lilmamma71 Forum Posts (1,345)

RE: Do u really ...

Miss Claudya, you posted the thread and if it doesn't bother you then why bring it up. I said I was sorry you got caught up in this situation and were apparently hurt, otherwise you would not be displaying such hostility.

It takes time to build up any relationship whether friendship or romantic..and a person should not get so caught up in the feelings of newness and possibility so quickly, because sadly it does lead to misunderstandings and miscommunication and in the end, disappointments can happen.

If someone doesn't wish to post in the forums, that is their choice, but I'll not be blamed for them not doing it, simply because I responded to your post just like everyone else did.

If you think stating an opinion is passing judgment than it appears maybe you are overly sensitive and may be dealing with feelings of low-self esteem, which again, I'm sorry for you.

You should move on and learn from the situation and I wish you much happiness now and in the future. Be good to yourself and don't take things so personally..nobody is attacking you here.

RE: pity party

We all go through periods of time when it's easy to be down on ourselves about this or that...but if you are alive, breathing, have the love of your family, food on the table, clothes on your back and a job to go to, you're fortunate..


there are countless numbers of people that do not have what they need to survive, sleeping on the streets, dealing with trying to feed kids on a shoestring budget, not able to pay for healthcare, rent, just basic living expenses, times are rough..I'm thankful every single day for what I have and do not take anything for granted, because it could all be taken away tomorrow.

RE: If Men?

Not unless you agree to wax your back!

RE: If Men?

just let me know when the next CS I thee wed thread comes up and I'm there!

RE: If Men?

Traditionally, a woman's role in the past has been "keeper of the hearth and home." However, that role has changed and evolved, now most relationships are built on equality.

If a man is polite and courteous to me, I have no problem returning the kindness.

Generally the role of "breadwinner" is now split among men and women and it's not a singular responsibility which falls entirely on men.

I think my role as a woman, is to nurture, love and support the person I'm with and to be their biggest cheerleader, friend and confidante. We should strive to treat out partner as we ourselves would like to be treated..be slow to anger and quick to forgive and never say anything to deliberately cut down or hurt the other person..words can cut sharper than knives and those wounds can sometimes never be repaired.

RE: LYING ON A SERIOUS THREAD

I used to be more forgiving, and while lying about something inane or harmless might be okay to some people, I tend to disagree.

I wouldn't trust anyone who lied to me no matter how stupid or unimportant the "lie" might seem to be...I have zero tolerance for that.

RE: Do Women Really Care?

Maybe because they're intimidated by Clinton and his plaids, pastels and argyle???


..but you're right..and most will probably revert back to their favorite holey stand-by's anyway, so what's the use...gimme a sharp dressed man any day! YUM!

RE: What is you most favorite book & why?

Mine is War & Peace and Pride & Prejudice...old classics, good reading!

RE: do you believe in the second comming of jesus

Thank you...

RE: do you believe in the second comming of jesus

What is my IQ?? I really fail to see what that has to do with anything, you don't need a high IQ to use common sense. To each their own, like I said, post what you'd like.

However, bragging and saying your posts bring CS revenue and they "like" you and extrapolating about your profound intelligence...is a bit much and it's a matter of your perception/opinion. You're no better or worse than any other member here and nobody receives preferential treatment from CS or the mods.

RE: do you believe in the second comming of jesus

Then do the intelligent thing and ignore people that bother you, don't dignify it with a response and just post what you'd like, it's a free forum.

No bother what your IQ is or how intelligent you think you are, when you resort to engaging in trying to justify things, it doesn't matter, so why do it? JMHO....futility at its finest.

RE: Important

What makes a man wonderful to me...giving, caring, kind, strong, honest, open and compassionate...must above all have sense of humor and good heart.

RE: Important

I have been single for a good long while now and yes, I can happily say I'm still living and breathing and my life is well and good. HOWEVER, I'm contented with that fact, but still hope to one day meet that wonderful man that will sweep me off my feet and love me to bits and pieces...

RE: by giving some examples of actress/actor tell what kind of woman/man you like

For me it's Christian Bale, Pierce Brosnan, Johnny Depp, and back in the day..Sir Laurence Olivier..couldn't resist those dark, mysterious eyes, broad shoulders and debonair accent...oh la la!

RE: It doesn´t take a detective.....

Lots of the "banned club" members will apparently attempt to come back under a covert profile and start trouble again, but you're right, it's easy to spot and some are even stupid enough to post pictures...how silly is that? Like hello...you don't think you're not going to be noticed.

RE: Keep in Touch

Not if you had your heartbroken, still may have emotional issues and unresolved feelings and are vulnerable. Give yourself time and space and maybe at some point in the future..maybe you can...it's up to you though and what you feel is right for yourself.

RE: is it wrong....

Who knows, they might like it and take you up on it...then what'll you do?????

RE: 1 - is all of the women here are really woman?

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You're NOT supposed to be putting your personal information on a forum thread...not sure what rule that is, but it's out there.

You shouldn't be gullible enough to give someone your personal information on the first email out anyways, that's probably why you are a favorite among the transvestite scammers...

RE: OMG look see THIS...

that dude didn't have enough there to fill a banana hammock...he needs to go back to stuffing his crotch with socks...

RE: OMG look see THIS...

Oh trust me Sweetly...those are images BURNED into the consciousness of my brain that will take ECT and lots of alcohol to erase and even that is questionable...

RE: OMG look see THIS...

naked man, full frontal, playing with dangly bits for all to see..we did and it was just something I'll have nightmares about till I'm 90... and try to beat that image out of my head tonight too.

RE: OMG look see THIS...

check out my youtube link, promise it's got nothing to do with what we just saw! LOL

RE: OMG look see THIS...

Okay, nothing to see here people, move it along, you're holding up traffic in the forums..ladies you'd think we'd never seen anything like that before...well here, I've got a special song to all the CS ladies whose eyes were scared tonight by that spectacle:



ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!!

RE: OMG look see THIS...

Click on the link, shield your eyes and you will see there is NO BIG deal going on there....

RE: Anyone else get this ?

so you appear to have gotten an email from an illiterate scammer..nothing new, I get about 2-5 per day...delete/block/report, that's what I do when in doubt.

Or if you feel if maybe it's not a scammer read her profile ask her a few probing questions and BINGO...you'll find out what you need to know and can take it from there.

RE: OMG look see THIS...

in the words of Shania Twains song..."that don't impress me much".......

RE: What was your first ever music purchase?

Ashamed to admit it..but Michael Jackson's Thriller album and drum roll please......it was VINYL! LOL..and I still have it too!

RE: OMG look see THIS...

well here..... he can take his "package" back...YUCK! Wish there had been a warning on that..now I have to go bleach my eyeballs

RE: OMG look see THIS...

that's disgusting and this is a first for me..I actually REPORTED it and I never do that...

RE: heart

Heart palpitations can be exacerbated by anxiety, are you extraordinarily stressed out about something? Unless you have a preexisting condition with heart disease, it could be related to drinking to much caffeine, smoking, stress--etc. environmental stresses.

However, if you are dizzy, short of breath and have chest pain, you NEED to see a doctor..those symptoms are not normal.

Don't just assume you're okay because you THINK you are, it's better to be safe than dropping dead any day...call your doctor or go to the hospital emergency room and be checked out, no harm in doing that. Hope you're okay.