How much are your CS friends worth?
Or the difference a year makes.One year ago I had a 4 month relationship with a lady I met on CS. First thing she wanted was for me to delete my account and my friends. Being fairly new to dating I complied. Although we had good times problems only got worse.
Was it controlling, low self-esteem or based on previous bad experience?
Forward 1 year and I am in a new relationship with someone from CS
I have a number of lady friends on CS. We chat, skype and communicate almost daily. My partner knows who they are and is friends herself with some. She has her own male friends some of whom I know. We share the same laptop and it often lies open and un-passworded. We share the same skype account as well.
Whatever happens now or in the future I will never give up my friends.
Whatever her reasoning I think she was wrong.
If you cannot trust someone - you cannot love them - you have nothing.
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Virgo - would you let your girlfriend have your account passwords?
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now if only I could get rid of my beer belly...
Boban - lol I would make you jealous - guinness drinker - weight has not changed since I was 16.
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Thought I was in the bar for a while (guy talk)
Needed a womans input.
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and maybe some sunglasses ???
Thank you for your input.
Most of the ladies I speak to I met in February along with partner. So we have all know each other from the start. (skype a blogger weekend)
One I speak to - (well outside my dating range) about 3 hours a day, every day. I value her friendship.
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I have my partners email and password - I would never look at anything of hers. (might need to use google translate) and I show her anything of interest on mine.
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Know you could never give up friends for anyone.
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I definitely agree with that. A healthy relationship is one who let each other grow as a person, including keeping their friend in touch or even meeting new friends.
Whats for breakfast? for me it;s 2 coffee's in 6 hours time - nite gals and guys................especially mary and she knows why.
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I had a big breakfast, full meal as it is ifthar for us who fast during Ramadhan.
Past midnite there, good nite and have a nice rest.
nite 1pm and bed
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My fav re-actionist................Z
When trust is broken, I will never trust that person again, same thing for lieing.
I think your previous friend was wrong. It appears to me she wanted to control who you talked to and would eventually control where you went, how you spent your money....and the list goes on. People that do that, IMO, have low self-esteem and trust issues themselves. Thankfully that's all in the past and now you have a great relationship.
Trust develops over time and is certainly not instant for me.
Second, how could she? That´s simple - you allowed her. So doing something stupid - deleting all friends does not make any sense. Having good friends is very important. If she had not, well now we all know why.
Your new girl seems to be more on your level - so take good care of her. The conclusions you draw are correct.
morgan - hope they slay you - my friends are priceless.
Are you not my friend
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he had no trust in me and tryed to play mind games and was for ever putting me down and used to go mad when he seen me on cs but it was fine for him to be on it in he,s mind , he questioned my every move and wanted me to delete my page
only that im a strong person he would have dragged me down to were he wanted me
ive been true a lot in my life to let any man put me down cos of there own insecurity ,i have a wide circle of friends both male and female and im well known and like,d from where i live and he couldnt handle that
none of my family and friends liked him from the start im just glad he showed hes true colours at the early stages for me to realise hes not for me, but he kinda put me off internet dating but not off finding mr rite, im just a lot more weary to the likes of him , im very bubbly and out going and open and honest from the start i no what its like to be hurt thats why i would never do that to any one but i get guys that go on and on about been hurt in the past like there the only one,s , but those type are really the one,s that are doing the hurting and try to make themselfs out to be d poor victims ,sorry for rattling out but i had to say lol
you two are lucky to get away from the x she sounded like a bad egg two
but it looks like you found yourself a lady and thats the tpye i want but in a male version :) so i wish you both all the happiness together take care