Just tell her you are supporting your childern to the best of your ability. That your childern are happy. Then change the subject. If she comes back to child support, don't respond. It's none of her business.
Dave makes a great point. He has found that happiness is something in you, not outside of you. You will attarct to your outside what you are inside. Others cannot make you happy, they can only add to your happiness.
Tater, I use to get pissed off at stupid people. Then it dawned on me, where else can you get free halirous entertainment. Sit back and laugh at them. Stupid people crack me up! Plus, they make me look smarter.
Jay, We don't want to tell you how to live. We are just trying to give you sound advice based on our own experiences. I'm 51. I was 19 through 1 year of my life. If I could I would go back and do a few things differently. I always tell my son and his friends to wait till they are 25, 26 before they get involved in a long term re-ship. So far they are following that advice and having a blast. Their friends who don't are going through a lot of heart ache and are now paying for babies they are not living with. That is why you see so many single parents. The part of your brain that helps you make correct decissions based on previous actions, does not fully develope until age 26 in males and 24 in females. Date women, have fun. But before you settle down, learn who you are first. Then you'll make better choices later.
Thankyou all. I have read all the replys and you have given me hope, that next time I become involved in a relationship with a woman that I look for one that does not like arguing just to argue. Making your point is quite alright, as long as you don't make it through 6 different points of view. And no I do not like arguing. Tell me your issue, then allow me time to mull it over. Thanks for helping me heal some of the scars!
Welcome Let's do it. You will quickly find it is a fun place. There are some here that are dumb idiots. Except for Diamond, he can tell a damn good joke.
Although I'm not intrested at this point in a LTR, I get more flowers and e-mails from women outside the US. Why? I don't get it. Then they'll start crying they can't find Mr. Right.
There is alot of money in geriatric care in the states. No dought lobbyist influence the decission about legal suicide. As if they can prosecute a dead person. Then you factor in the defacto religious stand of our goverment, it will never be legal here. However, I'm for it. If I'm ill with no hope, and facing an agonizing death, I want to decide when I go. After all, it is MY life. It is MY body. But you know what the bottom line is. I can put a gun to my head and pull the trigger. What the hell can they do? If I'm a quadraplegic and stuck in a bed, I don't want to live that way. Atleast let me end it, when I choose.
Happiness comes from within also. When I hear someone say, " I need a man (or woman ) to make me happy." I see someone doomed for failure. Unless you suffer from clinical depression or other disorder you choose to be happy or not. And being happy has every thing to do with how you view yourself.
HJ, have you read the book, "10 Secrets for Success and Inner Peace" W D Dyer? There is alot of wisdom you would enjoy in that book. You just happened on one if you have not read it. If you have then you know what I'm talking about.
He brought his dog? Bad move dude. That would be the same as bring your kids to a first date. You made the right choice. The fact that he brought his dog shows he has little manners. If you don't know the place to where you are going then leave your pets at home! Just because you love your pet doesn't mean others will. He is as bad as my former inlaws. They always bring their pitbull even though we have a cat. The cat hides in the woods until they leave. I even told them to leave the pet at home or in a shelter. They still bring the dog, stupid people. I'm glad they are my x-inlaws!
Yes, I have sen ghost. Several times in my youth. But the most recent was 2 summers ago. Some of my inlaws live on the edge of the "Calvary" battlefield in Gettsburg, Pa. I was in the back yard talking on the phone when a ghost dressed like a soldier ran down a creek bed. I called for him to come back so I could talk to him. He did not return. My nephew is a spirt transferer. He allows ghost to complete their journey through him. At an accident scene I was helping to remove a man from a vechicle when he died. I had my hands on him when I felt him exit the world through me. For the most part, ghost are not scary violent. They are souls trapped here on earth and are trying to find their release. I will be in Gettysburg this summer and plan on joining my nephew in his next release ceremony. Ghost are real. Not to be feared for the most part. Talk to them, some will respond.
Sometimes our expectations are so high, 90% of people can't meet them. So you narrow the dating pool by a large margin. I was on one dating site where a lady had around 15 "you cannot not be..." Then she starts complaining she has trouble finding dates. I think if we choose 2 or 3 things we can't tolerate in a mate, and compromise on the rest you'll have more success. Remember, the person you date has to put up with idiosyncrasaties. The more don'ts you have, the less does you'll get.
Have you ever watched the show "Cheaters"? There is alot of pain and suffering when people cheat. Breaking off your current relationship before you take up with someone else, is far less painful to the innocent mate. Finding out your loved one is cheating on you hurts very deep.
Kissme won't talk to me, she thinks I pick on her. Morning Kissme. Do you think you can change your name? Calling someone "Kissmedeeply" when she belongs to another is a little unsettling. Would you let your SO keep the name "Bangmehard" if he were on this or any other site?
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RE: can anyone relate with me one this one
Just tell her you are supporting your childern to the best of your ability. That your childern are happy. Then change the subject. If she comes back to child support, don't respond. It's none of her business.