The Silent Treatment
In some instances (many), I have been rejected. Any kind of rejection, no matter if it's in love, career, friends, or anything else, is difficult to bear. Rejection is definitely not a fun thing. But, upsetting as it is, the more we deal with it, the more we grow as people.I had acknowledge that anyone can be rejected, no matter who they are. And how we react to rejection varies from person to person. When I get rejected in any way, I just think of a new door opening after the old door is slammed. Maybe I did miss out on something good, the new door could be much better. Keep going.
Nope, I am not rejected (romantically) lately folks. I was, few months back but I got over it. Thanks to you.
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we have already been all rejected and we all know the feelings connected with that. The reason of rejection is... to find the way to myself.
Shay, I am in a hurry, work... you know .... but I wish you a wonderful day today and all the best.
You are Woman, young Lady on CS who I wish great Health, Luck and Love for your personality, for who you are
Roofus, keep moving forward
Thank you for the kind and wonderful words.
Have a beautiful day at work Ateh. Wish you all the best too.
Each rejection is a learning experience if you see the lesson.
Thank you. You too, deserve a great guy. He'll come in the right time.
Morning Shay
Life will always be a magical mystery tour - doors will always open & sometimes will close but the important thing is that we all get on that magical mystery tour bus & experience what life has too offer if it works out great but if it doesn't there is always another bus to catch - what I'm really saying is be positive which I know you are & always be happy that's the most important thing.
The Beatles will always bring a smile to my face - they talk about life's experiences.
Have a great evening, the sun is shining in Dublin
'Though I feel being really down from time to time, having positive outlook is a natural trait. I am willing to take the bus ride, smooth, bumpy or rough, I'll hold on to the rail.
True! no body likes to be rejeacted but sometimes we have to deal with that.Nice topic
wish you a lovely Monday!
The bumpy rides are sometimes the best experience but you always have the next stop - and that's the beauty of the magical mystery tour.
For for Providence to make matters worse (and teach me the same lesson), my primary (high paying) job at once stage was "New Business Development Manager"! Caramba!
Yep, that's life (video).
"The nice way to get over rejection is to learn from the rejection and move on. Being rejected is not the end of anything; it is the beginning of learning. "
And if it is still bumpy, maybe the bus was not meant for me and the road it travels. I'll get on another, hopefully the right direction and right one.
Me talking of buses...
Hmm, reminiscing the past. You made rejection (romantically) as your motivation to succeed on other aspects. No hard feelings and got on.
I think almost all of us had experienced the unpleasant things getting rejected
The best we can do, cope well from rejection. Not to enjoy rejection but to take it as a vital part of life.
We're born into this world
We live day to day
Supposed to be our own person
No matter what they say
Through the good and the bad
WE still carry on
Each day a new beginning
Even if our souls are gone
They don't seem to understand
That Some wounds may heal
But we're still left with scars
And nights full of fear
It will get better with time
Get over it and be strong
They don't see the inside
Or they'd realize they're wrong
So some wounds never heal
Each day it's more of the same
Each day a living hell
Trapped by our pain
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I got home a while ago.Just to greet you kamusta kapatid
No inspiration whatsoever. Well, I just thought of a small crush and I wonder if I tell him I have a crush on him, I'll be rejected. Not really a sad blog, just a little thought blog.
Beautiful poem. Sad but absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
I can see you also had some "rejections" before. I can empathize with you. It hurts but let time heal all the wounds. And open your heart for the healing. It will pass.
Great to see you in the blogs.
Yes, pain teaches lesson and the hurt does go away if we let it. Must turn the rejection into an acceptance of ourselves for who we are and not what we feel the other person wants us to be. Do not try to change oneself only to impress someone else. Someone will accept us as the person that we are and will feel the same way about us. It only takes time and patience.
I did use the "us" word to refer to all.
I do get sensitive when comes to things like rejection too. A Leo trait.
Shay, rejection comes in many forms. When you pass by someone who takes an interest in what you have to say..... but then you do not take less than a minute of your life to even acknowledge that person, then you have just rejected that person. Can you guess who I am talking about??? Learn from your own actions Shay.
To respond, is to take all the pain and hurt into your own hands, and say to yourself: " I have control... how will I handle this."
What you tell yourself is what you will believe, so tell yourself that no matter what, you are going to get through this and move on. It is always helpful to focus on the end of the hurt and pain rather than focusing on the pain itself.
I don't approve friend request from those who I didn't have any correspondent at all. As you can see my friends are bloggers and I have exchanged emails from them and in a way we know (a bit) each other already. I don't just add up without knowing someone. Sorry, but that's how I do here.
Thank you for the wishes. Same goes to you.
We have been rejected and have rejected some. I believe all those happened for a reason.
Awesome Monday to you also.
I am taking notes from the points you have given to me. Thank you Guess. You are right, I should have ask the guy I have got a crush on, but I just think ahead and assume he'll reject me.
Have a great day to you also.
By the way, i had change my mail settings and you can be able to send me messages anytime.