I am complete...completely a woman...and i would like to share that with a man... I like the compliments...It tells me i didn't get dressed in the dark this morning!!
First of all riding a motorcycle is out of bounds for me at any time...personally if i'm going to straddle anything to ride..its not going to be a bike!!
However, there is enough pressure on a "first date" without now having to wonder about "helmet head" or "wind blown hair"..besides how does he know what i was going to wear...what if its a dress with heels...you want i should climb on a bike with that?
I see myself differently than other people see me...one of the best experiences i've had is being on these forums where people look at my pictures and read my responses and view me in a totally different perspective than i ever see when i look in that mirror everyday...
Who do you see when you look in the mirror everyday?..and have you learned anything new about yourself by being amongst the people here on the forum?
I don't think its a matter of over analyzing or reading between the lines...people to lots of thoughtful things for each other...some people are just like that...but i think one can tell when the "nice things and/or comments" have another meaning...
If a man says "beautiful baby" to an infant...and "beautiful baby" to a woman...they are both the same lines (words) but you have to admit they have different meanings right?...and you can tell that without even putting much thought into it...because you just "know" right?
I will be the first to admit that my life and its circumstances are complicated...alot of it is due to the fact that i never had to change much of it to accommodate anyone before now...what i resent hearing from men is the "no baggage" comments...i don't consider my life "baggage" ... its life and it came with issues to deal with, since there is no handbook for this i usually have to wing it and hope for the best... Am I right to assume these men want a relationship with you, but they'll wait until everything is running smooth in your life before "hooking up" with you?...
If you weren't willing to stand by me when things were rough...what makes you think i want to stand by you when things are smooth sailing?
We've all been on the site long enough now to have an input on this one....If Connecting Singles were to become a Soap Opera...what would you give it as a name?
BTW anyone know why they are called "soap operas"...??
A gentleman doesn't have to tell us who he is...we can already see that by his demeanor...nor does he have to defend it..his confidence in what makes him a "gentleman" already does that for him...
There's lots of things that can make or break a relationship...age difference doesn't have to neccessarily be one of them...and btw the older you get the less the age difference makes...
That's part of it...guess no matter how old you get you still feel the need for "approval"...the other part is when "family" is introduced to me it kind of says "commitment" in a way sort of...doesn't it?
Just want to know how many on here who have "met" someone, or begun a relationship here with someone have come out and told your families? And what was their reactions?
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RE: what are you looking for: Someone who complements you, or completes you?
I am complete...completely a woman...and i would like to share that with a man...I like the compliments...It tells me i didn't get dressed in the dark this morning!!