I have been divorced now for over five years. In this time I have sought out some form of a tangible relationship. Something with depth and meaning. I am now to the point of exhaustion with the process. I like to think normal people still exist and are out there seeking the same. Searching and just as frustrated and tired of the filtration process one has to go through these days as I am. I remember dating actually being enjoyable and fun in life.
I have found at this age there seems to be many women that did not have their twenties due to having children young. Now they have become empty nesters or are on the cusp of regaining their freedom. And now its time to hit the bar scene and live it up. I myself had my twenties and now at the ripe old age of 41 have no desire to hit the clubs or live the nightlife.
It seems in between my responsibility of being an adult and productive member of society. I have obviously lost touch with reality? At this age I feel more comfortable spending a quiet evening at home with a bottle of wine or coffee is the best medicine. I prefer to travel and see places in life be it just a local road trip or breaking out the passport. I have found I have a stronger desire to go off into the woods with a tent than to go into a bar. Drinking around a campfire listening to nature is better than drinking around a bar listening to loud music.
I am very confused at this point in my life. I am not sure what the interests of a woman are in this day and age? It seems stability, security and loyalty are less preferable qualities in a man these days. Than someone who knows all the bar patrons by name or has a bong hidden away in a cabinet? I personally dont get it or understand it anymore.
I have a question but it has no answer because I am a girl. Who show me why men love BAD girls?
Hi every one I am Dave
I am Here to tel you about my first long-term Relationship with a Girl witch ended on Her Cheating on Me well I met a Girl name Bianca well we started Dating at September 2011 and we went Camping and stuff and we were good Couple but as November 2012 came and Gone My X Girlfriend was Hiding some thing from me I found out in december 2012 16 she was Cheating on Me with her Brothers Best Friend I confronted theme and I told bianca we were going to Get engaged but not any more I walked away from the Cheater I have never Cheated on a Women Regards David HoutBay Cape Town
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Well 2 Years after my X Girlfriend Cheated on me I Have made sure I want to do work and work hard on Connecting Singles but I am Ready for a New Relationship and Marriage well let's do Connecting singles and I am Ready xoxo Dave
Mr. X met Ms. Y on a dating site a year ago.They met for coffee.
Why not be friends ??? Arranged another meeting.She was busy ,he was busy.Did not happen.
A year passed,Ms.Y joined the other site,kept a photo private,got a message from Mr.X,replyed saying they met in real life,gave some details of their meeting,didn't mention her name,did not open a picture.He did not remember.OK...The end of a story..???.No way...!!!
A month ago she uploaded a new photo...guess what ? Ms.Y got a message on her mobile phone...from Mr.X...he was keeping her number...
Just wondering...what will happen this time...what do you think???
Hi Everyone!
I write to say good-bye. I truly enjoyed all the friendly folks on this site. You guys are very entertaining and just a great bunch of people. I wish you all the best. Thank you for making me feel welcome. Hugs to all!
Dumped by her boyfriend after 7 weeks of dating.
#3 is the final straw, if you ask me
online today!
about six years back.....i met a man through my female friend....at that time i really had no any idea about dating sites.....as i had problems with relations and my caste people are very different from other caste people....
i was very secret in meeting this man....after few meetings ....he was very nice to me and showering with gifts and also made lot of lunch meetings....
as time passed.....i did meet him for few days away from my place....he was totally very affectionate with me....then he started to pressure me for marriage....which was not possible
for me....due to my personal problems at home...
so i explained him everything......but....he refuse to take no
for an answer.....then with lot of difficult....through some of my friends i made him leave me.....
now after 5 years passed.....i happen to meet him....i kept my distance but he keeps sending messages through my female friend.....one message i received from it says.....i was the lucky person for him .....since i left him he started facing all troubles.....so i should rethink my decision atleast now....
i am a person i do not believe in luck....he is really giving me trouble..... what a luck(i mean headache)