Buying a car?
We have separated, split up, got our affairs in order and have decided to buy a new car.....But what to get? Do women and men have the same criteria when choosing a car?
Plenty of models, makes, colors. High engine specs, good mileage per gallon. Do we want something that suits out needs, or something that reflects our personality.
Do we go for the little red sports car, the big sensible car, or the small economical car?
Do we decide on a model 1st or start looking through the motor ads. Can we pay cash or do we need a loan?
What are the maintenance costs - after buying the car can we afford to run it?
In the end do we just set out with our cash and buy the best possible regardless of age, make and color.
Are the same processes at work when we are looking for a new partner?
You are single
You join dating site.
So many ladies/men to choose from.
Are you looking for someone half your age?
Do you go for intellect and security over a "hot" body?
Is there any point in cyber-dating someone a thousand miles away if you can't afford to travel?
Is Hot in bed more important than someone who can't cook / put up a shelf?
Is color, race, religion important?
What about dependable and reliability?
In the end after we have whittled down the long, long, list of possibilities do we settle for average intelligence, average looks, someone we are comfortable with, low maintenance but dependable?
Or, because we are too fussy, too choosy..........THERE'S NO-ONE LEFT !!!
Comments (20)
Are you to fussy?...........don't drop your standards for any man - you deserve the best.
z
@Z,lachi
Good to see you.
Yes another important factor: Do you prefer the city or country model. Both are good in their own element.. o
You said"All males from Africa are potential Tarzans!"...so,its hard to find the best tarzan
Another overtime on the blogs
There is one very small potential problem I never mentioned. You can choose a car - but will he / she choose you.
z
The question is not about choosing but making do with what we can have at the moment and enjoying it.
Sounds familiar. I heard many times people said this.
I do believe someone is there for me.
He is out there - somewhere.
If this was a fishing blog, you would be catch of the day !!
z
Say hello to S for me Z.
You know I can't even drive a car (but maybe I can drive the car's driver crazy
I have in my mind about a guy I want to get to know better to but it's not always that easy as I may have interest on someone but he doesn't have interest on me or the other way around
I prefer the intellect one instead of his body as an intellect mind usually lasts longer than the body
As for the traveling part, I thought of searching for the one while traveling if this dating site doesn't work for me. Though challenge but who knows...que sera, sera.
If he can't cook (neither can I
I don't really bother about the difference of race and religion, so does my mom...but (yes there was this 'but' from her)...but she did expect me to find someone with same religion so it could be a dilemma someday
I conclude that maybe someone in my mind now is someone who is humble, smart, physically and mentally fit. Not yet meeting him though
Oh summer, yes...I understand that it's not easy for you to find a size of 35 here
Lachi, searching for shoes for him is like going to an expedition in the jungle for a rare animal
Speaking of shoes that fit...remind me of this song