WHY MEN DON'T CRY?

I have grown to a belief that men don't cry...why is it that???

men are human too right?

is it a myth that we believed in?

why when i seen a man crying it melts my heart away??


it touches my heart and leaves me out of words??


i mean like in movies...

or when i see my uncle or dad cried due to some instances...

it really touches my heart right on the very spot...
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i believe men do cry. they wont cry in front of us - women.
yeah i believe so....so when i see a man crying it touches me...blues
teddybear E V E R Y O N E has their own opinion, this one is mine. I believe that when God created Man, he placed something inside him strong. NOT phisically strong, but mentally strong. and he did that so that when a couple are "together" and in public or at home if a Problem came up (an issue),there would be one of them who would be capable to "stand up for" or "defend" H E R or (the whole family). heart beating lol
u have to be strong for us yes...and it also includes you (men) controlling your emotions towards us (women)that we cant understand sometimes...coz we (women) are emotional sometimes and u (men) tend to be numb or play u never care ...thats why we (both men and women) clash and argue ....why dont u speak ur mind and tell whats in ur heart not whats in ur mind and try not to be always rational?
Interesting, Men do cry but we dont shed tires ( i mean it rear)
During Hard times My dad will Say " YEAH MAN" if you heard that; It means Crying.
I dont thinking you xpect a man to cry when the whole family is looking up to him.
I only saw my Dad shead tear during the death of his brother and that was not in front of us, In a secret corner. Seeing that I cried like a baby.
"Yeah Man"
and the fact that why most men gets heart attack in one research is bcoz men tend to control their emotions too much and that is bad for the health.,..coz the blood rush when controlled might end up in coma .... will burst your nerves and will kill u ...doh
you didn't see me during my sad times, or you would know.
yeah....i know what ur saying....well that must be a hard hard time for u during those times....hug
and the fact that why most men gets heart attack in one research is bcoz men tend to control their emotions too much and that is bad for the health.,..coz the blood rush when controlled might end up in coma .... will burst your nerves and will kill u

Yeah and I was once told by a Filipino that hot water in the shower makes our hair fall out. roll eyes
it will really do ..coz ur skin pores loosen up due to hot water...i have once experienced that...i lost some hair ..but it grew back coz i used aloe vera...
sometimes controlled blood rush is a good thing! are you sure it was the hot water? maybe it got pulled too hard? oops joke
hehehe Wala
right...blushing
and ur theory about hot water...well the pores act the same in ur hot humid climate so...im thinking it doesn't make much difference. anyways, of topic a bit. oh but I can tell you the cold showers in Pinas can make men cry possibly. ahem maybe thats just me uh oh
it would make u cry due to ur history ....hug anyways not all fingers are the same if u know what i mean....
Wow...note to self...(dont say what ur thinking this moment)
sure...grin
my what white teeth u have. what do you use for whitener? ahem on second thought...no need to answer that
the secret...????i dont brush my teeth....rolling on the floor laughing
Naturally. On that note, I will slide into bed With Iris. Before I leave I want to share a sad but excellent post. There are 2 parts. Letter from a dog and part 2 both are on this page.

Sweetie, it doesn't happen often, but I've boo-hooed big time a few times in my life. But of course, my tears were manly..:-)
@ Cetti thumbs up
scott..ur post there at forum are nice about dogs...love it tnx for sharing...nyt....cheers
yes but my intention was the letters that CC posted. bring ur tissue.
@cetti yeah thats what i like being real to self ryt???thumbs up
most young boys r trained to believe that men shud be strong, cool, tough and detached. so they learn early to hide vulnerable emotions bcoz they believe such feelings are feminin and imply weaknese. but hiding emotions can cause so much stress and worse consequences, i thiink they also need to find a way to let out there emotions, such as crying.
scott...was really sad for that long story...crying
dumplings.....thumbs up
Men Don't Cry !!! men MAKES you cry !!! mumbling

Swan
@swan..yeah...men really do....why not go with woman sometimes im thinking laugh
gandang umaga niceandeasy, go with women? hmm could be interesting :)
Yes we do cry but it's more internal than external. When most women see a man crying they think we are weak so we hold it inside which is not a good thing. Believe me we do have feelings too, new here so plz drop in & say hi & picture coming soon
cos they don't drink too much water
Men do cry only when he is truly touched or amazed like marriage, a new baby, or in love seriously.
A year and a half ago I went to a friends daughters wedding, it was on the beach. I've know the girl since she was born. I was like an uncle to her. During the ceramony tears started comeing. Another friend looked at me and he started laughing at me. I'd hate to see what happens when my niece gets married.
I have seen a lot of my male friends cry in front of people. I didn't think any less of them either.
If you want to see your man cry, take him somewhere to see the film, old yeller.he's more of a man than me, if watching it doesn't get to him.
@mr.gordy...i know men have feelings too...what i am asking is that why u men have to control ur emotions all the time?why dont u show ur emotions so we can understand when u r hurt or disappointed...or whatever..come on guys..speak up....show up...tell us whats on ur mind....grin
@the winner..u r really a winner....telling that men dont cry coz of what???how was this related to crying???hmmmm.....confused
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