If you were a short woman (and i use that term reluctantly) would you worry about dating a man who is 6' and taller and over 200lbs?..and vice versa...would a man that height have any concerns dating a smaller woman?
I think my past is just that...my past... If you're liking who/what you see right here right now...my past brought me to this point...our pasts will have a way of working itself into our conversations somehow...but for the most part i say look to the future, because that's where you will be spending most of your time... (That was a plagerized line by the way)
I don't want to have to convince him he means that much to me..i'm hoping it will come eventually...I love the person that i know..if we meet and physically we connect...then great..if we don't...i still love the person that i know...
Please don't do that Tumpa..i was just trying to be cute..his cancer did take a toll on him and yes it withered his body substantially...i don't see that in him, i never did...this man truly means alot to me
I'm kind of afraid to tell him how i feel...though i think inside he knows...but he does not know what i see in him, because he feels i could "have anybody i want" so what would i want with him...he doesn't see himself as i do and as most people do, they judge me by my looks and assume i'm very "shallow"...i am WIKKED but not shallow...and i don't want to lose him...i'd rather have him as my friend that to scare him off with "love" talk and not have him at all! (by the way...he was born in California and is an ex-Chippendale's dancer...lol...it still shows!! (*wink*)..somethings "illnesses" can never steal from you!)
as a matter of fact i did meet someone recently...we started out as just friends and i felt so comfortable with him i told him all about "me"...our common interest was "great conversation"..at no time did "looks" enter the picture though i'm sure there was some sort of an attraction there for us to start talking in the first place, but that took back burner to the chats we have...he has made me angry, he has made me cry...he has made me laugh uproarisly...and then i go back for more!! Then he told me about his illness...he has just completed 8 months of chemo and it did take its toll on him, but he is still a beautiful person and i adore him...i am very sensitive to him and when he gets tired...i check in on him and look forward to having "coffee" with him online in the morning (and yes he has seen me in my Flintstones pajamas!!) I just know if he would have me i would be with him tomorrow...aaahh well such is life...but i know my friends did not expect that someone like that would be the one to catch and hold my attention... For all the women out there...when he smiles at me...it lights up the whole screen....lol.lol.lol.(how pathetic am i huh??)
I see you've posted a thread on who wants to date you...well i'm sure when they read your reply here they'll be lining up at your door...i hope you're getting yourself all prettied up!!...LOL
LOL..that is the daughter of Elvis Presley and his first wife Priscilla...and they are both beautiful women..but i always associate those glasses with her
And here again my point being made that sometimes circumstances dictate...separated people should not be less desirable because of their "in between" status..most oft times its because there is children involved...
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RE: How long has it been
Now are we talking about being "romantically" involved or just plain old "knockin' boots"??