FRIENDS ARE NICE BUT NOT NECCASARY
My family is going through a difficult time right now, my mother which is 89 years old and just lost her husband back in May has found out that my brother as taken advantage of her and me and my other brother.She and my other brother and myself has trusted him to take care of my mothers affairs, come to find out he has taken her for $70,000 and has fixed it where me and my brother are not on the Insurance policy so everything will go to him plus her bank accounts.
Thank God we was able to find this out and have now fixed all his wrong doings other than the money he has already got. so now he is out of her will and will not receive anything else.
He got caught and now has nothing to do with any family member, even his mother.
Now not to many people know what has happen but it is funny how friends of the family for years have taken sides with my brother, with out knowing all the facts or some not even knowing any of the facts.
Friends are nice to have, but if you going to be a friend be a friend.
Sorry just venting.
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Is it not amazing all the trouble that inheritance can cause.?
I hope everything for you and the rest of your family works out!
I remember him telling me years ago...what will tear a family apart is when someone dies and they have money or property...
He was fixing this for him before she even died.
Sorry.
They give Christians a bad name.
A big AMEN to that!
They give Christians a bad name.
Wen sorry that happened but just because someone attends church,the wife plays piano in church and the son is a Deacon of the church and plays bass and sings in church doesn't make someone a Christian.
It really has to do with someones actions.
Sorry to hear. I have heard of similar stories many times. I hope your family can heal overall and come to amends.
all I am saying on that matter, is how can you carry on a Christian life and knowing what you done to your family. we fixed the wrong they done to us, now they have to answer to God what they have done as a Christian.
my problem with him is what he done to my mother and her hurt.
this is what my blog was about is the friend thing, a family friend for years should still be a family friend, and like you said don't even know all the facts.
Thanks for your comment
My problem is with the friends that has been with the family for so many years. and side with one or the other.
One of our so called friends went to my mothers house the other day, trying in a deceiving way to get info. this friend has not visited my mother in years and my mother would not go there with them
You are a good son.
Fortunately a woman's heart is very ..I can't find the words.Humble.
For her sake I do hope they can make peace and be a mother and son relationship, Maybe time can heal.
Thank you
Don´t be sorry, it´s not all about )/)(/(%/%)( here....sometimes, venting is what we need....Sorry to hear about your bro and those "friends"....can´t say don´t know what you are talking about
She is 89 and now lives alone, I spend a lot of time there with her,i take her places she needs to go and on Sunday morning I take her to Church and she really loves that.
Thank you for the point on my mother
Yes for my mother's sake I hope they can.
Thanks.
and if you don't mind me saying, he should be put up against the wall and shot.. and them that side with him deserve a public flogging
Thanks itchy.
The sad thing is how it has really hurt my mother, and she is 89 and I have noticed how her health has been going down.