I think it's great, and if you can do it legally that's even better. If you can't do it legally, and it's still what's best for your family, do it illegally. Jump a fence, swim a river...hell parachute in if you have too. Your right to try to provide the best life you can for your family far exceeds any right I have to maintain my advantage of being born into a geographically superior location.
By remebering how good it feels to believe in someone,
and for someone else to believe in you.
The potential consequences of misplaced trust range from inconvenience to catastrophic destruction, the consequence of never taking that chance...is an empty life.
"Should" is possibily the most useless word in our language, it's feeble attempt at relevance is beautifully accentuated when it's used in conjunction with love.
RE: How do you know...
I agree with Abra...the difference is found in your motives.