Thank you so much everyone...this is a "first" for me..i still have my mother...it almost feels like my "anchors" in this world has started to come loose...
Today i have lost my father...and though we knew he was going to die (he had cancer) I can't seem to come to grips that this man is gone from my life...i don't think it has really sunk in as yet..and yes here i am in the forums on a day like today...because i didn't know where else to turn...how does one cope with this grieving process? What can i expect in days to come and how do i cope with it?
Well i can't believe i am the only one getting such emails..(it usually involves my tattoos or my careers..) and yes i have used the block button...but i'm just wondering why i have to?...i thought we were all adults on here..and it has certainly left a bad taste in my mouth.. I don't necessarily consider it harrassment...everyone is entitled to their own opinion certainly, and i have in no way professed to be what every man is looking for...but wouldn't their time be better spent emailing people they are interested in rather than the ones they arent?
SERIOUS QUESTION HERE!!...if you didn't like something about someone you saw on here...or didn't like something in their profile...would you message them?...and why?
We could ask men the same question...there are a lot of really wonderful caring giving women on here...Why?...Is it because the men go after the "good time girls" and leave us to wonder...
LOL..no wonder i got stuck with the moniker "wicked"!! However, if someone read my profile they would see that i could not have worked or studied the subjects i did if i was only interested in putting my "looks" out there. And not to totally ruin any fantasy..lol..but i'm actually a homebody..i look the way i do because that's just me!! I dress like that to clean the house, to mundane things as groceries, errands etc etc...i'm really no different than anyone else...however..it would be nice to find someone who can appreciate the fact that i'm quite capable of being an accomplished partner...as well as their fantasy!!
If they don't know me and i don't know them...then how do they know what will disappoint me... I guess i'm looking for some men to respond so i know what their thought process behind this line is....
I keep getting this line from men in their first emails... what exactly does that mean to you? (especially when there is no picture on their profile...)
I am very very mixed!! (and loving it by the way!!) I am Canadian but originally from the West Indies. The island i come from is Trinidad which is next to Venezuela and we have a lot of Latin influence. I am also mixed with Indian and Black. I have ancestors from Haiti on my mothers side and Portuguese on my fathers side...I feel i inherited the best of all those cultures..but decided it wasn't enough (lol) so i married a German (very nordic looking man) and passed those genetics on to my children!! My 11 year old is already taller than I am both girls have blond hair and green eyes (like their paternal grandmother) and my skin colour!! The are little replicas of my father-in-law who is originally from Finland. ISN'T LIFE WONDERFUL!!!
I once had by back turned to a man..and when i heard his voice (speaking to a cashier)..my tummy immediately started to roll, my ears got hot and i had goose bumps all over my body...only happened that one time..but i never forgot the "obvious" reaction my body had to just his voice
I liken it to a child that has spent hours lovingly creating something for you...eyes shining..their very soul put into that creation...and then they give it to a parent who looks at it...nods...says that's nice dear...and tosses it into the recycling bin... Make sense?
Anyone have a "one liner" (and yes dominoes i know you have a book of them..so come on now...) that they can contribute?
I'll start it out with a friend of mine once told me... "Don't sweat the petty stuff...pet the sweaty stuff!!"
At first when i heard it i thought "OH YUCK!!"but knowing who it came from i knew he was just trying to get me out of the slumps...and now everytime i start getting worked up over petty stuff i remember it...and just crack up!!!
Myself personally..i am who i say i am..i thought that was the whole purpose of this site. If you intend on someday meeting the people you form relationships with on here..wouldn't it stand to reason that you should be up front with who you are. How will it go if a person tells you they are a Brad Pitt look alike...and you get to the airport and meet Jabba the Hut waiting for you...lol
By the way...as a casual observation...it is mostly the men on here that have no profile pictures...hmmmm wonder what that means Buzzer???
Would like to hear from people who have children and what do you do when they refuse to accept there might be someone new in your life? I love my children with all my heart..and want to do whats right by them..but children grow up and go on to live lives of their own (which they should) and in the meantime i had put my life on hold because they refused to accept anyone in my life..what is the happy medium here?
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Loss of a Parent...
Thank you so much everyone...this is a "first" for me..i still have my mother...it almost feels like my "anchors" in this world has started to come loose...