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Sweetkim, You are very smart to demand politeness from a partner. Using manners requires humility, which requires inner strength. Manners also require intelligence. Be true to yourself, don't date an idiot.
Do you love only one person? Have you ever been in love with someone else? Maybe he fell in love with someone else. Or maybe he can't take care of himself, and needs someone to do that for him. Five months is kind of quick. I'm saying it's the latter. I've been on my own for 1.5 years and I'm no where near ready to live with someone or marry them. To you, love is a very deep feeling. To others it is skin deep. Some people have a warp view of love. I envy your next partner, he'll encounter someone with a deep sense of loyalty and trust. Move on, your worth more than he.
I always tell my son that every action has a reaction. If you drop a ball, a good action it will return to you to do again. If you drop an egg, a bad action, it will shatter your life. Then I show him the consequences of both actions. That is the problem with some of our kids today. How often are the real consequences of negative action revealed in the movies they watch. How often are they exposed to the sometimes disastrous outcomes of stupid actions. Around the age of 12 I sat my son down to watch "Cops", "Trauma, Life in the ER" and "Code Blue". You want to break the law, this is what the cops will do to you. "Trauma" and "Code Blue" are real life events in Emergency Rooms around the country. They are graphic and show real life events, including death. The world is a dangerous place, educating them about those dangers and the outcome will go along way in protecting them. I know, when I got my Auto learners permit my father put me on the Police towing squad as a volunteer. I later became an employee, towing collisions. That education taught me early and has stayed with me all my life. The best thing my father ever did, besides donating the spearm.
If you have to tell little white lies to your partner because you know what you are doing will upset them, then you are with the wrong person, for you and them. If you are teling your partner lies to protect the relationship, stop. Tell them it is not working for you anymore. Being a liar creates stress,angry and unhappiness in your life. Lying about who you are only creates negativity in your life. Why do you want to live that way? If you know your partner is lying to you. They are doing things behind your back that you can not tolarate in your life. Get out. They are not the right one for you. And don't think you will be able to change them. The only person that can change them, is them. You may say, "But I really love them." That may be true. But, does the liar really love you? If they really love you, would they lie to you? People, listen to me. YOUR HAPPINESS, YOUR HEALTH AND YOUR INTEGRITY are the only things you really have possession of. Do not let others take that from you.
You are so back-asswards. No wonder your Countries are such a mess! Did you hear about the group of MEN in one of your countries, who threw acid on a group of 10 year old school girls. Because they were going to school! I have a message for those men: come face me man-to-man, I'll show you what cowards you are! What's wrong buddy, were you rejected by a younger girl and you feel like lashing out? "You better marry me while you have the chance." "NO mister, I don't like you." Is that the way it went, loser? Please.
No, I have enough of a time keeping my son on his meds. He has clinical depression. I know a few women who have BP. Although I like them, I just can't take on their problems.
Druidess will grap your package. I quess that is a pretty clear signal. Another one is: you push me on the bed and start ripping off my clothes. You stand over me taking off your clothes. There are many things you could do to show your man you want him.
Trust is an issue. What do you not trust? I can handle commitment again. A traditional marriage is out. We may live together or maybe not. I will always maintain my own apartment or house. Some place to be alone when needed.
I do not want to raise someone else's kids. I do not want someone else to raise my child. I stuck around to raise my son. I thought about leaving till i found she was pregnant. Guys, if you father childern, raise them! If you don't want to raise childern, then don't get her pregnant! You don't want to live with her, but you'll leave your kid with her? Your offspring will not have you in the picture? Why do you want to do that to your kids? These are your childern. You have the responsibilty to care for them. You need to be their role model. It is time men take responsibilty for their actions. You father, you raise. Which means you need to think before you shoot!
I told him if he wanted to live through the night he should use the door he came in. She i told to stay at friends house. I'll be gone in morning. and i was, forever
Gilly, Thanks for the invite. I spent many hours in therapy hashing out my childhood. I have forgiven those to blame and have no need to go there again. However, I do hold myself to blame if I let it dominate and control my life today. Your parents only did as they were taught to do. You however can change that pattern with your own kids and future generations after you. Don't let them continue to control your life. It is yours not theirs.
Gilly, I want to ask you this question, not out of being critical but out of concern. Are you seeing a therapist? It seems you have some issues with your childhood you are trying to get rid of. A person trained in childhood trauma can help you through that process. I know Buddy, been there. The other side is a hell of alot better than all the pain you are suffering right now.
Merry Freaking Christmas Gilly, Don't feel bad about not buying presents for any one, your presence is a nice gift. I didn't buy presents for anyone. I made all the gifts with my own hands. They came out so well I'am keeping them for myself.
Mortalez, I was shocked when I loged on to my first dating site. Then I realized, I ain't no spring chicken either. The problem with women our age, the old tricks and lines don't work. They are too smart! They now have their freedom, theyare not going to surrender it. For that fact neither am I. I'm the one looking for the 7% er. The women I'm meeting want long term. Maybe you and I should switch bodies. You'll get what youwant and I'll get mine.LOL
Don't answer it guys. It's a trick question. Only kidding. It would depend on the chemistry. I've been attracted to larger women. What concerns me is the effect of too much weight has on your health. I know, I weighed 275 lb. just 4 years ago. It was having an impact on my health. I now weigh 220 lbs. I found what worked for me. I'll share it with you, email me. It is so easy! It doesn't cost much, just the price of a book. You don't need to join a gym. The biggest thing is: YOU HAVE TO WANT TO DO IT. If you are happy with the way you are, great. If you are not, change it.
But then again, maybe it is you. Do you seem too desparate, too needy? Do you cling like there is no tomorrow? The best way to find out is ask the women you dated. Don't accept "It just wasn't right" excuse. Ask specific reasons why. Do not take their cricticsm negatively, but constructivly. Just remember, their are 7 women to ever man. They are more desprate then we are. I know I'm going to get slamed for that remark. But it only stands to reason. Find out where you need to improve if that is the case. There is someone for everyone. Well, there are 7 someones for you. Find her, um them.
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RE: AM I ATTRACTIVE?
If you think you are attractive, then others will find you attractive. Learn how to apply the "Law of Attraction" to your life. You will start getting what you want.