LonelyfromAfrica

LonelyfromAfrica

Oct 2015

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What your definition of co existence ...?

I need some clarity please .... does co existence mean that we need to keep quiet, has no right to question information and has to walk away the moment the other party gets upset...? What is your definition of co existence?

I have to leave my blog unattended for a while, but would appreciate debate and discussion in this section...

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Oct 18, 2015●2,000 Comments

In it's basic form, it means two people living together
who don't try to murder each other.

What you just
described is a controlling relationship in imo. I truly believe
at this point in my life I will be with a partner because we
both wish it, not for any other reason.

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Shouldn't the intent be to understand and accept although there could be differences...? If you can't debate or discuss... and learn to respect differences, how on earth will there be personal Growth?

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Coexistence is evidenced in relationships across differences that are built on mutual trust, respect, and recognition, and is widely understood as related to social inclusion and integration. In this situation, it appears to be one-sided, having no rights to question information and cannot communicate on a level playing field breeds a relationship of singularim. In your scenario it breeds of surpression....

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

So is co exist like a dog and cat... We tolerate, and don't kill...but also do not try to be any friends or to develop any common ground...

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Hey Sands

... so, you say coexistence implicate the scope to discuss, debate and to grow ...?

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

I would hope it's a level higher than animals, since I don't see respect as being part of the dog/cats repertoire....

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

absolutely

pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Oct 18, 2015●2,000 Comments

Have not lived like that in many years, and probably will not.
Should not have responded.

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Maybe I need to provide more context for my question... on the CS site... If we are requested to coexist ... what does this mean...? Does it mean that we can not question other bloggers in cases where information doesn't add Up?

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Mr Pedal man ... you are special....

me neither

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

All of a sudden this sheep debate we had a couple of months ago really starts to make sense

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hey Molly, yes funny moment

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hey Molly, yes funny moment

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hmmm!! must have been two funny moments

mollybaby●Cork City, Cork Ireland

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●11,285 Comments

Sands

I guess I should answer the question ..kinda.

I think people should not post blogs or threads unless they are willing to accept posts that the do not agree with.

They can then either counter-argue in an intelligent manner, or else agree to disagree.

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Oct 18, 2015●1,796 Comments

To be able to live in peace with one or more people in spite of their differences.

Cats and dogs can certainly do it although they are of different species so why can't human beings do the same?

Humans are the only species who kill their own.

Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Oct 18, 2015●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments

Co-existence to me would be to agree to disagree and move on I suppose but when I'm backed in a corner like last night I speak my piece then I move on.

It was just something I learned from my mother to never back down.

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

this is a formidable group and as such this sign says it all:

Embedded image from another site

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

But guys...and girls

... explain to me how a seem to be legitimate profile (a member who are known to most of us for some time now), could come up for a so called fake profile... I just don't get this...

Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Oct 18, 2015●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments

I only found out about that profile yesterday but does it really matter anyway?

They are gone by the mods.

I thought this was a topic pertaining to coexistence not the fake profile?

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

LFA, think of NAM's post of the girl he connected with and helped monetarily for a period of 9 months........

mollybaby●Cork City, Cork Ireland

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●11,285 Comments

People create fake profiles all the time.

One Irish fella is the world champion at it

Hi WS

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Also explain to me how one of our colleagues could expected me/us to have learned something from the Trilling

Experience? ... did I miss Something?

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Oct 18, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Hi Africa

what do you call a fake profiler?

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Molly...hi Wall Street

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Eish Sands

... now it makes sense... no wonder so many guys block girls from SA... and we usually need to ask you guys to open for us before we can contact you... I am disappointed for the people in my own country...

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

lfa, it's a worldwide phenomenon just not from SA.......

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

lfa, it's a worldwide phenomenon just not from SA.......

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Oct 18, 2015●1,796 Comments

Sorry but is this a blog about coexistence which I commented on or is it about faked profiles ?

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Eish Mrs Itchy... one big argument and then the profile disappeared... you missed something

... so fake... I suppose refers to fake pictures and information in that profile...

@ Cc

... you are also one heck of a brave woman and Biff is really funny

... thank you... yeah, my blog was prompted by a request in a previous blog to coexist despite the 'fake' profile and referring to the Trilling experience

Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Oct 18, 2015●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments

LonelyfromAfrica you never responded to my question post

Seems like this blog topic is really the fake profiles and gossiping about the person from last night.

I'll exit gracefully.

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 18, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hi Min, it's about coexisting with fake profiles...

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Both ....Point is... If we are expected to coexist without questioning information that doesn't make sense, we are also expected to tolerate fake profiles... ?

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Oct 18, 2015●1,796 Comments

Thanks Sands for the explanation then it looks as if I'm on the wrong blog as I never had any response to my comments.

Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA

Oct 18, 2015●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments

It means to live with each other peacefully!

LonelyfromAfricaOP●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 18, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

Cc ... you asked and I provided you with the answer as to what prompted my blog... My question remains ... do we have the right to question other bloggers (consequently there could be fake profiles), or should we accept and walk away the moment information doesn't add Up and resistance is experienced? Should we thus eat all information just for the sake to coexist on this Site?

zmountainman●Motril, Andalusia Spain

Oct 18, 2015●107 Blogs●7,852 Comments

Personally I think you have to have an idea as to why a fake was put up, there seems to be as many reasons as there are fake profiles

and there are lots that aren't 100% kosha

one put up with malicious intent needs to be treated differently to one with more innocent intentions, IMO

pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Oct 18, 2015●2,000 Comments

Sure misread this one, what a silly bunt.

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Oct 18, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Well it wasn't EvilKisses cause shes still here

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Oct 18, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Hey Africa, can anyone gossip about someone that never existed

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