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It is funny how one can think that another person is gullible!

Why does one take time out to sign on and create a profile in sites like CS? So many reasons and each one will be valid for that person who created the profile. Some may put real and truthful information while others may not. And again - each one will have his/her own reason for doing so.

Alas! Some of the users think that they can click on someone - and voila! Love springs eternal!!!

That's very funny - and as such sums up how the world looks at the moment!

This must be Andi week and no one told me about it. Usually, I get emails or text messages like Black Friday sales, but Andi shows up unannounced. Yesterday, a new profile appeared with photos of Andi. I won't give out her handle, but she's 31 from Mississippi, if you are curious. I've lost count now if it's the 3rd or 4th Andi appearing on CS this month, but she's been popular with scammers. For many years, Andi photos have appeared on dating sites.

There is another dating site I visit and 2 bogus Andi profiles appeared last night. One from Spain and one from Brazil. Both profiles share the same photos. It's a free site, but you cannot send or read messages without paying... So much for being free. That doesn't matter as many new members buy a month of premium membership and blast out messages to standard members. Small audience and short lived as contact information (email or phone) is prohibited on the first 2 contacts.

So what's it about Andi that makes her so popular? She's adult model Andi Land who has been around more than a decade. Google her name and you will see she's very attractive, slender with black hair in a distinctive style that's parted on one side and 'wraps' around to the other side. Most of her photos are just normal poses so you won't get to see the 'over the top' cleavage and oozing with slut. That's probably why her photos are used so often as the girl next door approach is so believable.

While watching some 'how to avoid car repair ripoffs' videos, I came across an episode of the TV show 60 minutes, about Nigerian scammers and how successful they really are.

This episode was based in Australia and Rosalee a woman gave $90,000 as a loan to a man she met online via photos but never met in-person. In addition to the loan, she incurred another $15,000 in phone calls.

She believes he will repay the loan.
Her brother sought the help of professional investigators. They traced the money trail to Malaysia. They created a reverse sting to scam the scammer and were able to nab the scammer and his accomplices. His phone had her number and 81 other Australian women he had been scamming.

They go to Malaysian prison then deportation back to Nigeria.


"He promised me absolutely a new life"

After telling Rosalee the outcome of the scam, she returns to the computer to find another guy. The investigators research him and he too is a scammer.

"Nobody buys me a drink... that's the whole problem"

Is. He a devil?....I am not trying
To insult any men here in the blogs...
This is a true story....I am really
Scared deep down....I have not
Slept...past 2days....that handsome
Faced man looking ...was he
A human ?....I am quite confused.
Men were created with the desire and need for sex to procreate. They want and need that. Women are created to nurture to provide the continuation of the species....
Basic is understood.
That is all ok
But....women.
Need(sometimes lot of) time to
Think...no?
I do understand
No doubt god made.
Them that way..
But..what about
Sixth sense...civilization
Working towards
For a better society
Quite shocking...
They could just
Think in one direction
Do they think
Women are desperate?
emotional and physical companionship.
Needs to come
From inside feelings
No?
I thought..
Trust, Loyalty, and Honesty. Is everything
That matters before
Relationship
Am I wrong?
Why act like women put on this earth to please him?
there are a lot of honest men out there they want nothing but love respect and honesty from a girl …isnt it? but every relationship has expectations ..
I do have good
Understanding
Of this....
I
think the genders are equal when it comes to wanting “things" from the opposite sex. Whether it be dinner, sex, gifts, a home, etc…
As normal human beings..
No?
A give and take
Both sides. Right?
Not every girl is crazy about handsome face and body built up....some are okay with ordinary looks. Not so good physical built ...too, so it's not about being the most handsome man of this world.
Unlike men, women are not primarily driven by looks. Most often than not, we will decide if we are attracted to a man because of how that man makes us feel.
We want a man who is in control but not controlling. There’s a difference.
When we say "I love you", we mean it.
Even when we are in love with you, we hate many things that you do but we will never tell you.
Either we seen bad
Experience of other
Girls. Or had personal
Bad experiance
Or heard from reliable source...
that's why we don't trust you easily.
I know the real fact.... some are
Real gentlemen.
All I am. asking is ...What's wrong
In saying.....
Thanks for your apparent interest in me (whatever the name) but I’m not really interested in going that direction with you,”
How many times
To say...I’m not interested, sorry.”
finally exhausted with this bullshit and feeling forced to lie: I have a boyfriend.

I think some can not take
No for an answer....
Dear men,
We respect you a lot and we want you to respect us. Both male and female together make this society, let's walk hand in hand, you take a step, we'll take another. This journey will be more beautiful! For women, it’s about the endless journey not the destination.

A good relationship is one where both partners feel fulfilled, respected, and supported. Some key ingredients for a healthy relationship include:

Communication: Good communication is key to a healthy relationship. Partners should feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings with each other and actively listen to each other.
Trust: Trust is essential for a good relationship. Both partners should feel confident in each other's honesty and reliability.
Respect: A good relationship is built on mutual respect. Partners should value each other's opinions, decisions, and boundaries.
Support: A good relationship involves supporting each other through life's ups and downs.
Flexibility: Relationships can change and grow over time, and a good relationship requires flexibility and adaptability to change.
Shared values and goals: Having shared values and goals can help keep partners on the same page and build a strong foundation for the relationship.
Independence: While a good relationship involves intimacy and interdependence, partners should also maintain their own individuality and pursue their own interests.
Ultimately, a good relationship is one that works for both partners and where both partners feel happy, fulfilled, and valued.

She walks in, all eyes on her, With a smile that could light up the room. She dances to the beat, never a blur, Her laughter, infectious as a tune.

Her dress, a glittering array, Her hair, styled to perfection. She moves like she's in a ballet, Her grace, a never-ending reflection.

She is the life of the party, Her energy, never subsiding. She brings joy to everyone, hearty, Her spirit, always abiding.

But beneath the smiles and the laughter, Lies a soul searching for more. She is searching for something after, A love that will endure.

So here's to the party girl, Who brings light to the darkest of nights. May she find what she's searching for, And may her spirit always take flight.

It has been proven time and time again - you will only know one's true colors when faced with adversities.

A relationship that has stayed strong despite distance and COVID has remained strong - yet for a misunderstanding of few dollars worth - it was shattered.

I believe for marriage to work one partner must be a fool play a fool

in dunkirk ny too bad she smokes if you are a guy look at her photos too unreal