I'm not going to bother to ask you to not take what I have to say the wrong way because you either will or you won't. (I'm satisfied that it is just my comment, nothing more. You should be, too). Here goes: If 'color' should not be a stereotype, why do you mention it? Fair enough?
Put the shoe on the other foot, bud, now really. (If she had called you and you honestly had not heard it ringing, how would it make you feel if she doubted YOU? I say give her a break- after all, she did answer. Look, you could be right, but loving someone means being willing to give them the benefit of the doubt. You can find out if she's truly loyal without looking "bad". Use some common sense. You're celtic, ya know.
Hey--alert everybody who counts: a website member is trying to IM me. the system here will not accommodate it!!! whoever you are please use the regular e-mail if you want to talk. I will always respond to polite letters. a**hole get kicked to the curb. Fair enough?
Check this one out, guys: "Is there no virtue [(in believing)] save a wholesome fear of hellfire"? The Scarlet Letter, N. Hawthorn.
thought this was good for thought...I do believe, but I often wonder what kind of sincerity God can feel from "believers" who only do so because they're afraid of not getting into heaven (!) your thoughts? (isn't religion/spirituality just a jumbled, mixed bag sometimes? fascinating............ )
I want to say that I believe in God, am a Christian. I have a belief that many other Christians do not agree with, though, and that is God is individualized to me. In other words, I don't buy this "blanket" policy thing that everything is set in stone for everyone. Of course there are universal conduct rights and wrongs, you don't hurt others, take what doesn't belong to you, lie, etc... but as far as spiritual gifts God takes care and communicates with me in a different way than He does with anybody else, and there is no "wrong' about this just because he sees me as a unique person and in turn is unique to ME. Does that explain how I feel? I had a hard time putting this into words. thanx
YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT. I LOVE IT WHEN FOLKS STAND BEHIND THEMSELVES. I get some of this overacting behaavior, too, when I'm just having a little fun. Whatsamattah 'wid du people today? Thank you jvaski for this post.
Thanks a million, Laura. Hey, do you know where Craig is? Dinosaur Flats? Steamboat Springs? I've been there!! One thing about Colorado (and I loved it all) rustic, rowdy bunch y'all! thanx for the good wishes--life on the beach is great, lovie. Write again or feel free to e-m, too.
Be interested in their interests--ask about whatever they seem to like, hobbies, etc... see what they put in their profiles and be creative in your response. Try to find common ground, and let her tell YOU - "if nature intended for us to talk more than hear, we would have two mouths, and one ear". Kapiche?
Howdy guys--I'll make this quick. This guy from England recently wrote to me and it seemed we hit it off, just shooting the breeze, pals, you know. Well, I went to write him a short note this morning and not only can I not find his prof., his letters to me and mine to him are completely gone. I typed in his moniker but the reply said "not found". Anybody else have this happen and if so what the heck? Thanks
thanks honey. It's showing "profile hidden or deleted" that is all. If I'm not mistaken, this has happened before and in a few days/weeks, shazamm, there they are again... Here's a rose, sweetheart
I'm not clear whether you quite got this, so google "State of California vs Dan White". I don't want to talk out of school, so am open to being "corrected" if wrong, but it's about too many carbs and sugars purged into the system coupled with over exertion and stress and is believed to cause inordinate "acting out" as it were- kind of a "the sweets made me do it" defense. Did I explain this O.K.?
Hello out there in la la land everybody. Just wondering where some of my faves have gone--(can I say their 'names' (?) well, taking a chance anyhow: Ali, Bettyboop, for instance? What's going on here? will they come back? Are they on hiatus? haa haa
Oh, I forgot to ask you--can't tell exactly but is that a "gap" in your front teeth? Johnny Carson had one, and people with this are known to be smart--IQ is usually much higher than the average.
R O B E R T O ! hey--good to see ya back . I thought you got yerself into trouble or something--had to go sit in the corner. (?) Wow, you have some narly you-know-whats there, telling this guy off! (I like you, robert..)
Just curious--are you looking for a younger woman? I don't think they really think of us older guys as being "disgusting", maybe they want a young man closer to their age? There are many beautiful women near your age who would be wonderful companion for you. Sometimes young people think older folks just aren't much fun, even if they haven't given us a chance, you know. I'd say to find a lady about your own age--you might be surprised at the beauty/quality you can find. I know a 63 year old woman who is a knock out. Besides, the too young ladies are still all boogered up about trivial things. Mature gals are past all that ram a bam a bing bong goofy stuff. Kapiche?
You make some thoughtful statements. After working in the medical-social field for over 30 years, please understand that there are few exact sciences. However, to their credit, many counselors, psychologists and psychiatrists treat their clients' depression by ---guess what?--keeping them BUSY. Especially in tasks and goals designed to help OTHERS. Seems to work. (Psychological medication is largely a bandage, not a cure...)
I hear you--I believe I do have some encouraging, or at least thought-provoking ideas about this. In Japan, school days/years are far longer, with much longer periods of lecture, studying, etc... It is very strict. In France, young (and I mean young) people must choose a career path very early on--not much margin is given for slow starters and those who may change their minds. Other countries have rigid uniform rules, the hierarchy is ultra-defined. I'm glad for the way I was educated, rather agriculture-oriented and "woodsy", also took a course for boys regarding budgeting, home-making, cooking skills. Perhaps it could be viewed as less "educated" than what you are describing, but much can be said for the child who is allowed to daydream, swim in the creek, and go fishing. I'll take Huckleberry Finn over Little Lord Fauntelroy any old day. Just my thoughts.
Many pharmaceutical products as well as alcohol can at least temporarily disable a man's ability to get there stay, there, and (do I have to spell it out?) so avoid too much drinking before going there. As far as robert's questions and comments re" pre-you know whatting, (s i g h ) here we go. Now Robert, it's like this, you (or someone else) take the thingamajig and whatchamucallits and spend some time you-know what i mean ing but not too quickly and you should end up being a happy camper. Got it?
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Here's a rose, sweetheart 
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I'm not going to bother to ask you to not take what I have to say the wrong way because you either will or you won't. (I'm satisfied that it is just my comment, nothing more. You should be, too). Here goes: If 'color' should not be a stereotype, why do you mention it? Fair enough?