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Today is the last day of July, the month dedicated internationally to picnics .... and therefore the great outdoors ! Not here though. In this, on this small island, we are a very poor nation. The little there is is inundated with building waste material, rubbish, or illegal encroachment by caravans and bird trappers’ RTO notices. All to a backdrop of towering cranes and noise.
So we don’t do picnics. We do beach barbecues ! The black small mounds of soot and unconsumed charcoal which pepper some of our popular rocky beach spots and the resultant eyesore of overflowing separating rubbish bins have become a norm, accepted by a people who seem to have given up.
But on this, maybe some other time ...
Peace

The madness of perceiving human behavior. How can any one person have the ultimate truth of how people
think feel and react to any given situation? Remember the ol classic saying from unique groups of people who say "You don't know me You don't know my heart or mind !!" I think anyone who says that tend to not know who they are either so they say such a thing in defense of being vulnerable to the perception of others
The saying Know thyself is most true. Seeing your life through the eyes of another who loves you unconditionally
often hurts because they will tell you the truth. Those who don't give a f*ck about you will say nothing and focus their attention to others who they feel will fit their comfort zone.
Fair weather friends are just that. when things are going good they are your friends when things are going bad you may find yourself alone.
Beating ourselves up trying to fit in is a hopeless endeavor. If being yourself is not working for ya it is clear you need to play elsewhere or the people you are playing with are not worth your time and effort.
If nobody loves you in your lowest time they will not love you in your highest. If you kick those who do love you and are trying to help you and you may not like the quality of help offered but it is what you may need.
Many call it tough love. Tough love teaches us that others see a gift in you a trait and quality that you don't see in yourself. Those who do love you will stick by you through thick and thin for better or worse richer or poorer and sickness or health the very vows many make but I see they are mostly just words for many. If it were not so the divorce rate would not be so high. We are here to build relationships and friends and maybe find a more tighter relationship for s*xual union and bonding. Yet, I make my observations of the behavior of many here and the overall attitudes about their relationships based upon what they say or ask about in getting or offering opinions.
I think many take it as a joke who could care less about anyone. Many are here to build a fortress that nobody can break through. Many are here for a popularity contest and many have lost their faith in finding a friend. Perhaps those who lost that faith one could suggest try being a friend or at least make yourself available for others to reach out. To be emotionally unavailable you might as well not waste your time screwing around of a date site. This site offers one element most others do not. We can write blogs forums and all kinds of things from games to whatever and it gives many around the globe a chance to reach out to people who would otherwise be unnoticed. Everyone comes from all walks of life and cultures and it sort of made the world a bit smaller and perhaps a bit cramped. Nevertheless, it leaves us with many choices. We learn though that many share the same common denominator that we are never going to be happy behind a computer screen. Yet, imagine if we were all in the same room up close and personal. How would our behavior change?
Suddenly, we would have to face those we hurt or those who hurt us. We would have to either learn to get along or end up fighting for nothing causing undue pain.
In a world on the brink of civil war and nuclear and social political strife all around the tensions are mounting and I believe everyone is feeling it. Yes we can sugar coat it through niceties and poetry but I think we all need to work on our ways. Yes many will say Akel as soon as you change your ways perhaps others will change theirs. Do consider that behavior patterns are hard to change or break and one has to be aware of the sabotaging patterns in order to break them. Yes, I have said like Ghandhi as said many moons ago Be the change we want to see in the world. It has to start with me and others.

Guns are perpetrators NOT criminal scum
to pretzel ideology we'll never succumb
2ND Amendment liberal's thirst to negate
Republics Constitution they yearn to eradicate

Reason behind confiscating our arms nefarious
infantile arguments never veer from hilarious
Guns shooting themself has certain appeal
Pistol gangs eliminating real gangs ideal

Guns mostly irrelevant in unspeakable crimes
black folks maliciously perpetuate olden times
Stop demonizing the poor innocent guns
In DC mendacity delivered in tons

Guns can't kill their handlers do
advocate intrepidly about all things true
Don't fear indoctrinated fools called 'Woke
on social bullshit they'll inevitably choke

'We The People' shan't relinquish protection
for America and her Patriots preservation

It's been a generation since Pink Floyd recorded together. They recently reunited in the studio to record and produce a fundraiser for the people of Ukraine.
Inspired by singer Andriy Khlyvnyuk of the Ukrainian band Boombox, who ended his US tour and returned home in Kyiv to defend his country.

Hey Hey Rise Up...

gotta be careful being friendly at work.. lots of jealousy.?

i receive a message from someone the other day not gonna quote the whole message but said i have too many friends and its intimidating what i would like to know is .

does having a few people on my friends list make me a bad person ?

how can that be intimidating?

does it matter how many friends a person have on the list?

How could you tell you were dealing with one?
What are some of the characteristics exhibited by a Psychopath which can help identify this type of individual?
Were you feeling fear or apprehension at some level when confronting one?

in modest turnout, unwatched (except by the left biased media---all frothing gleeful at the jowls) mid term elections. Mostly with support of government school teachers' unions. The same folks behind the much worse performance, ocompared with private and home schooled pupils, while typically vastly onerspending per pupil by government schools. Now Virginia.and possibly Kentucky, may have to look forward to the lives led by citizens in the dreadful deteriorating conditions in most democrat ruled US cities. We recall how under such conditions and rule, the streets of NYC were dangerous from petty and violent crime, until Mayor Giuliani took over from successive democrat mayors. Yes, the same Guiliani now persecuted by the team COUP. Recently, Democrat ruled Austin, Texas, began to have similar deteriorating (homeless used syringe and street defaecation) conditions, as in most democrat ruled cities. The hard core republican state Governor snipped all this offf at the bud, with buckling city cooperation, and little, suprisingly, heard from the biased media. Imagine all that.

In Heaven she is known as the gentle one, the war maker, the Advocate. But she was first called the silent one, dubbed by her family, because, unlike her cousins, when she was hungry, or needed changing, or needed a hug. She laid in silence, and her aunties uncles and grandparents alike LOOOOVED her. Of course her cousins, who werent getting the same amount of attention when she came to their houses HAAAATED her.

She would withdraw, and grow even more quiet, when she watched as her cousins would be angry at her not knowing why only seeing their anger. Her cousins bullied her, however her cousins grew tired of being angry, and left her be. Most of them...

Then there were her parents, they began to resent her too. She was never home for more than 2 days a week IF her parents were lucky. Once both her grandmothers fought over her. One was going to whangai (adopt) her as tradition goes the first born is given to the grandparents so when he or she comes of age takes care of them as Maori ways dictate. BUT the other grandmother was not letting that happen. so to appease grandmother julie she was promised the second born instead.

In the beginning for her parents it was absolutely terrifying when they realized, they did not know when she was hungry and that sometimes they forgot she was there, she would not cry out for their love or for food in her belly. But no one knew why... 'The Old Man' she once called Dod told her why, without realizing, when she was in her late teeens.
One night on the piss her old man told her, "Did you know that while your mum was giving birth to you she yelled 'GET THIS f*ckING THING OUT OF ME!!!'? It was later on when after deep thought she said in her mind, "this is why i became silent" she had become terrified of the most pure and fierce hatred from the person who gave birth to her. little did they know she was that intelligent with next level asp. She would like you to know that the greater the gentleness the higher asp, and hers was extremely high.

I would like to end it here for now she broke down crying you know that ugly cry u get when someone u deeply love who passed as a kid? Out of everyone in her life the one who genuinely loved her was her dog. It is the only pure love and happiness she felt that never wavered because guess what? everyone else did later on in her life...

Thats not the sad part in this situation, she stopped instantly after roughly 5 secs, she is terrified someone might attack her scars at her most weakest moment. People enjoyed hurting her at her lowest...

To be continued.



This was the music we were listening to as I wrote this: