Connection hopes.
There are tons of single people on this earth. Some highly desirable, some not so much. My dad always said every pot has it lid.Yet, I see on dating sites, people desperately seek a connection with anyone and everyone. People lay out profiles. Yet it doesn't matter because the desperate contact them anyway. It is like refusing to bury your dead pet, hoping it will spring back to life. Then those people get bent because the object of their desire doesnt respond.
The extremes go to stalkers and murderers or kidnappers. Or groupies who follow stars and personages across the country. If they JUST see me, I will be swept away in their limo.
Nature puts the drive into creatures to chase the best chance for viable offspring. Animals fight for the female, females cajole and practice subterfuge to get the males.
Humans have brains tho to realize realities. The health nut is NOT ever going to want to marry the obese couch potato. The intellect will not settle to spend life with someone who thinks reading is a joke. The rich marry rich, the lawyer marries the lawyer.
So to those frustrated people on dating sites, read profiles. Acknowledge conflicts. And save yourself grief pining for what will never be. Wishing wont make it so.
As the saying goes, water seeks its own level. Be realistic in your quests. Love is the goal, not perfection.
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