Slept like.............
Oh I am feeling very good,Slept very good after the chaos happened. Neighborhood getting back bounce to normal. Me and my neighbor lady went to the church last afternoon. Light a candle.
Priest talked to us, let us to talk what we feel,
fiuuh finally we both felt much better.
Today he comes to the place the body was found with holy water.
I am curious but I slept good and I feel I am normal mean crazy as usual
Thank you for all your kind words, and moral support.
lots of love zeu
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@ Jac.; Thank You!..
You are strong...better off than most...most people would crack under those circumstances...
I hope you had seen someone about it...you appear strong and have a great sense of humour...wishing you all the best...
We are designed to hurt, or crack, or break. It's part of being a social animal and being capable of love.
It doesn't mean we are weak; it's the very thing that makes us so strong.
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your grandchild, Angel.
I agree, when we still have pain, fears, or things we can't face sometime after a traumatic event, it can really help to process those issues in the presence of a skilled counsellor.
Thanks...it is comforting to be around people who know what it is like...the sorrow of loss...
It was a big help...to speak about it with a professional...the shock wore off but getting back to normal was a process...kind of like being in a movie...hard to explain...funny how your body reacts to such trauma...
Whatever works...I had a good connection with mine...we had some things in common...
Angel...hope you're ok there....
Angel..yes I agree that there are things that are simply difficult to talk about and you need to cope with it all alone...i'm just glad that you have the strength for that...
It is important to have a good rapport with your councellor...do not let that experience prevent you from talking to another!!!
Sometimes counselling may help in an acute stage of distress; sometimes when we have a few loose ends, a few nitty gritty bits we just can't seem to find a way to shift, or change.
Perhaps the most important thing we can learn to do for ourselves, is to observe ourselves.
I think we still live with the vestige of the 'boys don't cry' culture in so many ways. Possibly, we live with the 'just get on with it' culture for women, too, but it does seem like women have more outlets for self-awareness, healing and processing than men do.
I feel it is abnormal to think a soldier does not need help after seeing such destruction...it doesn`t help that the government does not want to see the potential problems of war...the effects...nor does it help that male children may be taught to grieve differently...all very sad indeed...
Perhaps governments don't want to address the real emotional issues themselves? Perhaps if they started to empathise with the soldiers and victims of war, the power and economic motivations would seem unethical and unjustifiable.
I was hoping not to become too jaded by our government...they need to do the right thing...think before starting a war...recognise the plight of the soldier...and give them all the support they need...
Get some rest!!...goodnight!!
Nos da, Angel. Good to speak to you tonight.