You know i really had high hopes when i joined the "dating sites"...i have been terribly disillusioned (but still loving it!!) I have heard more reasons why a relationship will NOT work rather than why it COULD work...
Are we really on here to find someone...or just because we have AWESOME friends we can seem to let go of?...not to mention the opportunity to "vent" when the mood strikes us!
Personally i thought that i would want love above all else...i am capable of working for the material things i want and have done so...yes i like nice things..i never thought i had to have a man to provide them for me...but it seems i'm wrong...apparently i don't know myself at all...or so i hear...
But that's just it...it is meant as harmless...if i am with someone its because I WANT TO BE THERE...not because i have to be there...but i don't want to hurt anyone...and chances are it is because of my flirtatious nature that i would have hooked up with my partner...
He is a disgrace to the truly educated black men out there that would not have to spew such drivvel to convince others that he is educated...book sense does not make one necessarily educated...
A cornacopia of lengthy words seldom used does not prove anything...you are dating an African because no true American woman would put up with your nonsense!!
I think the older I get the more I am able to discern the two...so i do find it easier now to have "male friends"...the flirting is still there..and off the wall comments...but its all done in fun...I like that!
Every age has a different quality that is appealing...you need to find the age group that has what you are looking for...whether you're in that group or not...
It was the point i was trying to get at...that a person can sit at their computer and send out a dozen messages, but in real life they would not go to a bar and try to hit on a dozen women at the same time...sometimes on here you are trying to read their message, read their profile and really get to know them, but how can you do that when you are trying to do the same with a 10 other messages....
But i agree with you that being able to have the barrier of a computer screen does give you a boost of confidence you wouldn't normally might have....and the rejection is not to "public"
Thought i'd raise this thread again...now that people have gotten to know me and i them, it seems that this is a problem on dating sites TOO MUCH ATTENTION....
Some people have now been on here a bit longer, so are you finding it overwhelming to have so many choices? and when i say choices its because different people have different qualities so you find yourself being attracted to more than one...
Well i've never had problems filling out my jeans...and i've never heard it described as a "hole at the end of my spine"....it's a handful..that's for sure..!!
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RE: which 2 CS members would make a good couple?
ColinJames is already taken...remember...he told us about his little "problem" (*wink*) with his roommate!