You mean to say i have NO CHANCE with you at all???
Thanks Joovisst...i'll keep what you said in mind...I really don't WANT to clean so much..i just can't seem to help it and now its like second nature i don't even think about what i'm doing..i just do it..and i work outside the home as well so believe me..i need to rest!
Anyone on here have a compulsive disorder or some sort? And is there any help for this really???
Mine happens to be cleaning...i am a fanatic about having my house clean...i know i know...but i get out the q-tips and old toothbrush when i clean...i'm burning myself out with this...
Thanks Joovist...i was very concerned but had nothing but my parental instinct to go on...at least now i can discuss it better with her (I have to choose my battles carefully!!)
I'm sure we've ALL heard that saying, and also believe it... so then why is it when ONE person lets you down or rejects you...you believe everyone else will feel the same way?
I've actually heard of this...my family on my mother's side swear by this...however...to hear them tell it, we are decendants of the original habitants of the West Indian Islands...which were Carib Indians...and they were CANNIBALS!!
It's okay to be disillusioned and down Kris...but you can't really change who you really are...and you are a happy sweetheart...just hang in there and put one foot in front of the other one day at a time...
I don't necessarily think women believe they are superior to men..I too have worked in a Court room, and my experience there noticing the same thing that you have Allan is that women have to try harder to gain the recognition and respect (and be heard!) that men in there take as their due...
I will concede that some women may push harder...but i've always just chalked that one up to "something" (someone?) made them believe they had to push that hard to gain any ground...
Jonathan IF i have bashed others...then they probably know why and they deserved it..I do not consider defending others from vindictive and low class comments as "bashing"....JMHO...
There are far too many others on here that see me from another perspective, for me to take on your one jaded opinion...and that of Colin's if that's who you meant!
It really is disheartening to watch unfold...because for some of us who are on the brink of "taking chances" those women were inspirations for us to get up from behind the computer and grab life by its horns...but that was back when i believed dating sites were just that..."dating" sites....i honestly believed everyone wanted the same thing here...there are so many "intimate encounter" sites that it seemed a waste of time for "those people" to be on here...and then it does make you wonder if a "relationship" on here turns sour do you have to worry about having your "dirty laundry" hung out in the forums for all to see...
And by the way these are the same men that want women with "No Baggage"...where did they think we got that baggage in the first place...if not from men such as themselves!!
After reading the threads and their replies on here..it got me to thinking...
What is up with all the men coming on here and saying what a wonderful catch they are and how they just want to find someone to settle down with etc etc....and then when they find a woman prepared to do exactly that...be with them (whether in the same state or not)...share her life with them...they turn around and start calling names..."gold digger" "cash strapped" "liar" "cheater" and the many other inventive names that men come up with....I know very well this happens to a few men on here as well...
What is everyone's opinion on what has been going on...and more recently it seems..
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COMPULSIVE DISORDERS....
Sorry love...no amount of therapy will get me to leave dirty dishes until they are greenAnd as cute as i think it is that you want to be a "dirty mongler"...I believe the term is "dirt monger"