We have the curvy, voluptuous, ripped, athletic, average, few extra pounds, proportional etc etc (if i missed any) what HONESTLY is the type that attracts you?
Then can we agree that reaching "rock bottom" is a good thing?..it stops us from spiriling even further out of control..gives us the push we need to regain our life..because when you reach rock bottom i guess there's no where else to go but up!!
At first i was thinking that i shouldn't have to "give up" anything for love..but after reading Windy's post..i realize I already have...what i gave was my willingness to believe "it" can work, my time and effort and most of up I gave "me"...should be enough don't you think?
But those are the experiences that will make a better man of you Rascal..its having been there and being able to show compassion..and by the way still being able to charm the ladies...
Colin thank you for your concern....but Wayne is right...the thread was when did you know you had reached your rock bottom...it was a long time ago..and as you can see that wasn't an option for me, so i had to get up and put one foot in front of the other and keep living...so here i am some 20 years later...still kicking it!!
Maybe after dinner and you're walking around you can pick up some small token to remind him of his visit there? something that will represent the time you both spent together?
We're not pissed off at ALL men Colin...just the ones that we knew!!...or else we wouldn't be on here looking for another one hmmm?
But you have to admit...we come on here where there are scads of profiles of men wanting a "life' promising the "world" etc etc..and 30 seconds into chatting with them they are being pigs..saying rude things on the forum (??) and of course the ones with the fictitious profiles...and then you want us to go all out for men without getting a few "jabs" in first?
If you have been chatting a while now, you should know what interests him...and i would take an impersonal gift to a first meeting if i felt the need to take something...what about a book or something, does he have a hobby?
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YOUR ROCK BOTTOM.....
Sorry James that blush and kiss was for your comment....