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I remember those those times when I was high school, I could write forever.

I could write to my friends even look up penpals in the local papers and write a lot and a lot of letters to them

It was good putting pen to paper those days

Now I see nobody at the local post office ,gone are the postage stamps and here comes new high tech of smart phones

A person who irritates you is always the one who loves you very much but fails to express it.

THE SPEAKING TREE ON BALANCE::::::::::::::::::::

We find summer, rain, winter and spring seasons following one another in perfect harmony and balance. This is because these seasons are working on The Theory of Balance. Balance is a weighing scale where exactly equal quantities are put in the 2 scales for the scale to balance. I have identified 4 major problems in the world and I put these problems in that order: Relationship, Education, work and Rest. The idea is to obtain perfect balance among the 4.
• Relationship is based on Truth where balance comes into play. A true relationship can be developed where there are no fear and no selfishness but only love and understanding. If you know to balance between love and fear or selfishness and understanding, you have a solution.
• Education is another aspect where balance comes into play. Education always shows a person what is right and wrong. How to strike a balance between right and wrong is what education gives us.
• Now, as far as Work is concerned, it is the most important activity for Man. Without work, Man is Dead. Work gives the body activity which digests our food and thus maintaining our health .This keeps our bodies in perfect Balance.
• With work goes Rest. If you work too much, you become tired and if you work too little, you become lethargic (or tired). Here also, balance comes into play. If you can balance between work and rest, you have a solution between prosperity and health.
In conclusion, it can be said that balance is the only ultimate solution of every problem in the world, because balance begets harmony.
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I don't mean to to come and spread negativity in our blog world today but boy I'm having one of those days where I just want to sulk down in the bottom of the ocean. ...

I mean it's a very beautiful day in spring but my flowers are all eaten up by bugs and it happened so fast.

On my porch are beautiful begonias and orange flowers, so beautiful yesterday, I woke up and boy golly nothing is left of the leaves and flowers.


I know what to do, go and get me pesticides which I absolutely dislike.
Just sharing my not too shiny day. I hope my son will call me.

I should fly back to California this July 4th.

Have a nice weekend everyone.

Some rules are made to be broken, write better.....

Those who did you wrong (people who hurt you most), forgive them even they are not sorry, pray and continue loving, for there is the universal law KARMA.
Like gravity, karma is so basic we often don't even notice it.
And karma if it's not showing, it will be coming soon.

YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE, WHETHER IT'S BAD OR GOOD.

Honestly I am HONEST.
Of course, some of you will raise your brows. I understand you do not know me....and it's perfectly okay again.

Why there is dating site? I am not supposed to be here, but out of my sister's fun She did this for me, (thinking-maybe I could find the right one here) but I guess she's not aware that I don't believe in looking for love.

Love is something that we can not force to have.

I was just wondering, some people here keeps their profile as a caption of " looking for an honest woman/man" ironically, everybody can claim that they were honest, but the truth is they are not.

It takes two to tango.

Don't give your 100% trust on dating on line.

But how are we goin' to know the truthfulness of each of us?

Lie detector please....
But we can not.

Goodluck to all your search.

I am telling you I am honest<3

This week might be remembered as one of the most extraordinary in the history of this country. Revelations of and about an old symbol that reminded us of a time long ago when slavery and oppression were the norm, but now, will no longer be tolerated. With the removal of the stars & bars from so many statehouse’s across the South is the recognition that any reminder, no matter how relabeled, rebranded is still a reminder. A reminder that is unnecessary, unproductive, and only serves as a reminder that needs to relegated to history. And as if not to be outdone, the Supreme Court finally made a determination that enforces those words that are held so secreted in our constitution; that we are all created equal. Not only in color, race and creed, but in love and compassion and the need to be part of a family, no matter how composed.

No doubt the controversy will continue and, of course, there will never be total agreement but finally we again recognize that the very essence of the constitution was to protect each and every citizen against an over dominant government that would suppress any of a citizens rights to be free. Free in thought, expression, action, feeling and now, free in commitment to the person they love, no matter their race, color, creed or sex.

All too often we have forgotten many of those guarantee’s and instead have sought to enforce upon others our own limited and narrow points of view. Rather than celebrate our diversity we have tried to make everyone part of one giant, vanilla, culture that is as boring and tiresome as it could be. We have failed to understand and appreciate those subtle and not so subtle differences that makes us unique. And in being unique we bring enlightenment and creativity in thought and idea; elements that will cause the creative to be more creative and open eyes that may have long since been closed.

Perhaps the new phrase need now be “so all persons may be created equal” because that is exactly what the court has ruled. How will the success be measured? Certainly by one couple at a time with all the happiness, sadness, marriage, divorce, fights over custody and so many other things, but most important of all will be the right to live those lives, experience those feelings and know them all.

While I personally couldn’t care less who marries whom, I am glad to live in a country that continues to try to live up to it’s greatest promise to it’s citizens; the constitution. I hope the debate will continue on the so many other issues that are in conflict since this is exactly what the framers wanted; freedom of thought, idea, expression and so much more. I grieve for those that live in countries that don’t grant those promises and can only hope for each of them to be allowed to read those sacred words of Emma Lazarus, emblazed at the ladies feet ….

“Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed, to me:
I lift my lamp beside the golden door.”

As the country continues to deal with the grief, anger, and disgust of a lone gunman that shot down 9 members of a prayer group, the discussion of one of the more dominant symbols of a long ago era of enslavement and bigotry remains under attack. The lines are drawn between historians and those that want the symbol to fade away for good and as with other similar issues of the past, this one isn’t going quietly, especially for those members of the CSA and others with their roots in the distant past.

There are very compelling reasons on both sides so a unanimous decision is certainly not expected, in fact if you go back to when this most recent outrage sprang up it doesn’t appear to be the flag itself or what is once stood for, but the fact that by state law, that flag could not legally be flown at half staff in respect for the dead … understandably seen as another act of defiance that reinforced the old suggestions of superiority based on color and race.

There is a lot of rational in relegating this piece of cloth to displays in museums rather than on the grounds of the state, in fact the presence of it on many state capitals suggests a continued divide between North & South that is long since past. There are many different types of flags in museums along with their memorabilia that are better preserved and explained simply by their presence in that appropriate place. One might suggest that all Native Americans should be allowed to carry their hatchets, bows, scalps and other relics of the past and freely display them everywhere, just so we would not forget their place in history.

In a time where there is so much in the way of racial discontent and activities that seem to promote racial discord rather than unity, we would be wise to search for common ground every step of the way. This country is rightfully still referred to as the “great melting pot” and if we do not allow individuals, groups and organizations their separate identities and cultural uniqueness, we might fairly be accused of racial white-washing. History, all history, be it good, bad, disgusting, etc. is still history and it is important for our children and other future generations to know of the past so they might better appreciate the present and work towards an improved future.

If we are to uphold our constitution for all that it stands for we might not try to rewrite it every time there is some form of decent. Decent is one of the pillars of democracy as are the rights of free speech and expression. It does not mean that we have to agree, but that we have the right to disagree and express ourselves to that end.

As a former soldier I am personally offended greatly every time some young person feels the need to burn a flag or turn the flag into some personal article of clothing but the very things that I fought for are for those rights to be preserved, no matter mine or others personal feelings. That is why the framers acted as they did, to preserve each individuals rights and prevent others from taking them away simply because they failed todays popularity test.

The history of this country is filled with all sorts of embarrassing historical facts and acts. Better we preserve them for future generations so they will understand why we are so strong today or we shall certainly risk becoming such a faded race of ourselves that we shall forget exactly what and why we are willing to stand up and fight for what we believe in. It’s still a dangerous world and we Americans need to continue to appreciate our heritage and be prepared to heed to call to arms when the time again comes.

Modern men are just lame, too passive and not standing for their rights; forever trying to be politically correct. This is mainly because they have been deprived of their pride – the privilege to care for their families.

It appears to be more advantageous to be gay. Somehow, it is perfectly acceptable to say you want to be a woman, but when you try to be a man, everybody jumps on the bandwagon. Women are not satisfied with equality. They want to dominate, and in the process, they are causing men to feel uncomfortable about being men. Men no longer care about being a ‘real man’. All they strive for is to be politically correct.

Men are avoiding long-term commitments altogether; buying a house is no longer considered to be a good investment, and no longer do they see a proper education as important. We are rapidly losing the basic building block of our civilization – the family, and children are raised without discipline or routine.

Well-off men refuse to get married because it is a one-sided venture that entitles women to half of their possessions and future earnings via a divorce settlement, even if they cheated. In the US the paternity fraud rate is as high as 30% in some states; think about it, three out of every ten children are raised and supported by unsuspecting men, fraudulently convinced that they are caring for their own offspring(*). With the average cost of raising a child to the age of 18, now standing at 245,000 US$, we are talking about a major crime.

Neither men nor women need to dominate. We are about equal in numbers. It is only in the higher age brackets that women have superior numbers. That is only because men die earlier… after working all their lives to provide their families with a comfortable old age. The mere fact that 80% of all residents in retirement centers are women enjoying a comfortable old age – thanks to the efforts of a late husband, can testify to that.

Modern men no longer see provision as paramount and sometimes, when you see the fruit of a lifetime’s labor being squandered on a toy boy, it can easily be understood. Men are rejecting the idea of being a ‘real man’, because there’s no logical reason to be one. They are trying to avoid a situation that places them at a disadvantage.

The countries in the West with their sophisticated constitutions and so-called human rights bills are getting weak, and in the end, we will be over-run by the countries where men are still allowed to be men. There will be nobody to defend against them because our men will no longer be men.

It happened in Rome and history will still repeat itself. And it may just happen that the dis-empowered men of the West, having nothing to defend, will see the invaders as liberators. We are digging our own graves.


Have a nice day and don’t slaughter me! It is only opinion.

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