HOW CAN YOU TELL A GUY IS MARRIED ?
So Mr gorgeous sends you a message, you check the profile, no photo, no descriptions, nothing filled in in the what im looking for section.... This one is a no brainer, hes married, or hes a spy working for the C I A and has to be cautious. Then theres the guy who sends a message has photo is single, is looking for friends only and lives with a roommate.....or with mum and dad, also a no brainer, hes married. Then you get the messager, hes single, he is separated, this happens a lot with guys working overseas , especially in my neck of the woods, Bahrain/Saudi where there are lots of single men expats working, with wifey at home taking care of the kids..... so not so easy to tell . until you suggest you'd like to return to their home country with them for their once a month week off....thats when you really find out for sure, then they don't answer you and get all nervous when you ask, or make an excuse. Then you get the guy who says hes separated and hes living alone , but he cannot give you his phone number at home , he doesn't have one ( yeah right) and he's very keen to know early on if you have your own apartment and live alone.Then you get the guy who is quite easily convincing because he is so far away, hes the lonely guy, who says hes single but he thinks there is no way you can ever find out, he comes on cam quite freely , but only during the day from his office. When you try him at home , he's never online. Occasionally he needs to seem convincing so he comes online at home ,then suddenly disappears ..oh yes I believe he was disconnected. He also cannot ever talk on the phone at certain " home " times.
I like the idea of getting his mobile number and calling him at 2 am and if he answers tell him you'd like to talk . If he answers he might be single.
If a woman answers........hes married.
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some good points there!
Well, I really don't have much experience on that, Despite, once that happened to me.(was not online).
Usually, I trust the person and start friendship. I think when someone try to trick us they are trick themselves.
maybe it should never go beyond an ocassional date now n then ...
Girls, let enjoy a bit these...
You do know that married men need loving too
Song for whoever - the beautiful south
Only thing was, you are never in my neck of the woods!
Only thing was, you are never in my neck of the woods!
Change the template and try someone new, then maybe you won't get messed around as much?
Eli, just sent you a message!
Takemetofrance .. You could try someone new, the kind of person whom you would not immediately go for, perhaps?
Just a thought ..
Okay. I am going to get that.
I wonder why they even got married?
I wonder if their wives are also online?
Do you ever wonder that if you got married, you might end up getting a guy like this?
And there it is...see, it only takes for me to speak to bring out the hidden
if they always ask to see you during work hours ie> lunch break, and they never want to go out to a public place or stay the night at your home, that is also a pretty good indicator they are either living with someone or married.
separated maritally or separated by location?!
that's the expats definition of separated.