That is because society has pre-conditoned us to view things this way-ego. You need to find the spirtual woman. The woman that has pushed the ego driven, materalistic world behind her, and embraces her inner spirtual self. Which means you need to change yourself first to attract her.
And when I go away I know my heart can stay with my love It's understood It's in the hands of my love, and my love does it good, Wo wo wo wo,... My love does it good.
Only my love holds the key to me Wo wo My love does it good.
And when the cupboard's bare I'll still find something there with my love. It's understood It's everywhere with my love and my love does it good.
Don't ever ask me why I'll never say goodbye to my love It's understood. It's everywhere with my love MY LOVE DOES IT GOOD.
RE: Is it okay to date a friend or family member's ex?
Only if that friend or family member is deceased. How could you hurt another by doing that?