WHAT ARE WOMEN REALLY LOOKING FOR?
Ive been on connecting singles dating site for quite awhile and the only thing i get isThe women of Chicago Illinois on here totally ignore my profile
Is it because I am on disability?
Is it because I don’t want anymore children?
What is it
Ive redone my profile 4xs to expect different results but to no success
I think the scammers scared the good women away.
Ive been single since September 2009
If anyone has any input on this blog by all means please tell me
I can take criticism.
I know the old saying
If you can dish it out. You can take it
(Something like that)
Im not a bad guy.
Comments (22)
Don't get involved with them, it never ends well.
Yet you post the same blog every 6 months bemoaning the fact you can never find a woman. You never display any humour whatsoever.
The one thing women hate is a moaner. The one thing they love is a sense of humour.
If you have it, use it.
There is a lot of information there, some repeated. There are few full stops and paragraphs.
You mention being passionate and public displays of affection, but these positive attributes come across as clingy and demanding simply because you are demanding so much of your readers.
You mention that you have a neurologic disorder, but give no other information. Reading your profile, I'd wonder how that might affect a relationship (other than the low income), but I wouldn't mail to find out - I'd be putting myself in a position where I might have to reject you because it's more than I can deal with. It's far easier to reject you without contact and move on to the next profile.
Explain your neurologic disorder and the abilities you have. Your experience of life will be unique to you. What have you gained, what abilities, what understanding, what coping strategies?
You also have a lot in your profile about what you are seeking. Get rid of all of it. Be open to possibilities, like someone who is 29, or 46 years old. If you have a long list of arbitrary demands, women will deselect themselves without ever having written to you.
I can't imagine many women would find the ones you have posted appealing, particularly coming from someone who states they have a good sense of huour
I hope all is well for you.