Take all your clothes off and run down the block naked. Soon the police will show up and chase you all over the neibhorhood. Would that be exciting enough for you?
Ditto Ruthie. You don't want to be walking on eggs, not a fun way to live. You may very well love this man, but you will be very unhappy with your life. He should aleast be there with you at the funeral, at the very least. You don't want his issues. Walk away.
But Big John, we have seen in physical life people lie about themselves and have not remained true to their word. I think it is esier to do this behind a screen. The person typing the words is real, but are they being real to us?
This is just my point. You really didn't get to know the real person until you get to that certain point in your lives, when his true self immerged. You can't get to that point if you are not in a physical relationship. Until that time you only have what you precieve in your mind. What you precieve may be correct, or maybe not. But you won't know until you meet in physical life.
Like your new pic Big John. How are you? Personally I view it as real people. Some don't however and spout oot hurtful things to others. They don't care, they'll never meet them in real life, they are thinking.
I see some people respond to someone saying, "In real life ect..." How do you see others in forums. Does it seem like real life and people to you? Or, do you feel it is all fake. Therefore you can say and do anything you wish. Is cyber world real, or fake to you?
You can develope a strong attraction to precieved ideas of the person. But you really can't get to know them until you spend physical time with them. What is that old saying,"You really don't know someone until you have lived with them." I think that is why there are so many faliures in on-line dating. They develope an attraction to someone, meet and there is no physical attraction. Some success stories, but more failures. Same as in physical life.
So true Queen. There are many issue a soon to be divorced person has to deal with, otherwise they drag those issues with them into the next relationship. And why do you want to drag the new innocent person through a divorce with you?
However, the length of the seperation and the reasons for not divorcing may be factors to consider. But, for the most part, stay away.
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