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“Health Risks of o*al Sex
Long known to cause cervical cancer, the pervasive but often silent human papillomavirus (HPV) has been finding its way into women's mouths
For their part, men can get o*al HPV by performing o*al sex on a woman with vaginal HPV, with or without using a dental dam,

1. A guy gets HPV-16 through vaginal sex with an infected partner.
Condoms are the best way to prevent the spread of HPV, but because the virus can be transmitted both via bodily fluids (like ejaculate and saliva) and skin-to-skin contact (including contact between the va*ina and the scrotum), they're not 100 percent effective.

2. The infected guy receives o*al sex (protected or not) from a woman; she picks up o*al HPV-16. Or The infected guy has protected or unprotected vaginal sex with a woman, who gets cervical HPV-16.* She then has vaginal sex with a new partner, who later passes HPV- 16 back to her through o*al sex. “
Excerpts from article you can find at:

From this I gather there is no real protection. You can’t even minimize the risks because it makes no difference whether you employ protection (condoms, dental dams) or not. The best way to prevent contracting something horrible seems to be to be in a relationship, with both partners tested free of infection, and who won’t cheat on each other…ever.

I only found out about this yesterday so I’m 6 years out of date but perhaps this will also be news to some readers.
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a good love poem 3

Give All To Love

Give all to love;
Obey thy heart;
Friends, kindred, days,
Estate, good-fame,
Plans, credit, and the Muse,-
Nothing refuse.
'Tis a brave master;
Let it have scope:
Follow it utterly,
Hope beyond hope:
High and more high
It dives into noon,
With wing unspent,
Untold intent;
But it is a god,
Knows its own path,
And the outlets of the sky.
It was not for the mean;
It requireth courage stout,
Souls above doubt,
Valor unbending;
It will reward,-
They shall return
More than they were,
And ever ascending.
Leave all for love;
Yet, hear me, yet,
One word more thy heart behoved,
One pulse more of firm endeavor,-
Keep thee today,
To-morrow, forever,
Free as an Arab
Of thy beloved.
Cling with life to the maid;
But when the surprise,
First vague shadow of surmise
Flits across her bosom young
Of a joy apart from thee,
Free be she, fancy-free;
Nor thou detain her vesture's hem,
Nor the palest rose she flung
From her summer diadem.

Though thou loved her as thyself,
As a self of purer clay,
Though her parting dims the day,
Stealing grace from all alive;
Heartily know,
When half-gods go,
The gods arrive.

Ralph Waldo Emerson
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a good love poem 2

To My Dear And Loving Husband

If ever two were one, then surely we.
If ever man were lov'd by wife, then thee.
If ever wife was happy in a man,
Compare with me, ye women, if you can.
I prize thy love more than whole Mines of gold
Or all the riches that the East doth hold.
My love is such that Rivers cannot quench,
Nor ought but love from thee give recompetence.
Thy love is such I can no way repay.
The heavens reward thee manifold, I pray.
Then while we live, in love let's so persever
That when we live no more, we may live ever.

Anne Bradstreet
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a good love poem

Love Will Find Out The Way

OVER the mountains
And over the waves,
Under the fountains
And under the graves;
Under floods that are deepest,
Which Neptune obey,
Over rocks that are steepest,
Love will find out the way.

When there is no place
For the glow-worm to lie,
When there is no space
For receipt of a fly;
When the midge dares not venture
Lest herself fast she lay,
If Love come, he will enter
And will find out the way.

You may esteem him
A child for his might;
Or you may deem him
A coward for his flight;
But if she whom Love doth honour
Be conceal'd from the day--
Set a thousand guards upon her,
Love will find out the way.

Some think to lose him
By having him confined;
And some do suppose him,
Poor heart! to be blind;
But if ne'er so close ye wall him,
Do the best that ye may,
Blind Love, if so ye call him,
He will find out his way.

You may train the eagle
To stoop to your fist;
Or you may inveigle
The Phoenix of the east;
The lioness, you may move her
To give over her prey;
But you'll ne'er stop a lover--
He will find out the way.

If the earth it should part him,
He would gallop it o'er;
If the seas should o'erthwart him,
He would swim to the shore;
Should his Love become a swallow,
Through the air to stray,
Love will lend wings to follow,
And will find out the way.

There is no striving
To cross his intent;
There is no contriving
His plots to prevent;
But if once the message greet him
That his True Love doth stay,
If Death should come and meet him,
Love will find out the way!

Anonymous

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No, I'm not a section 8!

People, we live in a world of shit - some more than most. I watched 'Full Metal Jacket' again yesterday - excellent movie by Stanley Kubrick. Maybe like me you're also glad to be alive and in one piece, and (mostly) unafraid. So, if you feel the same sing along:

Who's the leader of the club
That's made for you and me
M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

Hey! there, Hi! there, Ho! there
You're as welcome as can be
M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

Mickey Mouse!
Mickey Mouse!

Forever let us hold our banner
High! High! High! High!

Come along and sing a song
And join the jamboree!
M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

Mickey Mouse club
We'll have fun
We'll be new faces
High! High! High! High!

We'll do things and
We'll go places
All around the world
We'll go marching

Who's the leader of the club
That's made for you and me
M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

Hey! there, Hi! there, Ho! there
You're as welcome as can be
M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

Mickey Mouse!
Mickey Mouse!

Forever let us hold our banner
High! High! High! High!

Come along and sing a song
And join the jamboree!
M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

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held in high regard

A Canadian woman bearing a musket
guards the fort with eagle eye.
She is braver than I.

To be worthy of such a woman!
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can you slap her?

Can you hit your wife or girlfriend?

short answer: No.

longer answer: No, of course not!

Good advice to avoid an escalating confrontation: take a walk and cool down, or climb up onto your roof (don't fall down!). Personally, I think taking a walk would be the safer option.

"Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife." Proverbs 21:9

Basically, ya never hit a woman!

Some people believe otherwise:



Please read whole article: it wasn't enacted into law..there were protests etc. It was only a recommendation. My beef is that it should never have been recommended.
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Too fastidious?

The following anecdotes are true, I have only changed the names.

My mom’s aunt, a highly intelligent and well-educated woman, let’s call her Jane (not her true name), was one of those ‘iron ladies’ like Margaret Thatcher. It’s not that she was completely without a sense of humour or was not a kind person. From time to time a sense of humour was made evident and we all knew she was a good woman – she went to church and no doubt loved her family and friends. When she was in a retirement home, and was asked if she had made any friends, she would say that she was ‘on good terms with everybody but not too close to anybody.’ She was reserved and never made emotional displays, often seemed stubborn. She seemed aloof and strict to the casual observer. The fact that she had a very strict upbringing at the mercy of a domineering father probably accounts for these ‘flaws’ in her personality.

Jane was getting on the older side of young and there was a growing concern among her near-relations that she would not find a husband. So, after some networking among family, friends and neighbours (in those days your neighbours were akin to second cousins) a man was produced. He came highly recommended. He had a good job, was good-looking, came from a similar background, and most importantly was willing to overlook Aunt Jane’s slightly dour disposition – in those days everyone in the neighbourhood also knew about your emotional make-up

One evening the man was invited to dinner, during which he made polite conversation with his hosts and during which Aunt Jane held her tongue throughout. After the repast the two ‘lovebirds’ were given time alone on the balcony to get better acquainted. Unfortunately, no one was privy to what went on between the two of them but the net result was that the man left empty-handed, his ‘hopes’ crushed. I think he went on and found himself a loving wife and lived happily ever after but that’s someone else’s happy tale. Aunt Jane never married. She hinted once that she had been in love with someone but she remained a spinster her whole life long, till ninety.

She was often teased by family members who would ‘threaten’ to fix her up with a boyfriend. Nothing phased her and her response was invariably, ‘No way. Never!’

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John, my dad’s cousin, was a very shy guy but as intelligent as he was timid. His shyness was truly enormous and you couldn’t help but feel embarrassed when he attempted to be social. Awkward it felt for everyone. One felt immediately sorry for him. Strangely enough, he became a completely different animal when he played with his band. He would jam with his buddies, and rock ‘n roll without inhibition, and apparently quite well too. I’m sorry I didn’t get to see that. We were never invited and John died young.

By some miracle this shy and retiring person managed to attract the attentions of an attractive blonde woman, as I’ve been told. A relationship began to blossom. However, one day, perhaps when things were beginning to get more serious, John handed his girlfriend a few pages to read. Information here is absent so I’ll fill in the gaps as best I can. Perhaps she began to read it, or as soon as she understood what it was all about she ended the conversation, if there had been any substantial conversation. Apparently, the pages were a comprehensive list of do’s and don’ts, what he expected of her if they were to continue in their relationship. Now, since things were ostensibly going so well, why on Earth would he produce such a list! I don’t know why. Maybe he was a little (or a lot) OCD; certainly he must have been very particular about his living habits. From what I gathered her departure was quite rapid. She left, never to return.

I live another day

I feel I can't go on another moment without you but I do.
This must be a miracle true.

Flower delivery

To all ye maidens of fair Cork City
I know full well that ye are pretty.
Such noble heads and delicate toes!
And to ye all I present a rose.

Truth to tell there is a lass in Bandon;
who I regret to say I did abandon.
So, to all the pretty girls of Erin,
my roses I’ll not be sparin’.

But if Ireland be so finely arrayed,
then why not the rest of the world?
So, let the banner of love be unfurled,
and to all the women roses be hurled.

rose rose rose rose rose rose rose rose
rose rose rose rose rose rose rose rose
rose rose rose rose rose rose rose rose
rose rose rose rose rose rose rose rose
rose rose rose rose rose rose rose rose
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I shall be brief

brief is love's showing in this world
before it gets booed offstage
brief is beauty too
it ends up as old age
brief is life
phew,no more strife!
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a little more to the left

An asteroid 4-14 metres across is to pass Earth safely but closely (0.1 Earth-moon distance) today.

Two other asteroids in Early September passed within 0.32 and 0.48 Earth-moon distance.

The asteroid is going to pass at about the distance of some satellites and was first detected during the early hours of Monday, September 5. So, if it was on a collision course there would probably have been nothing we could to prevent it from hitting Earth. We would have had max 2 days to do it! I think we need some capability on the ISS or elsewhere already in play to prevent a catastrophe, which seems to me to be only a matter of time.

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