WHAT ARE WOMEN REALLY LOOKING FOR?

Ive been on connecting singles dating site for quite awhile and the only thing i get is
The women of Chicago Illinois on here totally ignore my profile
Is it because I am on disability?

Is it because I don’t want anymore children?

What is it
Ive redone my profile 4xs to expect different results but to no success
I think the scammers scared the good women away.
Ive been single since September 2009

If anyone has any input on this blog by all means please tell me
I can take criticism.
I know the old saying
If you can dish it out. You can take it
(Something like that)
Im not a bad guy. confused
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Comments (22)

Morphing corona-women laugh
Lets be honest, they're looking for money and social standing, a good role model to support them and their numerous children all to different fathers.

Don't get involved with them, it never ends well.

teddybear
Hopefully there's a rogue scientist that manipulates the coronavirus so that it only affects women. After all the women have been killed off, we will drink as much beer as we want, watch as much football as we like and finally get the freedom to wear soft silky negligees where ever we like..
Jig, I would never stop you wearing soft silky negligees even if the virus didn't get me.
OP, on your profile you state that you have a great sense of humour.
Yet you post the same blog every 6 months bemoaning the fact you can never find a woman. You never display any humour whatsoever.
The one thing women hate is a moaner. The one thing they love is a sense of humour.
If you have it, use it.
If they liked a sense of humour, I'd be beating them away with a stick. But I'm not, so its probably just money they're after.
I guess it must be so.
Jig, I might be turned on by your negligeed-body instead teddybear
What size are you? My birthday's coming up.
I'm sure you could extend it to fit your dad-bod anyway
Your profile is overwhelming.

There is a lot of information there, some repeated. There are few full stops and paragraphs.

You mention being passionate and public displays of affection, but these positive attributes come across as clingy and demanding simply because you are demanding so much of your readers.

You mention that you have a neurologic disorder, but give no other information. Reading your profile, I'd wonder how that might affect a relationship (other than the low income), but I wouldn't mail to find out - I'd be putting myself in a position where I might have to reject you because it's more than I can deal with. It's far easier to reject you without contact and move on to the next profile.

Explain your neurologic disorder and the abilities you have. Your experience of life will be unique to you. What have you gained, what abilities, what understanding, what coping strategies?

You also have a lot in your profile about what you are seeking. Get rid of all of it. Be open to possibilities, like someone who is 29, or 46 years old. If you have a long list of arbitrary demands, women will deselect themselves without ever having written to you.
Greatguy I recall the last time you posted a blog similar to this, I suggested you put up some pics with a smile on your face.

I can't imagine many women would find the ones you have posted appealing, particularly coming from someone who states they have a good sense of huour confused
Molly - I don't think I've ever met a woman more adept at side-stepping direct questions - you're good!
*humour roll eyes
I am grin
I'm looking for a banana split daydream
My post was in reference to the blogger because he shutdown his profile..But he's back now..I didn't notice Urban had gone private..Maybe she does that when she logs off..Urban is awesome with all her advice and input bouquet
I redid my profile and changed my picture of me. And changed the age im looking for in a woman here in Chicago Illinois. Hope i get a message
If I was 35 I wouldn't be interested in a 50 year old man..I prefer the picture you had up..That's just my opinion.
Hi Loulou.


wave I hope all is well for you.
Mercedes ~ I just closed down Mercedes as my eyes are gone dry from typing. laugh Thanks for your kind words. I went asleep, it's lashing here and couldn't get out of the place so woke up and had a look in .
Greatguy ~ I wish you the very very best of luck. Remember patience, and also don't forget church activities. bouquet
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