Slept like.............

Oh I am feeling very good,

Slept very good after the chaos happened. Neighborhood getting back bounce to normal. Me and my neighbor lady went to the church last afternoon. Light a candle. angel angel

Priest talked to us, let us to talk what we feel,

fiuuh finally we both felt much better.

Today he comes to the place the body was found with holy water.

I am curious but I slept good and I feel I am normal mean crazy as usuallaugh laugh

Thank you for all your kind words, and moral support.

lots of love zeubouquet bouquet bouquet
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and the chinese family .....how are they getting on ...with their grief wave
oh no......the kitty cat 's lost half its head .....has the mods beeen up to his tricks again ....wave
zeu
Glad your better...and the event behind you now...lighting a candle is good way of saying goodbye but not to forget...wine
ZEUR,; I been dealing with that today! My friend was murdered today! I was just at my friend house yesterday.
angel
What a horrible thing to happen...hope you are okay...bouquet
@Loulou; I am hanging on in there. I was there today for 5 hours. After i got the phone call.
Hi Zeurich! Hope, everything is ok for you..! Have a nice day! dunno wave
Virgo Body is still at pathologist, till the investigation finished they cannot arrange a funeral. Hope they will finish that soon,, father and mother trying but I know it is hard...
Oh no Angel,,, sad flower sad flower that is terrible..
yeah of course lou,,, that fella wont go that easy I don't think from any one in this community
angel
Wow...how did it happen...was it someone you knew who did this or was it random...so sorry this happened to your friend...hang in there and I am glad your okay...
Thank you call wish you the same!thumbs up
sad flower ZEUR.; I am still in shock.
zeu
I am glad your sleeping better...it takes a toll on your health if you cannot sleep...wine
@Loulou; Someone came in his house. And shot him, a couple of times. 20 minutes, after his sister left the house.
angel
I hope everyone is safe...be careful...
@Loulou; Thank You!

@Virgo; They are looking at the neighbor SON. The father,of the son, is also! Our friend too!
and he shot his mother ? roll eyes
@Virgo; NO! Our friend, Men/Male
Oh my god angel,, few years back in the next complex something like that happen here too,, some one bell the door and the judge was shot at the door step,,, ooh,, I can understand how you feel my dear,,, give a bit of time,, sad flower sad flower
gosh ....that will be on fox news will it be ? wave
@ angel - So sad to hear this.... sad flower sad flower
@Virgo; I don't think it will be. It was on the local news today. When it happen to my daughter, it were on cnn.
angel
Why do we need guns...wow...your daughter shot...sorry once again...I am speechless...bouquet
@Hans; Thank you! Imma be alright! It just brought back memories....hug
gee angel may be you could post your own shocking blog and tell all ......wave
@Loulou; That was in 2007. I just got over that, a few weeks ago. She is alive. "She were shot 5 times./ In her home."
virgo
I think this is a sad tale that requires empathy...angel if you need to talk about it do so...

I was never a fan of guns to begin with...this is one of the reasons why...
Oh gosh angel truly sorry to hear that about your daughter... oh girl I dont know what to saysad flower sad flower sad flower
angel
I am happy she is okay...why does this happen anyway...
@Virgo; Naw! I don't have that much strength yet. She is alive!
@ LouLou - Guns don't kill people, people do... the same end result could have happened with a knife.... blues ... comfort
Zuerich, you sound to me like you're at a 'minimisation' station that may come after the shock stage. People often may subconsciously do this to protect themselves from the emotional trauma.

It's good that you had some ritual (lighting the candle) to help process the event and that you expressed your feelings to the priest. It's good that you have your friend and neighbour to share this with.

Keep an eye on yourself and your neighbour, though. You may find the experience doesn't really hit home, or 'become real' for a while. You may find you need to grieve, or process this event some time in the future, maybe next week, next month, next year, whatever.

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@Zeur.; There is nothing that, you can say. I am working on putting it in the pass.

@Loulou. I know, Its okay! Now. Guns??????
hans
Innocent children can accidentally kill with guns...a dispute fueled with alcohol can turn deadly with guns...sometimes I think the only people who should have access to guns are police officers...but I get your point...
Thank you Jac,, for your kind words...
I miss one comment that you say she is alive oh I can say I am happy to hear that,,,hug
@ZEUR.; I agree with Jac.
angel
You are one strong lady
zeu
post tramatic stress disorder can happen...be mindful of the symptoms...
Angel, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend and your daughter's experience. I'm relieved to hear your daughter survived.

We get through these things, but not without pain. Don't forget to look after yourself. hug
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