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I'm searching for an old blog this morning and came across a few comments by Bearwoman who left us a few years ago. A friend had her password and came to announce she had died.
She is not forgotten...
It's interesting to look at the life course of almost all of us humans in these regards. Seems to me to be a two fer. The really innocent young seem not to shy away from admitting that some action and it's consequences was at least part of their doing. When the books topple off the shelf, most kindergarteners may laugh, perhaps a little anxiously, when asked who dunnit. They tend, however, to admit their roles. But soon this changes, and we see the results in older folks every day..... Someone else shouldn't have placed the books where they could easily fall. Why were they so close to our play/work area anyway? Mary Jane pushed me into them. Or worst, the reflexive retort----I didn't do it. Of course, many spiritual traditions, educators, self help groups, good parents, therapists, etc. encourage us to be truthful, and to admit our places in what happens. But it goes much deeper. When things don't seem to go our way, a little honest reflection almost always shows that somehow, somewhere, something in our actions or behaviors were involved in the causal loop of how the world works. And lordy...can we ever rationalize our roles out of the loops? In the worst cases of denial, we may actually see our involvement, but spin our motives around to make ourselves believe that, if we did have a role in things, it was well intentioned! The upside here, at least for me, is that when I try to practice such self honesty, and examine my motives, the Mr. Wonderful vanishes, and I learn a little about life. Even better, I crack myself up about myself. Belly laughs. But none of us are saints. And the question is, what sorts of forces change honest little kids into self deluding adults? The troubling answers underly much of human pain and strife. Aa.
"Is every man capable of murdering?"
In my opinion, except for the exception;
except if one is not capable of that.
An example:
When you are physically,
from head to toe, would be paralyzed,
then, in practice,
unable to kill;
but when the spirit
will function without problems,
then one is able to kill,
in his / her thoughts and feelings .......
First a lesson in biology
First let's start with the core of the problem: the nice feeling of a like. You know it, your phone vibrates and you want to look directly. This feeling is determined by two different substances in your body: dopamine and oxytocin. The substance Dopamine ensures that you long for certain things. In the field of sport and sex you long for a certain achievement. And that also applies to your telephone and social media. If you post a photo you want to get likes, reactions and attention. The more the better. You become so addicted to the likes
Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need. It so painful to see our brothers and sisters die looking for better place. But we all forget the cause of this, toping of Libya Muama Gaddafi and trying to remove Syrian president by super power state its wht made this today. Who is resposible for this now?????????
What happens when Dutch filmmaker Sunny Bergman walks through London dressed up as Black Peter (Zwarte Piet)?...……………
How to handle people who gossip about you; spread false rumors