I dated my friends sister. First I asked him if he would have a problem. He said no, have at it. The dating didn't last long, but our friendship did. Now in your case, they went about it the wrong way. They didn't tell you, someone else did? I would sit down and have a talk with them. Tell them you approve(if you do), them tell them you did not like finding out the way you did. Then let it go. Your sister and your friend are more important then any grudge you can hold. Take the first step, clear the air. Best wishes to you.
Hearing her voice, looking at her picture. That is what we have right now. I ache for the first time I see her at the airport. Very soon my love, very soon.
Send flowers to yourself with a love note to yourself! I don't know, will that work? Every day should be special. What do we know but that we won't be here for the next one. Morbid I know, but true.
The time apart is but a brief period in your life. When it is meant to happen it will. You still have a little piece of your journey to him left. Best wishes!
No body wants long distance. Every has said long distance sucks. But peole are looking for their SOULMATE. They may not be in a local bar. Your soulmate is not your neighbors spouse. If it is then you have a problem. Anyone can come here if they wish. Your soulmate may be in Florida, USA. But you just shut yourself off from them.
My mother died some 32 years ago. On the night she died I was sleeping in her bed, she was in a hospital. My father was staying with my sister. I had a dream, very real, full color. I can still close my eyes and relive the dream. My mother enters her room, wakes me up. As she is packing her bags she tells me she is going on a trip, that she will meet me when I take the same trip. I watch her leave the house, and walk down the street. She turns and waves and says she loves me. I returned to the bed. The phone rang in real life, it was the hospital saying my mother had passed. She still makes me aware she is around today. So, I believe in life before, life now, life later. What are we but spirt creatures in a physical body. When a person dies, his spirt goes out and returns to the creator. Then becomes what the creator wishes. This is just one part of our journey. How we treat others now will determine what we will be later. Does that make sense to you Dusty?
I'll add; Don't ever say you are not going to get involved in a LTR. I'm coming out of a bad marriage and I swore I was not going to get involved with anyone for a long time, if ever. I completely put it out of my mind, until I clicked on her profile. I had the strongest urge to jump into her picture. I fought it. But, I keep being drawn to her profile and I loved what I was hearing from her in her posts. Then one day we had a funny exchange, and she stole my heart. So, don't give up searching, and never, never say never. Cupid has an odd sense of humor, and a very good aim. I truly love you Dru.
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Welcome, we are a crazy bunch! You'll have fun.
RE: Pictures
You mean he is not a cutie when he doesn't? Zee, get your pic up fast, your losing ground!