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Using private email, etc. straight away, here on CS....
.....on the recommendation of others. Sure, often, scammers are just looking for valid email addresses to market. Their vetting away isn't hard, and even fun, at times. But what else could be going on?
Well, lots, it would seem. The most common is that most often search without reading profiles, and then beginning to THINK..
Next, private mail is more personal. But, really, what's to hide, and from whom? I know the CS cyberscrutinizer spends nearly every minute at work focused only on my every word. But c'mon, folks, showing the same interest in the private mail of the rabble? Highly unlikely.
Then some say they don't get here often, which, like saying that I'm "new" here, is often a clue to scammers. But not always. In the West we are lucky to have the wherewithal to enjoy lots of IT time, on different platforms.. But in some places, there are real barriers to such,,such as work, money, etc. My ISP is powerful and dirt cheap, but some aren't so crafty or fortunate.
I bet shyness enters in here at times. But again, on our awesome CS, access to our personal thoughts of love, and to my ruses to entrap the unsuspecting hottie tart, are quite private.
There are many other such reasons for not wanting to take the time to chat a bit here at first, while we explore possibilities. And some can be clues to character traits, that some may find undesirable. I value patience, for example, so there.
Now moving on to the darker side of human behaviors, these styles may also be a sign of the need to control. Shocked, I know, that there may be such types lurking out here in CS wounded warrior spaces. But beware. I see this regularly, and it can present with the request to use private mail, and then to effect a block. Yep, the marriage ring rests not only on the finger, but often under the nose.
Lots more reasons. I find that with real and grounded people, after a few turns at the keyboard, we can either, rarely, progress, or decide to look elsewhere. Saying good bye nicely. And rarely, this morphs into ongoing acquaintanceship. Which of course might even have covert, circumstantial chances at blossoming, in their own rights.
Lot's of reasons. Varying level of class.
Well, lots, it would seem. The most common is that most often search without reading profiles, and then beginning to THINK..
Next, private mail is more personal. But, really, what's to hide, and from whom? I know the CS cyberscrutinizer spends nearly every minute at work focused only on my every word. But c'mon, folks, showing the same interest in the private mail of the rabble? Highly unlikely.
Then some say they don't get here often, which, like saying that I'm "new" here, is often a clue to scammers. But not always. In the West we are lucky to have the wherewithal to enjoy lots of IT time, on different platforms.. But in some places, there are real barriers to such,,such as work, money, etc. My ISP is powerful and dirt cheap, but some aren't so crafty or fortunate.
I bet shyness enters in here at times. But again, on our awesome CS, access to our personal thoughts of love, and to my ruses to entrap the unsuspecting hottie tart, are quite private.
There are many other such reasons for not wanting to take the time to chat a bit here at first, while we explore possibilities. And some can be clues to character traits, that some may find undesirable. I value patience, for example, so there.
Now moving on to the darker side of human behaviors, these styles may also be a sign of the need to control. Shocked, I know, that there may be such types lurking out here in CS wounded warrior spaces. But beware. I see this regularly, and it can present with the request to use private mail, and then to effect a block. Yep, the marriage ring rests not only on the finger, but often under the nose.
Lots more reasons. I find that with real and grounded people, after a few turns at the keyboard, we can either, rarely, progress, or decide to look elsewhere. Saying good bye nicely. And rarely, this morphs into ongoing acquaintanceship. Which of course might even have covert, circumstantial chances at blossoming, in their own rights.
Lot's of reasons. Varying level of class.
Something I've often wondered
If all the men who, upon seeing an atractive woman walk by, have said to their companions something along the lines of, "I'd like to give her a good seeing to", were given the oportunity to fulfil that wish, I wonder how many of those women would afterwards consider themselves to have been well seen to. Not too many is my guess. 
In last desperate attempt Trump FINALLY found something that is truly on Joe Biden
Today in The New Yorker;
I can sort of understand Trump's shock, that a man could stay loyal to the woman he marries.
To Trump something is very wrong with that.
In response to:
Satire from The Borowitz Report
Desperate Trump Alleges Ties Between Joe Biden and Jill Biden
By Andy Borowitz
October 23, 2020
WASHINGTON (The Borowitz Report)—In an attempt to gin up an “October surprise,” an increasingly desperate Donald J. Trump demanded an investigation into alleged links between Joe Biden and Jill Biden.
“People are saying that he is very close to her,” Trump told Sean Hannity, of Fox News. “There’s something going on.”
Trump said that there are “tens of thousands of e-mails” between Joe Biden and Jill Biden, a state of affairs that he called “disgraceful.”
“We need to move quite strongly on the e-mails, and also on the bank records,” Trump said, arguing that money has “flowed freely” between the two Bidens for decades.
In his most serious accusation, Trump warned that a President Joe Biden would be “under the influence” of Dr. Jill Biden because of their extensive ties.
“Joe Biden has been listening to a doctor for forty-three years,” he alleged.
Andy Borowitz is a Times best-selling author and a comedian
who has written for The New Yorker since 1998.
He writes The Borowitz Report, a satirical column on the news.
Satire from The Borowitz Report
Desperate Trump Alleges Ties Between Joe Biden and Jill Biden
By Andy Borowitz
October 23, 2020
WASHINGTON (The Borowitz Report)—In an attempt to gin up an “October surprise,” an increasingly desperate Donald J. Trump demanded an investigation into alleged links between Joe Biden and Jill Biden.
“People are saying that he is very close to her,” Trump told Sean Hannity, of Fox News. “There’s something going on.”
Trump said that there are “tens of thousands of e-mails” between Joe Biden and Jill Biden, a state of affairs that he called “disgraceful.”
“We need to move quite strongly on the e-mails, and also on the bank records,” Trump said, arguing that money has “flowed freely” between the two Bidens for decades.
In his most serious accusation, Trump warned that a President Joe Biden would be “under the influence” of Dr. Jill Biden because of their extensive ties.
“Joe Biden has been listening to a doctor for forty-three years,” he alleged.
Andy Borowitz is a Times best-selling author and a comedian
who has written for The New Yorker since 1998.
He writes The Borowitz Report, a satirical column on the news.
I can sort of understand Trump's shock, that a man could stay loyal to the woman he marries.
To Trump something is very wrong with that.
I love my ex's
My ex BF's are such phenomenal teachers. I am beyond grateful for what love and support they were able to provide, when we were together. For those karmic relationships that went toxic and abusive, I am even thankful for those lessons in boundaries, self-care, and protection.
The amazing thing is, once completely & safely away and out of those situations, that's when the clarity comes in; you can see the value, of what looks in the thick of fresh wounds, to seem like hell. Well yeah, in the moment, it is. A yoUniversal hazing and initiation of sorts. "That which does not kill you, makes you stronger."
I can't tell you how many people that have either seen what one specific ex did to me (when he forgot I had the cam and mic on, while in the chatroom) - calling me a strong woman. That never went to my head, because I just didn't believe it. It's hard to. I'm starting to see it now, though.
My twin flame is the best ex anyone could ever have. I just wish my relationship with my other ex's, were as golden as with him. Despite differences, I cherish him so much and always will.
I appreciate the Scorpio Chiropractor's depth. We shared such a DEEP bond and connection, regardless of him being 30 yrs older than me. I love that so much, and value him taking it to a level that was of importance to me when he took me out into the mountains and into his garden. Spending time with Gaia together. That means the world to me.
I value the organic groceries that the Sagittarius Healer went out of his way to buy me (almost weekly). I never asked him to do that. When he found out how much my EBT deposit amounts were per month, and looked at the cost of organic foods - he just took it upon himself to jump in and make sure I had all I needed. I am also grateful for the AIKI martial arts moves he taught me, and he too taking me out into his fruit tree garden and showing me how to help him in caring for those tree's (some had fungal infections).
And although the Pisces Chemical Engineer is not yet an ex, I do want to give props for the time he gives me out of his busy day to just share his technical world with me. Just like Johnny 5 in Short Circuit, he knows I get off on INPUT. So telling me all the technicalities that go into water waste treatment and converting plastics into fuel - the sh*t blows my phukking mind. I love it. Even moreso, what I value most about him is that when he saw in himself how his treatment of me was effecting me, the fact that he (instead of blaming me as the others before him did) he consciously chose NOT to project, but instead of saying "I'm sorry" in words, he simply did corrective actions. He not only changed his behavior, but he also worked towards remedying the wound that he observed was created.
So in this post, I merely wish to glorify all the super shiny amazing aspects of those that have been in my life. And this is how I KNOW the more I practice the Law of Attraction, the more I SEE/Experience the manifestations of it playing out in my relationships. This guy I'm involved with right now, he's TOTALLY accountable.
I started this practice of using L.O.A. back in 2010, after having read The Secret. And I have seen all the relationships (despite some manipulations here and there, and downright either mental/financial/s*xual/physical/ spiritual abuse) --- the other stuff, has gotten gradually better and better.
It's like, the more spiritual work I do . . . all the fasting and helping others selflessly . . .the self-love spiritual baths. . . all the internal processes; burning down the sh*tty karma. I see the rewards with each new man that I allow into my life. And I keep being told by my spirits that my soulmate (as we have many) that specific ONE that is the end all, be all is so close. There's high possibility he finds me this year.
Just praying he lives in NM, AZ, UT, CA, Southwest CO, Southeastern OR some place in or nearest the desert.
The amazing thing is, once completely & safely away and out of those situations, that's when the clarity comes in; you can see the value, of what looks in the thick of fresh wounds, to seem like hell. Well yeah, in the moment, it is. A yoUniversal hazing and initiation of sorts. "That which does not kill you, makes you stronger."
I can't tell you how many people that have either seen what one specific ex did to me (when he forgot I had the cam and mic on, while in the chatroom) - calling me a strong woman. That never went to my head, because I just didn't believe it. It's hard to. I'm starting to see it now, though.
My twin flame is the best ex anyone could ever have. I just wish my relationship with my other ex's, were as golden as with him. Despite differences, I cherish him so much and always will.
I appreciate the Scorpio Chiropractor's depth. We shared such a DEEP bond and connection, regardless of him being 30 yrs older than me. I love that so much, and value him taking it to a level that was of importance to me when he took me out into the mountains and into his garden. Spending time with Gaia together. That means the world to me.
I value the organic groceries that the Sagittarius Healer went out of his way to buy me (almost weekly). I never asked him to do that. When he found out how much my EBT deposit amounts were per month, and looked at the cost of organic foods - he just took it upon himself to jump in and make sure I had all I needed. I am also grateful for the AIKI martial arts moves he taught me, and he too taking me out into his fruit tree garden and showing me how to help him in caring for those tree's (some had fungal infections).
And although the Pisces Chemical Engineer is not yet an ex, I do want to give props for the time he gives me out of his busy day to just share his technical world with me. Just like Johnny 5 in Short Circuit, he knows I get off on INPUT. So telling me all the technicalities that go into water waste treatment and converting plastics into fuel - the sh*t blows my phukking mind. I love it. Even moreso, what I value most about him is that when he saw in himself how his treatment of me was effecting me, the fact that he (instead of blaming me as the others before him did) he consciously chose NOT to project, but instead of saying "I'm sorry" in words, he simply did corrective actions. He not only changed his behavior, but he also worked towards remedying the wound that he observed was created.
So in this post, I merely wish to glorify all the super shiny amazing aspects of those that have been in my life. And this is how I KNOW the more I practice the Law of Attraction, the more I SEE/Experience the manifestations of it playing out in my relationships. This guy I'm involved with right now, he's TOTALLY accountable.
I started this practice of using L.O.A. back in 2010, after having read The Secret. And I have seen all the relationships (despite some manipulations here and there, and downright either mental/financial/s*xual/physical/ spiritual abuse) --- the other stuff, has gotten gradually better and better.
It's like, the more spiritual work I do . . . all the fasting and helping others selflessly . . .the self-love spiritual baths. . . all the internal processes; burning down the sh*tty karma. I see the rewards with each new man that I allow into my life. And I keep being told by my spirits that my soulmate (as we have many) that specific ONE that is the end all, be all is so close. There's high possibility he finds me this year.
Just praying he lives in NM, AZ, UT, CA, Southwest CO, Southeastern OR some place in or nearest the desert.
What's wrong with dating in the 2000s
One man's openion:::::Dating and women in general.......
1...Reasons about Dating....1:Things she wants you to do.....Dancing, don't know how?....learn......Dining out......First go to the bank and get a lone...It's called a domestic loan......For all the times you have to take her to dinner....It doesn't matter if you are on SSI, Her stomach comes first....
When you first start dating, she tells you she loves to camp out and fish.... That's camp at the Holliday Inn and fish at the stake and Ale seafood house......
1...Reasons about Dating....1:Things she wants you to do.....Dancing, don't know how?....learn......Dining out......First go to the bank and get a lone...It's called a domestic loan......For all the times you have to take her to dinner....It doesn't matter if you are on SSI, Her stomach comes first....
When you first start dating, she tells you she loves to camp out and fish.... That's camp at the Holliday Inn and fish at the stake and Ale seafood house......
About me.
I am again tired of CS and people with narrow minds on the forum.
I will probably leave soon. Again.
I might come back if something drastic happens in the world.
I could write a profile text omitting things that probably would be not popular with most women. But I have done internet dating before and it is not in our best interest, trust me.
After a couple of years of me trying to please my women I brake of the relationship for a reason or another. I have learned that people never change to the better but the opposite.
As a child I preferred to stay with my self and did not like to play typical boy stuff. I learned to read and write long before schooling and read a lot of books. Even boring books cover to cover like the bible. I always read with criticism and tried to find out more info before believing anything. I still do.
Now as an adult I am a bit different then most. I am not religious. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or drink coffee. I talk a lot when meting people and say what I think wich is not always popular. How ever I prefer not to socialize. I rather stay home. I have traveled to many countries but no I prefer not to. I do not like shopping, walking, biking and cultural stuff. I like to watch TV but only sports, history, science and science-fiction. I like to play Backgammon and Chess. I do not care about my image, so I will never buy unnecessary stuff, like new cars. I will never live in an apartment or in a city. I like to live in the countryside without close neighbors. I do not cut my lawn. I prefer the will flowers instead of cut grass.
Things I will never ever do.
Jump out of an plane.
Bungyjump.
Climb high mountains.
Take a pedal bike holiday.
And one last thing. I am always right. It is a good and bad thing I know.
I am looking for a women who is not very sociable who prefer to stay home together with me. Someone who wants to live outside the city. I like others animals but prefer not to have any my self. I prefer tall and slender women but can compromise about height.
For practical reasons I prefer only someone who already lives in EU. I will gladly relocate to southern Europe. When you contact me use my name so I know you read all of this. My name is Jens
I will probably leave soon. Again.
I might come back if something drastic happens in the world.
I could write a profile text omitting things that probably would be not popular with most women. But I have done internet dating before and it is not in our best interest, trust me.
After a couple of years of me trying to please my women I brake of the relationship for a reason or another. I have learned that people never change to the better but the opposite.
As a child I preferred to stay with my self and did not like to play typical boy stuff. I learned to read and write long before schooling and read a lot of books. Even boring books cover to cover like the bible. I always read with criticism and tried to find out more info before believing anything. I still do.
Now as an adult I am a bit different then most. I am not religious. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or drink coffee. I talk a lot when meting people and say what I think wich is not always popular. How ever I prefer not to socialize. I rather stay home. I have traveled to many countries but no I prefer not to. I do not like shopping, walking, biking and cultural stuff. I like to watch TV but only sports, history, science and science-fiction. I like to play Backgammon and Chess. I do not care about my image, so I will never buy unnecessary stuff, like new cars. I will never live in an apartment or in a city. I like to live in the countryside without close neighbors. I do not cut my lawn. I prefer the will flowers instead of cut grass.
Things I will never ever do.
Jump out of an plane.
Bungyjump.
Climb high mountains.
Take a pedal bike holiday.
And one last thing. I am always right. It is a good and bad thing I know.
I am looking for a women who is not very sociable who prefer to stay home together with me. Someone who wants to live outside the city. I like others animals but prefer not to have any my self. I prefer tall and slender women but can compromise about height.
For practical reasons I prefer only someone who already lives in EU. I will gladly relocate to southern Europe. When you contact me use my name so I know you read all of this. My name is Jens
Swedish immigration rules.
The goverment want to make it more difficult to bring relatives and new partners to Sweden. The goverment might fall on Monday 2021-06-21 due to another reason. But after a new election if the opposing parties win they want even more restrictions. So from July 20th it will be difficult to bring a partner to Sweden. Not impossible though. 2015 came about 100000 refugees. Those who could stay now want to bring their relatives. To stem this the new laws will come into effect. Unfortunatly for those who want to find love online they go by the same rules. Basically only those who have living quarters with extra available rooms and have been employed for at least 12 months with big salary can bring spouse. If you have your own buisness and have not regulary withdrawn salery you are in trouble no matter how much money you have in the bank. If you are a Swedish citizen and have lived abroad for two years with a spouse you are ok. This is the goverment will. Opposition does not want any immigrants at all.
2021-07-10
Government made new law to speed up immigration decisions. After you file a complaint that your case has been processed for to long the immigration office should give a decision within four weeks. Today I got an mms from a person who has an ongoing case since mid 2020. It's clearly stated in the letter that immigration need more time and o*al interviews and will not make decision within the 4 weeks. So the office piss on the law makers!
2021-07-10
Government made new law to speed up immigration decisions. After you file a complaint that your case has been processed for to long the immigration office should give a decision within four weeks. Today I got an mms from a person who has an ongoing case since mid 2020. It's clearly stated in the letter that immigration need more time and o*al interviews and will not make decision within the 4 weeks. So the office piss on the law makers!
Incomplete
Well before I thought there is no love people just play with every one feeling
??The meet the a person handsome cute smile ever was also came out from a broken marriage we met in this dating 4years back. I was from Fiji and he
Was in Canada we both had the same Indian background from Fiji He Send me a email here and I did reply after two days was busy scene of my family from Canada at the airport I replied his email after two days and he was surprised and happy I was the first person he talk on this dating site I still remember I called him and Heard his voice and disconnect the line because I was scared and then I called him again and tell him that Hi it’s Sharon and we talked for hours the day he planned everything with me did he want to get settle down with me and I was just giving him hopes that yeah everything will happen one day and he was happy that he got to know me I never thought that I wanna meet a person in my life who will love me so much by just talking he never want to see any tears in my eyes and he promised me that he will never cry in your life and I believe you he showed me all his love and affection and spoiling me with so many gifts chocolates. And then I thought that is just a dream I’m living in and then after seven months my dad passed away he help me out in every race bring the funeral in the prayers One day I was sitting down I was so frustrated and so lonely and he called me and I was talking to him I start crying I told him I need you I wish you were there for me and he laughed ha ha ha ha and he told me I’ll get back to you after 30 minutes I said OK he called me after 30 minutes and tell me can you just pick some stuff up from my friend he’s coming to Fiji in two days I was upset that I wish it was him and I question him so much that I don’t want anything from there and I was upset again and he couldn’t see my upset face and then he told me that he listen to me carefully I am coming to Fiji to meet you in two days and I will be with you for 2 1/2 weeks are you happy I was in cloud nine and when he came to Fiji first time I saw him I was like wow who is that handsome guy I still remember our first hug first kiss and first everything These days will never come back when he was going back to Canada I cried the airport and he laughed at me He told me don’t worry I’ll be back to see you again in three months I was happy but again I was crying when he left I never thought that I gonna be so much close to someone in my life he came after four months Henny spent 1 months with me we had lovely times he propose me to be his forever and he went back everything was going so good we bought our anniversary gifts and everything for four years seven nothing he give me all the happiness he can he never wanted to see tears in my eyes but now I’m just full with tears in pain cause it’s six months I lost him he died due to stroke I wish I was there with him to hold his hand he’s in heaven I will never find someone like him someone who love me that much and care about me in every steps ??????????our live work never die I still remember two days before passing I asked him you have to fight for me and then he told me yes he closed his eyes he told me that he love me more than anything in the world That person has love me till his last breath and I would love him till my last breath sharavi
??The meet the a person handsome cute smile ever was also came out from a broken marriage we met in this dating 4years back. I was from Fiji and he
Was in Canada we both had the same Indian background from Fiji He Send me a email here and I did reply after two days was busy scene of my family from Canada at the airport I replied his email after two days and he was surprised and happy I was the first person he talk on this dating site I still remember I called him and Heard his voice and disconnect the line because I was scared and then I called him again and tell him that Hi it’s Sharon and we talked for hours the day he planned everything with me did he want to get settle down with me and I was just giving him hopes that yeah everything will happen one day and he was happy that he got to know me I never thought that I wanna meet a person in my life who will love me so much by just talking he never want to see any tears in my eyes and he promised me that he will never cry in your life and I believe you he showed me all his love and affection and spoiling me with so many gifts chocolates. And then I thought that is just a dream I’m living in and then after seven months my dad passed away he help me out in every race bring the funeral in the prayers One day I was sitting down I was so frustrated and so lonely and he called me and I was talking to him I start crying I told him I need you I wish you were there for me and he laughed ha ha ha ha and he told me I’ll get back to you after 30 minutes I said OK he called me after 30 minutes and tell me can you just pick some stuff up from my friend he’s coming to Fiji in two days I was upset that I wish it was him and I question him so much that I don’t want anything from there and I was upset again and he couldn’t see my upset face and then he told me that he listen to me carefully I am coming to Fiji to meet you in two days and I will be with you for 2 1/2 weeks are you happy I was in cloud nine and when he came to Fiji first time I saw him I was like wow who is that handsome guy I still remember our first hug first kiss and first everything These days will never come back when he was going back to Canada I cried the airport and he laughed at me He told me don’t worry I’ll be back to see you again in three months I was happy but again I was crying when he left I never thought that I gonna be so much close to someone in my life he came after four months Henny spent 1 months with me we had lovely times he propose me to be his forever and he went back everything was going so good we bought our anniversary gifts and everything for four years seven nothing he give me all the happiness he can he never wanted to see tears in my eyes but now I’m just full with tears in pain cause it’s six months I lost him he died due to stroke I wish I was there with him to hold his hand he’s in heaven I will never find someone like him someone who love me that much and care about me in every steps ??????????our live work never die I still remember two days before passing I asked him you have to fight for me and then he told me yes he closed his eyes he told me that he love me more than anything in the world That person has love me till his last breath and I would love him till my last breath sharavi
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