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To the living, I am gone
To the sorrowful, I will never return
To the angry, I was cheated
But to the happy, I am at peace
And to the faithful, I have never left
I cannot speak, but I can listen
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard
So as you stand upon the shore
Gazing at the beautiful sea, remember me
As you look in awe at a mighty forest
And in its grand majesty, remember me
Remember me in your hearts,
In your thoughts, and the memories of the
Times we loved, the times we cried,
the battle we fought and the times we laughed
For if you always think of me,
I will never have gone.


There's something beautiful and moving there. A eulogy in store.

Is it possible for a country that is described as "Advanced" to be racist? If yes, then what is the advancement all about?

This is an open blog seeking thoughts and opinions about what CS is really all about.

It is advertised as a dating site with many other features.
But I ask, isn’t it really just a social site with some dating features.

Just as Facebook and Twitter are social sites. There has been success in some from those sites getting together and dating, even getting married.

Let’s break down what makes a social site.

A social site is a place where people can meet and make friends through communication over the World Wide Web. Where games, puzzles, communication publicly or privately, a collection of members that can interact in so many different ways, A place where people can meet and share life experiences and make new friends as well as catch up with friends they haven’t seen for a while, Somewhere they can post pictures and tell stories, tall and true, A place where people can interact on a daily basis. Isn’t this CS?

What is so different between CS and Facebook, Twitter, even LinkedIn or any other social networking site?

Should we just consider CS a dating site that offers more than other dating sites, or should we view it as a Social Site that offers more than other Social Sites?

Advertisers are equally important to both Social Sites and Dating Sites, or do advertisers pay more because a site specialises in Social networking or Dating?

How many Dating sites allow debate about various topics such as Capital Punishment, Religion, Same sex marriages and so forth? Yet social sites encourage this type of interaction.

How many Dating sites have extras such as a poets corner, forums, blogs, face puzzles, photo ratings and so on? Yet Social sites have all these.

I could go on and on and on, but I really would like all those out there in CS land to give me their view/opinion.

WHAT DO YOU THINK CS IS REALLY ALL ABOUT?
I may not be able to quickly respond to all comments, but i would really appreciate as much feedback as possible.
I will be back to add my thoughts a little later.
Thanking you all in advance.

Who are your neighbours? You see them, you greet them may be, you even smile with them, but do you know actually who they are? In France, greetings are personalised between people who really know each other, that is why some foreigners who visit France usually get angry at French people and find it difficult to understand the way of life here.It's sometimes ok in France not to greet people you don't know even if they are your closest neighbours, or not to respond to people you don't know.

Living our lives is very much like gambling and we have to play our chips very carefully if we hope to gain. Everything that we attempt has a risk of failing, sometimes due to factors completely beyond our control.

Before we embark on any big venture, we should consider the odds of success and weigh it up against the impact that failure may have on our lives. While your current employment may not be perfect, you know what you have to deal with but you don’t know what you’re getting into when you when you take up that ‘wonderful’ new job. The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence; as one of my friends discovered last year.

But you do have to take some risks in life if you want to gain. You cannot win if you do not play but you must decide what to pursue and what to ignore.

If you bet too low, you won’t lose much if you fail but your gain won’t be much either if you win. On the other hand, if you put too much on the stake, you may lose everything.

There is no sure winner in a horse race. We constantly have to weigh up the odds of success vs. the impact of failure. If failure can clean you out, cut your losses and drop out while you can still do so gracefully.

It all boils down to knowing when to hold, when to fold, when to walk away and when to run.


Chill out. It is Friday!

I have cancelled the rest of my day due to a lack of motivation and a surplus of headache. But what a day it was! I even danced and that is a very rare event. And today I’m looking for a dark corner where I can curl up to ‘rest’ my ‘tiredness’ away.

The day did not start well. I woke up much earlier than planned, my stomach did not feel too well and I had an acute need to take fruit salts but I could not bring it anywhere close to my head. It made too much noise and once the noise stopped, it was flat. I wonder what caused the headache; maybe I did not sleep enough. It could not have been the fish; it has never done that before. But I felt much better after a nice fatty breakfast. Bacon, egg and sausage never tasted better.

Of course, I ended up grilling the fish, as is the custom around here. Apparently handing in your birth certificate does not help. Birth leave is only given on the day you are born and not on the anniversaries thereof. Those are normal working days; or so it was explained to me. I should have smelled a rat when everybody suggested fish for yesterday. This is the kind of friends that I have.

The worst of it is that the real party (for the family) is only coming up this Saturday and it became a triple event now because my late brother’s daughter had her birthday last week and my sister is having hers on Thursday. I wonder if I can still withdraw at this late stage, I’m getting too old for this.


I hope your day is better than mine.

what you do when your board and can't sleep I seriously need to chat

What do I do or say say now? Is it wrong to have a birthday? In that case I do apologize to all involved for doing do. I meant no harm. I did not pick the day I was born on and it is not my fault if you did not enjoy yours.

But why am I apologizing? For the second time since I'm here, I ask you, am I such a piece of shit? Tell me now and I will leave because I have never done anybody no harm. I cannot help if you have a bee in your bonnet.

The previous time I posted a blog like this, CS preferred to delete the blog after two days but that was under other circumstances, so I say again, tell me now and I tell leave. I don't need this in my life.

I have seen so many profiles with open minded status

And can you believe it, its only on males profiles?


Don't you think its sick?


Why do you have someone but you are still open minded?