Tam, I try not to let things in my life get too far out of hand. I observe the situation to see if it has an immediate fix. If so I fix it. If not, I put it on the back bunner until I can fix the problem. Then I seek out activites that will take my mind off the issue. I don't let myself get too far near the pit. I meditate and think positive thoughts, or hang with friends to bring my mood up. I find people in the news who are having a difficult time in their life. It makes me realize my situation is not that bad.
There is software that can turn you invisible on the internet. Even law enforcement will not be able to find you. The product name is Ghost Surf. Here is what it will do:
1. Remove personally - indentifiying information from web request. 2. Send your data through Tenebrill's high-performance anonymous hubs, hiding your IP address and blocking traces. 3. Encrypt all the web data to and from your computer, preventing everyone from seeing what your doing. 4. Scan your computer for software that could be surreptitiously spying on you, and disable that software when found. 5. Scrub unwanted files, and traces of your surfing, with military-grade erasers to keep other users from discovering your tracks.
If I so choose I can go completely invisible on the internet. I can be someone from Japan in one search, but someone from Texas on the next search. Great program for ultimate protection.
Zombie, I don't give a hang if you or anyone else thinks I'm real. I know I am, that is all that matters. And, if you are smart enough you can figure out who is real or not. Besides, I'm not using this site to find a mate, there are plenty of women in the dating pool in my physical area if that is what I choose to do. I'm here for friends and conversation. Real or not. Get real dude.
Mrali, according to the laws of space/time continuum all forces of energy leaves an imprint of the fabric of space and time. So the flowing water does have a reaction. The kite also leaves a reaction on the same fabric. Besides, Jesse already showed flowing water erodes all things. That is also the reaction of the action of flowing water.
If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.
I guess internet dating is backwards. We get to know someone first, then see if there is any chemistry in physical life. In physical life there is attraction first, then you get to know them. Atleast in physical life there is a chance you'll get laid.
RE: Hitting Rock Bottom and How Do You Act?
Tam, I try not to let things in my life get too far out of hand. I observe the situation to see if it has an immediate fix. If so I fix it. If not, I put it on the back bunner until I can fix the problem. Then I seek out activites that will take my mind off the issue. I don't let myself get too far near the pit. I meditate and think positive thoughts, or hang with friends to bring my mood up. I find people in the news who are having a difficult time in their life. It makes me realize my situation is not that bad.