look at the outside.
Back to the original thred; The majority of people in this world are fat lazy pigs. That includes women too. Have you seen some of the nwoman on these sites? I can tell you the reason the why! They are ugly-fat. When I see BBW, I move on. Some of my friends are fat. I'm not bashing fat people. If that is the way you wish to be, that is your business. But as far as having you as a mate, ain't no freaking way. I just can't get past the ugly fat. You may be a wonderful person on the inside. However, when I'm making love to you I have to look at the outside.
In general, I find Mainers to be very closed off. Many do not have the basic skills of communication. I have lived here for 25 years and have only a few friends. Last year on my to Sunday River I stoped at a local store in Waterford for a cup of coffee. When I walked in everyone in the joint was talking about the Patriots. I chimed in with my thoughts. Well, you would have thought I had Aids or something. Everyone clamed up, and only looked at each other. I yelled out, " O my god, did a stranger actually speak out loud? What are you going to do, have an interchange with them? Of course not, you lack the basic skills for such activity. No, you'll clam up, and act like the idiots your parents raised." That has been my experience with people from Maine. I'm glad there are people from away, that live in this State. Atleast there are some to talk to. Where are you Joanie? We are here girl!
Buddy, Spend time concentrating on you. Forget about her, she is not coming back. Even if she wants to, could you trust her? If she really loved you she would have gone to England to be with you. Join a club, volunteer for a useful cause. Don't worry about hooking up with anyone right now. It would not be fair to them or yourself. Heal first. When it is time to venture forward, you will know.
RE: You all look like a bunch of weird people.........
Amanda, Give us your pic so we can see how wierd you look. You slam us, but give no ammunition for us! Give it girl.