CS Exes
Here on CS we try our chance with different people and with everyone of them things can reach a different stage, from an innocent flirt to a commitment "in reality".How do you cope with the "baggage" of exes on here, especially on the blogs? Do you say "Hi" when you meet them or you keep silence? Do you hate them or you sincerely wish them luck?
Are you discreet about your new flirts, being afraid of some vengeful ex? Do you think over every word and flirt on the blogs so you don't make a mess with ex and current "dates"?
Comments (81)
I also think your touching a sensible topic of discussions but a good one.
Yes it's a vulnerable topic but I think an important one since this "baggage" can define our behavior here and bother us somehow...
I know some wonder why she don't email me or why she don't talk to me because i don't like to complicate my self in to much online relationships, but i am open to talk and email and if i like someone so much then i will give him a chance.
maybe can know some good friends first in the site,
and if meet right person is ok...
good luck!
I wish all was strong and wanted the best, not like almost good enough- but the best solution... Not for one.. but for all!
When i leave behind somebody it's (in my mind) the best for both her and me! I been here 14months. I was basically single for 9years prior (minus a 1y one)
Why i use so much time? Guess why.
So yes, it's a problem. But heck what can one do? Give up?
I ve always liked your optimistic approach and yes it would be the best everyone to couple with their best match then to make a collective Moon'type wedding here on CS
I just want to clarify something and I hope you don't mind me to say it here. Some of you knew I met face to face with a regular blogger here and sometimes our names were related one to another on the blogs, maybe for fun intention but I was worried it could lead into a misunderstanding for those who didn't know we met as friends. All I can say that he's a nice person to talk to and we met as friends. Anyway, he and I are friends up to now, so if you ladies are fans of him...what are you waiting for
I do this because I don't expect and I don't need to get personal attack anymore as it happened once or twice to me before just because I had friendship interactions with these guys on the blogs or off the blogs
I wish I'll have no exs here
Speaking of the ex's...everywhere and in any kind of forms...a tribute for you:
I am very glad that this blog gave you the opportunity to clarify things! Honestly, the idea of this blog came from a comment of Morgen that some women asked him if we were just friends.
Don't worry, there will be always people who will search for a "calf under the ox" as we say here (for non-existing things)
Good luck to you Lachi!
your blogs very much this is so good hon.
and please tell me only you can read what i wrote... lol.
well here you go jana
I think a dating site of this magnitude brings about a certain level of non-commitment amongst members - quite contrary to what the organizers intended. "The flirt game" has become the primary focus! Human nature....as mentioned in an earlier blog; "The grass is greener on the other side" syndrome.