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Guys i need some suggestion here , anyone familiar with the church marriage annulation process ?
My bf once married in the catholic church in the US , but the plan i have in mind was for us to be married in the catholic church here in Indonesia. On July , next year i am suppose to make us an appointment with the people that can help with the bureaucracy and he is ready to bring related documents and sign any necessary papers ( yes it seems like we are a bit rushing on things but our age is not actually young anymore, for me i have no time to waste ) But so far the church giving me a cold shoulder
Where should we apply the annulation ? will it be easier if its done there in the US ? anyone familiar with this ?

Second , my bf actually use to be my ex bf's friend. I know them both online for 5 years now, and i didnt actually say good bye with my ex bf ( which i havent even met yet Lmao ) because it is my bf that tells me that my ex is involved with another woman. But everything was fine , my ex didnt do any of his act until my bf posted something on my page at another social media site. And from that day until today my ex is mailing my bf back and forth ( but my ex never mail me ) telling my bf the plan i had with him which i didnt say anything about ( Lols ) about our story , and the best part was my ex is asking my bf to become his brother ..

My bf is a bit of a sentimental person and my ex said to him that he needs him that he never had a real brother that he is fragille and dont know what to do, he loose his way so many times, that he is stuck with his life , that he is broke ( get a job will ya!!! ) .. and so on ( duh , sounds like a girl to me ) and this kindda things really makes my bf to consider being there for my ex.

I mean funny right, I use to think that no internet interaction can be complicated or real but now i witness that it can be as real as it needed to be and as complicated ( even more ) as real relationship can get. For me will i made it all the way in my new relationship that i really dont know but its not like i dont have a life. So i will do my best but i leave the rest to The Bigger Force to decide.

Im only affraid that my ex is playing another one of his game . I never talk to my ex again, i didnt reply his emails, never did i say goodbye. I dont feel there is a reason to do so. If he didnt cheat i would prepare to do anything necessary for us, but now its a complete different situation. I dont even think my ex existed anymore.

So i wonder is my ex trying to arouse my reaction or is he trying to destroy my new relationship or the last possibility which i doubt but its possible that he is really reaching out for help ( which this possibility kindda make me feel bad ) ..

Any advise and suggestions would be deeply appreciated . Sometime we do need outside opinion because they can see things clearer.






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Had to share this article... this applies to both men and women.

He/she loves me... he/she loves me not

6-WARNINGS: He's Just Not Into You

1. He talks about his ex frequently. It's fine to bring up the ex once in a while under very neutral contexts, e.g., "My ex has the kids this week." But talking incessantly about prior relationships is tacky and might also imply that there are still some unresolved issues lingering in his head, whether it's rage, resentment or doubt. This rule applies to you too. Do not mention your previous love life and its contents, including: pet names, restraining orders or p*nis size.

Relationship therapist Dr. Turndorf suggests, if he mentions the ex and it bothers you, speak up and say something: "The effective way of handling this is to ask him if he knows how he feels when he brings up the subject of his ex? Does he feel hurt? Does he feel angry?" If his problems persist, keep in mind that you don't have to.

2. He tells you he's not ready for a relationship. I can't believe how many times I've heard women dismiss this statement and continue pursuing unavailable men. These guys will flat out tell you that they don't want to commit to you, but here you are, baking them cookies, enjoying naked sleepovers and gushing to all your girlfriends about what a catch he is. Because, "once he sees how great you are, he will surely commit.

If this is you, please find someone to slap you back into reality. The truth is-- he doesn't want a relationship (it's the same as not being ready for one), even with someone as delightful and wonderful as you. And you shouldn't waste your time trying to convince him otherwise, because his mind is already set.

3. He wants to get into a relationship immediately. Refusing to commit to you is not a good thing, but neither is moving into a relationship at lightning speed. Relax, you aren't Benjamin Button-- you don't have five minutes to fall in love and have babies. If your man tells you he loves you or wants to commit to you during or shortly after the first date, something is up. (Unless of course, you do too, and it's love at first sight for both of you).

4. He still hasn't asked you out. This should be a given, but I can't tell you how many times I've heard people texting or g-chatting for months and months before any attempt at physical contact is made. If you're seeking mild flirtation or a virtual relationship, texting is fine-but if you want something more, then he needs to make a move in real life. If you're at a point where you don't want to wait anymore, stop waiting. You shouldn't have to force someone to ask you out.

5. He doesn't let you go near his phone. This is also a given, in my opinion. But I have firsthand witnessed relationships in which phones are private property, locked and guarded with military-like defense systems. If your partner has issues about letting you see his phone, then chances are, he's hiding something sketchy. The mere fact that he turns all Charlie Sheen on you the moment you go near it should be a big clue. I'm not saying that couples need to share passwords or answer each other's phones, but you shouldn't ever feel like he's keeping something important from you either. If you feel weird about something, tell him. Maybe he's got a great excuse, like he's in the CIA or running from the mob. It's way better than finding those naked pictures of his ex later on.

6. He doesn't give you butterflies. He may have a great career, a nice apartment with hardwood floors, a humanitarian heart and killer abs, but if he doesn't make your heart all warm and fuzzy, he's not it.

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Source:Psychology Today

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/valley-girl-brain/201109/6-signs-hes-just-not-you

Sometimes ago someone was suggesting there was a CS mafia…
Well…I still don’t clearly understand their motivation but they are...And they are playing a weird and potentially dangerous game for sure.
Perhaps they are just ghosts haunting one or another prison, forced to invent themselves a life here to survive in their private hell.
Or perhaps romance scam business?
I mean not those pathetic mails that we all receive from time to time. The stupid ones are just wrote to hide the real stuff…
We should remember Blogs are the best place for scammers. It allow them to create many profiles and use one to authenticate another…
Well actually none of my business but since they are over busy with me recently, I’m a bit worried…Not for myself but for someone very dear to me…
I don’t think they hope to scam me…Rather believe that they try to push me out of here because I’m hanging around you too much…So please be very careful, several people have been murdered by romance scammers...
Watch out please!



Nigerian scammers after murdering a woman have been even asking money to give the body back to the family...what a wonderful scammers world...

Here is one to figure out. A person is lonely and would like to have more people in their life, but that person has social anxiety and finds it hard to deal with people, especially a crowded room.

How do that person find people without having to deal with people?

Anything to that? We water signs tend not to believe in it.

Placing my order. One lover boy scrubbed and brought to my room. Thank you.

Seems like everybody is going for the much coveted green card!

Much sought after by many, especially those from Asia.

Hmmm....... Maybe I should jump on the bandwagon and get myself a green card too, no?!?

So.......is there any good-hearted American out there who's willing to take in this terrible + miserable cook with greasy hair? I'd love very much to be able to get into America so that I could shop at Wal-Mart and eat at Taco Bell....and that...would be a dream come true....

Inside of myself, I have learned a lot, but I know there is something missing, or more like someone. Everyday I long for that one woman that I can come home to, to see a smiling face, and no matter what I went through that day, that face of hers will cheer me up, the woman that I can feel as we cuddle, that she feels safe in my arms, and all her troubles disappear. I long for that kind of love.

I write you name on d cloud but d wind blow it away so i write it on the sandy but d waves wash it away them i write it in my heart and there will it stay