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Sure, many searching singles are without children. Or the 'kids' have long left the roost. But in a surprising number of cases, at whatever age, mom or dad still has one or more at home. There are rare cases of children with severe developmental disorders, making life on their own too hard. Parents as saints. Potentially great partners. But mostly, things are quite different. Stepping into a step parent role isn't for the faint of heart, with offspring of any age.The situations where I've seen it work well seem all to have been among the practicing religious. One more thing to think/worry about?

....perhaps important after finally finding committed romance. I suspect that for some of us, visits to CS represent more than mere searching for a partner. I often see members who clearly state that they are already in a relationship, and are here for other reasons, whatever this might mean. Myself, I wonder if a partner could believe that after linking up, remaining on CS for reasons other than finding someone new, would be a healthful possibility. Perhaps CS could have a dedicated section for such lucky people. Partners might write blogs together.

don't contact me as we won't be a match because so much emphasis is on looks. It makes me wonder, if you are hoping that I am better looking than the ones that I have posted OR if you are worried that I am much uglier, than the ones I have. Well, if you hope that I am better looking, I think I AM (well not the bunny one anyway), and if you are worried if I am uglier I am not (or confident enough to THINK so LOL,) but look at my age, if you worry if I have more wrinkles or gray hair etc. I will, eventually, and I have enough money to either send me or my plastic surgeon on a trip but not both so I will NOT be having plastic surgery and if getting older, bothers you so much than we do not need to meet. If you are near my age you do not look as ¨hot¨ as when you are younger either and I am hoping (against all hope I guess) that in this stage of our life, we have gone beyond that. The other blog explains why the bunny photo looks different is on the other blog.

The reason for why that silly bunny photo as my main one, was NOT to fool anyone, but I wanted someone who actually READS the profile and not just be reacting in a Pavlovian way to the picture and has a sense of humor so is not mad, but rather amused at this explanation! (And if you don't read this, well..at least I have't changed THAT much, after all I'm in my fifties NOT my nineties!)

The main pic was taken ahhh...let's say about the time McCain left the Hanoi Hilton, and for those of you, not ...cognizant of current events that was NOT during the last presidential election (which I KNOW which is what some men thought in the past so I guess the pic is also a litmus test for one's intelligence and men, PLEASE don't take umbrage, NOT an indictment of ALL men, operative word is "SOME'.")

Human beings are puzzling creatures. The more I interact with them, be it in matters of business, family, love, etc. . .it's like people make me feel more extra-terrestrial with each experience I have. I don't mind being "weird" or "oddball", however it does start to make one feel alone in the big ol' yoUniverse when you keep running into folks that aren't on the same page, chapter, or even the same genre of book as you.

I really find it exciting when I meet people that aren't satisfied with religion. They have an insatiable hunger that going to temple/church and just reading the sacred texts and praying when they need things, just isn't enough. People that eat, sleep, & breathe the divine and see the Creator in all aspects of life. That's refreshing.

I think it's awesome when I meet people that are strong enough to be 100% themselves. Authenticity is a massive turn-on to me. ---- How can you find the perfect one, when you're pretending to be something you're not ? So that when you do meet that one who knocks your socks off, you've spent so much time and energy into luring them in with this "fake persona", that little by little, time chips away. Til one day they wake up beside you, and are like "Who the f*ck ARE you?" and then they leave, because you sold them a lie.

It's incredible when a man is so into a potential partner, that not only does he protect him/her from others; he protects them from himself. Keeping his own desires at bay, enough to display respectful behavior at all times. Nothing says: "I love you", more than a partner that has self control over their carnal desires. Everyone has a "beast" but that doesn't mean its attractive to be let loose just because you've got him/her alone in a room or in private chat.

Another turn on is people that are open to being friends first, and taking the time to learn about one another while having fun in each other's company; be it sharing silly jokes, or playing game together, or just having a chat when you're free to do so . . . as often as you two feel the need to spend time.

It's also impressive when you meet a person that can relate to you emotionally. Having ones feelings validated, speaks volumes. Showing compassion by being there and holding space for the other person, that allows them to feel safe with you emotionally - letting them know it's okay to be vulnerable around you, that you're trust worthy enough to be the rock they needed in that moment.

Things that suck, is when people are manipulative - when they lie - gaslighting - jumping to conclusions or assuming you know what's going on with the other, before getting all your facts straight << The worst is when a fight is started from that bullshit Aries and Capricorn are good for that crap (now, I'm not saying that every Aries/Capricorn in existence is that way - however, I don't trust either of them until I see a consistent pattern of behavior that proves otherwise)

Other things that turn me off: being disrespected, being treated as if there's something wrong about having or expressing emotions, being referred to by my anatomy, being groped, being referred to as an infant (anyone that calls a person they are sexually attracted to "baby" repulses me - sex and infant/baby don't go together unless the person is a p3dophile). Adults should refer to one another as adults, when things are going down a romantic route. Calling me baby is one of the swiftest ways to burn the bridge with me and get blocked.

I just prefer real genuine people. You don't have to agree on every single thing in life 100 % to be friends or even in a relationship. You can agree to disagree. Variety exists for a reason. Why spend so much time and energy trying to please friends and family, so that at the end of the day you feel empty and alone because you're too scared no one will love the real you ?

You better start loving yourself first. If people have problem with who you are, then they don't love you

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...find committed love, with a grounded, self sufficient and sober person, right cheer on CS. Probably also applies to other sites as well. Why an expert? Like with truthful, addicted smokers, who say they can quit any time, as they have done so quite often. My half dozen marriages to CS ladies, which would have lasted if they were as nearly perfect as I am, makes me eminently qualified. The secrets? Well there really are none. But here goes. Above all, be patient, and willing to put in the effort to vet the many scammers, and nutters. Among the latter, are those on their own great Mandela, traipsing impatiently from one abusive entanglement to YET another. But don't take my word for it. Just ask any pregnant 15 year old about the ages when mom, aunts, sisters and even grannies got pregnant, and where is the father now. These things, as with addictions, of ANY sorts, tend to be cultural, and familiar,---perhaps even genetic. But healing can take place, again with effort, first by conquering personal denial, and then therapeutic work, which can also involve the tincture of time. Learn how to vet scammers, and many folks here, including the site itself, have all the valid tips you'll ever need. And put all these into practice. So I won't bore you with these details. OK, so now you are down to the 5-10% of really eligible and quite real, potential lifetime squeezes. Read their Blogs and Forums, and other stuff they place here---more info to judge intelligence, sense of humour, temperament and even a little history, details of which come further down the line. (See, oh you CS lemmings, TBC.) Cultivate a history of chatting, and not merely a few brief notes, and if possible, hint at banter, --- even flirting some---in use of language, one sign of intelligence, and lots more that is good. Chat HERE, as advised by all sites, and wait a long while before jumping to more unprotected email. A test of patience, and lots more. Avoid initial questions about what potentials are searching for here, how long they've been here, their jobs, and other such stuff. Better to let all this emerge, perhaps except for the darkest ones, which it will, indirectly, during chats, as trust slowly grows. The really dark ones seem, over time, to improve WITHIN a good relationship, and emerge best then, with loving support.Try to reveal yourself over time, in stages, best when both parties share challenges, here in all that you write. Secrets, and we all have them, some quite shameful, are best described on the front end. As my flight instructor always said, better on the ground, than in the air, No? Be prepared to let go with grace, of those, even with whom you have invested lots of time, as surely the time will not be wasted, as you'll learn much about others, their locations, and above all, about yourself. And if, when they return, much later, see this as a gift, not something to cop childish attitudes about. So, now you are well within the tiny percentage of possibles. Time to go to private email, texts, Skype, etc. But since most of you reading this will now be almost asleep, TBC.

...and for those suffering from the deep cognitive functional word finding losses of Trump Derangement-Hilary Deficit Syndrome---this would be a powerful agent of seduction. Ugly, Chihuahua hung member of the unwelcome Tribe Kissinger, was never seen without a total blonde hottentottie on his arm. His secret, quothe he, is neither money, nor a horsie schlong. No, no no, my CS friends. Intelligence, lots of it, and the ability to seductively spread it about, with a minimum of fanfare. INTELLIGENCE, now THERE''s the rub. But don't just take my word for it. I'll set up chairs near my front porch at the Vierk mansions, with plenty of hot chocolate, for all to come and watch all the late night scratching at my front door. Just sayin'. But ever since the urban legend of Spanish Fly, lots of such agents have been touted, with only mixed success. Any of your own personal myths.

...can be a complicating issue in forming a new relationship. Apparently, many are so suspicious from being burned by lies, that often, the truth is hard to hear, and they are sent packing. Often, honestly telling potential partners that I live near my ex, principally so our kids can live near both parents, and many other positive reasons, such as remaining friends is often good for kids, well, he result isn't good. I wonder if men behave similarly with such stories from a potential female partner. Especially if there's absolutely no threat from the ex.

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