Why would you want to date an American?

Sorry guys, but it has to be said,




This is not an anti-American blog.


I had a friend who held a French passport and worked in a specialized field of medicine. She works in the USA, has done for 15 years. Her daughter has stayed and studied in USA since she was 3. When daughter finishes full-time education she may be asked to leave. My friend still has to apply for work permit annually.

Europeans can move and work freely in other European countries. So, as long as we date fellow Europeans we have less difficulty with entry and work permits.

Having no transferable skills I would find it difficult moving to the USA or Australia although Canada, being part of the Brit Commonwealth would be easier.

At what point - this is an International dating site - do we think about this when we meet someone.

Can we move to that country?

Are you prepared for the time, money, red tape involved?

Or do we cross her fingers and hope for the best.

z wave
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I've tried to have an eye on that all along.

A year ago i was even more 'anyting goes where will is' but now i'm abit more thinking: why fall in love ova there when i can do it ova here

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well I try to get someone closer to home who has a little shape and dosent look like a boy back on , come on girls show a little hip now and then , ....

yes it is an issue ,will they get a visa or not , look into it sigh
why cant you waltz her into a registry office and get hitched, problem solved, you either want a commitment, or part time love, if you cant live without someone, the decisions are made for you, and you dont spend time looking for excuses.
Hi morg wave

You well?

Used to be a guy on the blogs. He was married to a filli girl for 20 years before she died...crying He was from USA - but had commented it took 2 years and $9000 for him to be able to marry her is US.

z bouquet
I'm getting wiser... bouquet
Hi Thatch.

Obviously you have not looked into this ....confused Folk have tried getting married - then finding authorities very hard.

It can be a business - marrying for money just to get someone into country. So authorities are very skeptical of everyone.

Sad but true.

Did you know - you may have to prove even if you married - 2 years worth of emails, or other communication?

z
yes it cost's $22,000 here , to make them a citizin and a kiwi passport ....and then they can get welfare , but if they have children here the children become citizins automaticly ....and there mother can still get deported ...banana teddybear
Hi Virgo wine

Ooops - you don't drink doh

To go to Germany - you need to pass a language test.

How long would it take me to learn German..........I'm a Brit probably never. We rely on everyone else to learn English dunno

z
I'm originaly from britan , most of us are in this british colony

part of the old empire just like my last name , Harvey wave
I know someone who tried to import to Canada, as well as similar examples I've heard. She would have to have come back to the U.S. every few months, and it was impossible to figure out all the rules. Also, my American co-worker felklk in love with an Austrailian woman, and it took 2 years to build up enough money to move there and to get all the permissions to move to Austrailia, but they finally got there. I hadn't really given this much thought until I read this blog.
Thatch - a good reply - and for true love everything is possible.

Question was "at what time on an international dating site do you take this into consideration"

Or, does anyone even think of this in advance?

z
Thatch - a good reply - and for true love everything is possible.

Question was "at what time on an international dating site do you take this into consideration"

Or, does anyone even think of this in advance?

z
obviousley Zand one or the other would have made some initial visits on a tourist visa, and things would be going really well, no one should be making these life changing decisions over a key-board, without meeting in person, so down the line obviously, how far down will depend on each individual couple, all im saying is it aint easy, no one should undertake it lightly, it sure aint for the faint of heart, but sometimes you can meet a person and you just know you are going to be miserable without them, you just have to be together.
Thanks for you import hugger wave

Virgo - shame on you.......an import dunno

Women are an emotion, an experience, ........lost for words very mad

An import......!!!!!!!

z
Look, if i want a pino we got tonns of au pairs on oslo, at cs.
Most insene for me would get a pino from the philipnes!
yes and then theres the advantage of importing a better blood line into your clan of inbreeds wave
Virgo. I'm looking for an export. U got summ to send ova?

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or every one has red hair and freckles , ....the other ones are called a " mail order " bride wave
Ok...hmmmm-.--- k think i'll take the freckles one.

What she cost?
theres a coulpe of million girls here that would suit you morgen , but theres next to none of them on this site ......confused
I know virg.

No more round the globe 4me though. fk
you are welome to come over and take your pick morgen , as soon as the girls see some fresh blood , they will be all over you ...oh yeah banana banana banana
Where are all the ladies...??????

This is like a bar conversation - guys only??

ok -

Morg and virgo.....

sounds like a bad attitude ...specially you morg.

You know most of my friends (sisters are filli) I will not hear anything against them.

Guy's - find yourself before you go looking..!!

z
I've been saying , no , to a lot of women here , and they hate me for it ! , obviously they have never been said no to ever , gosh you should see the looks I get , some of them will growl and hiss out loud in the street and start screeming ....wave
Virgo - what is your secret of this female magnetism ??

Share it with the rest of us guys???......PLEASE !!!!

Only kidding.

z
ok i will jump in and say that virgo is soooo rugged and girls like that manly stance....yo yobanana
I wouldn't give it a second thought to meet someone from another country much less move to another country. I can be just as miserable meeting someone from America...laugh
sweet wave

Not sure if virgo is into fitness - but I will let him answer for himself.

How are you with boat-building / sailing ?

Maybe a pre-requisite

z
Monte blushing

not if you meet someone

not if you want to move

Q.) have you thought about difficulties of moving?

z
Yea. I'll go wash my mouth now.

And look what there is to be imported from cs shopping mall. lol
Morg conversing

Is the best yet to come.......

Or bypassed in so-called seek for perfection confused

z
Zan - I'm too old to get in the dating game. I'd like to visit Scotland someday to see the countryside. Maybe I'll meet someone to show me the sites but I doubt I'd move there. This is home...I'm glued to the U.S.cheering
morgen constantly needs to wash his mouth out and he knows that is truelaugh
he enjoys the attentionlaugh
Addendum to my previous post: I agree with Morgan, why tempt yourself by going to other countries. I think I'll forget about Scotland ... sad grin
i cant understand whats wrong with people, there here on a dating site, putting up roadblocks to there heart, i think they have forgotten the beauty of love, that ability to be spontaneous, the ability to dream, dreams, too much with the head, instead of following the heart, either that, or they are incapable of letting themselves be loved, many i believe should call it a day and stop fooling themselves.confused
Some people would rather be safe then sorry. At my age there isn't much time left for mistakes. I assume you are referring to me Thatch and that's okay. I'm used to people telling me I'm wrong to not get connected again. I'm not on CS to find someone to love. I'm only here for the forums and sometimes the blogs. Just a way to fill in spare time....hug
no monte, i wasent referring to you hun, although i do think your a little over-sensitive at times, maybe your colt is on a hair-trigger, i better be careful, you might turn me into a sieve, laugh
Monte.....Can't send you flower ???
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