It is time for me to go....

Dear Members of CS and CS moderators

I had been on this site for nearly a year now. My intent was to meet and chat with great people all over this planet (and I did get this opportunity... thank you)...

However, recently I really got so disappointed in the people we have on this site... to a degree it is worst than real life, ...in real life you also can go and sort conflict face to face... here it gets messy...

My disappointment is not only in how people on this site deals when being challenged with facts ... It is also how gullible intelligent people can be... how can we take sides and that based on face value

... some bloggers don't keep any records of previous blogs (also then usually blame the inconsistency of this site ... which is also a concern for me). When there is a blog 'complain' ...some intelligent people will then get involved in the discussion and taking sides and that based on selective or no information at all...

My value system is far to solid for 1) being insulted purely because I wanted to make sense of my world, 2) tolerating manipulation of the system and 3) seeing members succeeding in the victim game...

My life is blessed and this site was purely when I couldn't sleep at night. I really don't have to be put up with this. Maybe I would be able to meet some of you in real life ... take care... look at the bigger picture, don't provide any person with your login details and approach life with open eyes...

I am in the process cancelling my profile... but in the meantime....

Sweetkisses ....Namaste

teddybear
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Namaste====== we all need break from here from time to time for your reasons too. I have come back 3roll eyes times now and some of US oldtimers are still around,
PLEASE be an oldtimer toohug dont delete profile just close it for awhile.peace teddybear lips
wave After reading one of your posts yesterday, I hold
you high esteem.thumbs up The work load, the commitments,
and your genuine nature is a rare commodity. You are pretty
also.cool Yeah, I don't behave myself a lotgrin , but still
I enjoy it, and people like yourself.dancing
You don't have to delete your profile, just read, and then
pick your spots.conversing I will miss ya if you do go.
bouquet
Hi Africa wave
i'v read the other blogs/posts but because of the day that is init i don't have time yet to reply....
but pls reconsider leaving, i'd miss you if you weren't here.

I have posts and all blogs kept and filed from a certain member here.. I'm sorry, but i have to rush off now.. hope your still here when i get the time to post again later on hug

But if not, i wish you well in everything teddybear






Ps, don't gooooooooo sad moping
everyone is their own boss...one can ignore...the ones that make you blues ortongue but...you can stay for the ones who smitten orhug you...jmo...teddybear comfort handshake (forgive me..if i am wrong)wave
Ya helped me with your comments on my crazy blogsbanana
LFA

talk to hand Wait! Stop.
But! But! What About Me?!___blues

We were roommates! Remember?;
Aww! Shucks Buck. Know whose going to pay my share of the rent, when I want pay it! _ hmmm

Either Way!
I Will Miss You Greatly ....hug
Dear All ...bouquet

Your efforts keeping me here is greatly appreciated. Think we all need to make wise decisions as to what brings us joy and what gives us faith in the human race. With exceptions (YOU), this site is a typical reflection of our human race... sad, but it is true... games we play and also a system tolerating this...

Real life, we can't always decide with what we are prepared to deal with... on this site we can... I don't walk back in old footsteps and will not be back again... Call me a coward, but I rather walk away and keep sanity in my life than tolerating this and loosing faith in the Human race on a daily bases.

However, to all of you who made me smile and provided comfort ... God bless, life has a strange way with all of us... maybe, just maybe our paths will cross again somewhere else...

Lots of sincere heartfelt wishes
J from SA teddybear
Lonely,wave hug I sincerely don't think you need any of my advice as I find you to be a remarkable human being. I have read your earliest blogs and I remember you are in the field of psychology. You opted to take care of your parents instead of a better career opportunity. I normally don't comment on every blog. But I read most of the good ones. But even good people can have bad days and lose it some days. I agree with Red. Sometimes it is better to step back and watch the drama unfold than taking part in it. grin Stay safe young lady.hug bouquet

Have a nice day.teddybear
The wisest and most inspiring words I've ever read from somebody on their way out of here! Thank you and namaste bouquet
Interesting...if I made the decision that I no longer wanted to be here I would just go and that would be that. What I wouldn't do is to tell the CS community and write a blog about it.

This tells me that you'll be back and writing this was to determine how popular you are or aren't....but why would you need to know this?confused
Best of luck to you in your future endeavors.
LonelyfromAfrica

When I checked CS this morning soon after I awoke, I noticed this blog. I was hoping to send you an email, requesting correspondence with you on stimulating topics in psychology, etc. for I greatly respect and admire "your mind".

However, when I checked again, your profile was not available.

Please do not be put off by whatever unpleasant experience you have had with some persons here.

I sincerely hope you will return soon.
LFA;

Hope you can back with us before long...

My best regards!hug
I know we haven't talked much but I have read several of your posts and liked them. They were positive and thoughtful. We need more of that here.

Please come back.
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